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If you're looking for ways to deepen your connections, or start new ones, The Intimacy Dojo is here to inspire you and help you feel the warmth and passion you've been longing for.

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How Can A Shy Introverted Guy Encourage Women To Initiate Interactions?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IDkq4XS2ynM Cathy: One gentleman wrote and said how can shy introverts like myself encourage women to lead interactions. I think this is [...]

Is It Okay To Masturbate To Someone?

Can you fantasize about someone when you masturbate? What is the ethics around this? With Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli [...]

What Do You Do When The Chair Breaks Under You?

There is a fear, especially for bigger folks, that chairs and benches won't support them. What do you do when that happens? [...]

Self-Care Tip… Back To Back Events? What Do You Do To Take Care Of Yourself?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=02guRt_bNUE Reid: So Cathy Vartuli, how's it going after camp? Cathy: This is actually really comfortable, believe it or not. Reid: Oh. [...]

SnowBalling… Tea Bagging… What Do They Have To Do With Sex?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BkCDR9uH-F8 Cathy: So what’s snowballing and tea bagging? Reid: Oh lord. This is a video where they all unsubscribe. Cathy: Oh sorry, [...]

If I Lust In My Mind… Am I Committing Adultery?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jj0pHKMY9LY Reid: Trigger warning. There’s Bible quote coming’. Cathy: Yeah, we get a lot of comments, we love the comments and this. [...]

If I Sleep With An Older Woman, Will I Get STDs or STIs?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f1cWU3t9kSs Cathy: So, I’ve done a video with Elizabeth Wood and Dan Powers about cougar if someone had to ask about wanting [...]

Do Your Friends Just Go Along With Your Choices Because They’re Shy?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P7-pKh9j3_I Reid: So, you invited your friends to dinner. And you’re like, hey! Where do you want to go? And they don’t [...]

How Do Handle It When If You Ask- They Say No, But If Its Their Idea- They Love it?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WdWNBQb8GUY Reid: How do you handle situations where when you ask for something, the person is a no but if it’s their [...]

What Do You Do When Someone Says Everything Is Fine (In Bed) But They Don’t Mean It?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mAxRBMtFVxA Cathy: Okay. So someone write in and said I come from Asia and realized that what I’m sharing is trembles cultures, [...]

How Do I Stop Myself From “Future Tripping”?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3QIUxn94M9c Cathy: How do I stop myself when I’m future tripping for example, my primary partner doesn’t call or text me back [...]

We’re From Different Countries and Don’t Speak Each Other’s Languages? Is Our Relationship Doomed?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7qfIkAP4UfA Cathy: So, are you ready now? Reid: Ready now. Cathy: So, one of our viewers said “I’m travelling in Thailand right [...]