Monthly Archives: March 2012

Love, Passion, and Playfulness in Relationships

Do you daydream about finding a loving, passionate relationship? Or do you want to bring the spark back to your current connection? The general view is you either instinctively know how to create relationships, or you don’t. There are the charismatic, attractive people… and the rest of us. Love either hits you over the head, or it doesn’t. It's easy to feel disempowered and lost when it comes to creating [...]

By | 2012-04-09T01:54:06+00:00 March 12, 2012|Uncategorized|

Frozen Around Love?

When something bad happens and we don't feel like we have any power to change or fix the problem, we often freeze. This is a normal response to trauma. If you were a wild animal, you'd quickly shake off the trauma and move on. Most humans have been trained our of the healthy release patterns, so we end up staying frozen. The pattern gets STUCK in your system. The problem is, [...]

By | 2012-03-12T20:16:48+00:00 March 12, 2012|Trauma|

Decreasing Drama in Relationships Using an Exit Strategy

We've all seen how unexpected stumbles in a relationship can create distress and drama. It doesn't matter whether you have a business partner, friend, coaching relationship, or intimate partner. Those swings can disrupt your life and drain you emotionally and energetically. Having the bottom drop out of a relationship HURTS. And the experience can leave you on guard in other connections, no matter how well they're going. Creating an exit agreement can clear a [...]

By | 2012-04-09T01:50:00+00:00 March 12, 2012|Relationship Skills|