Monthly Archives: January 2016

Want To Work With More Clients and Not Burn Out?

Ready to touch more lives and make more money? But don't want to burn out or be exhausted all the time? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from Cathy: How can I work with more clients without burning out? Someone wrote in and said they're really concerned about this. They want to make more money. They want to reach more people and they're feeling burnt out. Reid: Well, [...]

By | 2016-01-04T08:09:46+00:00 January 29, 2016|Energy, Relationship Skills|

How Can You Use Internal or Female Condoms?

 Curious about how to use internal or female condoms? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from   Reid: Pring! Pring! Hello? Oh yes, you have a question about putting on internal condoms or what we used to be called female condoms? Hang on! We'll shoot that video. Cathy Vartuli from Intimacy Dojo, it's for you. Cathy: Thank you, Reid Mihalko from Wow, can we be cornier? [...]

By | 2016-01-07T12:22:53+00:00 January 27, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Uncategorized|

Do You Need To Pinch The Tip When You Put On A Condom?

How important is it to pinch the tip of the condom when you put it on? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from Reid: This one goes [inaudible 00:00:06] this one goes [inaudible 00:00:07] because it's muffled, because it's got a condom on it. Okay, last condom video, we didn't talk about pinching the tip to roll it out. Pinch the tip, because you don't want air [...]

By | 2016-01-07T08:42:18+00:00 January 23, 2016|Dating, Event, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Can Being Too Dry Cause The Condom To Tear?

Will the condom tear if you don't have enough lube? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from   Cathy: There it goes. So someone wrote in and said she is inexperienced having multiple-partner sex. She's ... Reid: She's inexperienced having multiple-partnered sex? Cathy: Yeah. So she had some questions. Reid: Multi partners, meaning more than one person in the bed? Cathy: Mm-hmm (affirmative). Reid: Excellent. Cathy: Yes, [...]

By | 2016-01-07T08:43:23+00:00 January 20, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills|

Consecutive or Concurrent Dating?

How do you like to date? And can Reid remember the word? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from     Reid: Hello everybody, it's Reid Mihalko from Cathy: And Cathy Vartuli from Reid: And we have an answer. We figured out from this other video that we're shooting about concurrent and congruent relationships, and I'm like, that's not the word. The word is consecutive. [...]

By | 2016-04-13T11:44:35+00:00 January 17, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Can You Tell When The Condom Breaks During Intercourse?

Can you feel it when the condom breaks or tears during intercourse? What can you pay attention to? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from   Cathy: Can a man feel if a condom tears while he's having intercourse? One of our readers, or watchers, wrote in and asked us. This is Reid Mihalko for with his coffee. Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli, the coffee-less Cathy [...]

By | 2016-01-07T08:44:44+00:00 January 14, 2016|Dating, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

If You Giggle When You’re Nervous, How Do You Let People Know You’re Not Flirting?

Do you giggle and laugh when you feel nervous? Do people think you're flirting? What can you do? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from Cathy: We had someone write in and say that … well she’s really shy, she tends to smile and laugh when people flirt with her. Reid: We switched sides. That’s going to screw everybody up. Cathy: Yeah. Reid: What were you saying? [...]

By | 2016-06-23T11:57:19+00:00 January 11, 2016|Dating, Flirting|

Herpes and Masturbation

Can you get Herpes from masturbation? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from Cathy: Can you get herpes just by masturbating? Reid: I’m Reid Mihalko from Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from Reid: The answer is technically no. Cathy: No. Reid: Yeah. Now, if you were touching somebody else’s genitals, or their face, or wherever they were having herpes outbreak, and then you took that hand [...]

By | 2016-01-07T08:51:24+00:00 January 8, 2016|Sex Geeks|

Parental Care and Child Care…How Do I Date?

Does Online Dating save time? I'm so busy! With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from Cathy: One of you wrote in, "Help. I'm sandwiched between my teens, my elderly father, and being super busy at work. I'm looking for a great relationship and an awesome lover. Is online the way to go? I'm Cathy Vartuli from Reid: I’m Reid Mihalko from Cathy: What do you [...]

By | 2016-01-08T12:54:27+00:00 January 5, 2016|Dating, Relationship Skills|

I Fell Out Of Love… Now What Do I Do?

What do you do if you aren't in love and you want to be friends? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from Cathy: One of our viewers wrote in and said, "I just broke up with my girlfriend. She said I think you're making a big mistake. I just don't like her as much as she likes me and I feel bad about it. We were together [...]

By | 2016-01-05T10:09:33+00:00 January 2, 2016|Relationship Skills|