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Welcome to The Intimacy Dojo! 2017-08-27T04:58:19+00:00

If you're looking for ways to deepen your connections, or start new ones, The Intimacy Dojo is here to inspire you and help you feel the warmth and passion you've been longing for.

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What Do You Do When Someone Says Everything Is Fine (In Bed) But They Don’t Mean It?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mAxRBMtFVxA Cathy: Okay. So someone write in and said I come from Asia and realized that what I’m sharing is trembles cultures, [...]

How Do I Stop Myself From “Future Tripping”?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3QIUxn94M9c Cathy: How do I stop myself when I’m future tripping for example, my primary partner doesn’t call or text me back [...]

We’re From Different Countries and Don’t Speak Each Other’s Languages? Is Our Relationship Doomed?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7qfIkAP4UfA Cathy: So, are you ready now? Reid: Ready now. Cathy: So, one of our viewers said “I’m travelling in Thailand right [...]

Does Status and Gender Matter? Do Women “Settle” If They Date Someone Of Equal Status?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ISjsvYAlmVc Cathy: Someone wrote in and said that they are curious about the current state of this person mentioned Japan and US [...]

Will Strong Vibrators Numb You Out?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UWHryt9Y--Y Reid: Vibrators! Specifically the Sybian, it’s kind of like a Cadillac or John Deer tractors of vibrators the one that you [...]

Will Herpes Ruin Your Life?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4aXDcNnM3R4 Cathy: So we have number of videos on Herpes and how to deal with it what is safe or safer? And [...]

What Is Your Getting Things Done Style?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2qxWI2l7UR4 Cathy: So today we’re gonna be talking about your getting things done style. Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/. Cathy: [...]

Is It Impractical To Ask Everyone In A Cuddle Or Play Pile For Consent?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0Ahfk09maeE Cathy: Question: When discussing consent in a workshop someone asked, “How do you respond to someone claiming that it’s impractical to [...]

How Should Ejaculate Come Out When I Come? Should It Spurt Or Drip?

Wondering how cum should come out during orgasm for a penis owner? Find out with Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli [...]

How Do I Keep Casual Sex, Casual?

If you have casual sex, how do you keep the connection... casual? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GQPhQvqbW_E Cathy: So we just answered the question about how [...]

How Can I Have Casual Sex And Leave Them Feeling Great?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7p91IWa1t3w Cathy: Someone wrote in and said to Reid, I love your interview with Christopher Ryan. It was really good and he [...]

Is It Okay To Come In A Woman’s Mouth?

What's the protocol about coming in a woman's mouth when she's going down on you? With Elizabeth Wood and Dan Powers from [...]