Monthly Archives: February 2016

Intimacy and Connection: Taking, with Betty Martin

There is give and take in every relationship. Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com interviews Betty Martin from http://www.BettyMartin.org about Taking. Cathy: Hi everyone. I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, here with Betty Martin from http://www.BettyMartin.org. We're delighted to have her. She has vast experience and really great insights. In the previous video, we talked about being done to. Now we're going to talk about taking. Betty: In the context of those several [...]

By | 2016-01-07T12:37:42+00:00 February 27, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Receiving vs Being Done To: Betty Martin on Intimacy

There is give and take in every relationship. Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com interviews Betty Martin from http://www.BettyMartin.org about receiving and being "done to." Cathy: Hi everyone. I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, I’m here with Betty Martin fromhttp://www.BettyMartin.org. Betty has great insight into how people can have more intimacy and connection in really powerful ways. Some of it is really subtle, but it makes just a delightful difference. Betty, what is the [...]

By | 2016-01-07T12:37:27+00:00 February 24, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Charming Partner Causing Jealousy Issues and Gossip?

How do you deal with a charming partner who has lots of people who pull at him... and gossip about you? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: One of you amazing viewers just wrote in. Cathy: She wrote in and said that, there's been some jealousy and people that are kind of pulling at her boyfriend and, she's feeling kind of overwhelmed. Her boyfriend happens [...]

By | 2016-01-04T09:51:58+00:00 February 21, 2016|Dating, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Taking and Receiving: With Betty Martin

There is give and take in every relationship. Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com interviews Betty Martin from http://www.BettyMartin.org about making taking and receiving consciously. Cathy: Today, we're talking about taking and receiving. I'm here with Betty Martin from http://www.BettyMartin.org. I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Betty, why is it important for people to understand the difference between giving and receiving? Betty: That's a great question, and that's one that's really very often confusing [...]

By | 2016-01-19T13:15:33+00:00 February 20, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Intimacy and Connection: Allowing, with Betty Martin

There is give and take in every relationship. Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com interviews Betty Martin from http://www.BettyMartin.org about Allowing. Cathy: Hi, everyone. I'm Cathy Vartuli from www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. You're with Betty Martin from www.BettyMartin.org. We're going to be talking about 'allowing' now. Betty, why is that important? Why do we need to talk about this? Betty: Because it is so fun. That's why. Cathy: (Laughing). I love talking about fun things. [...]

By | 2016-04-14T11:34:43+00:00 February 17, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Playing with Touch and Intimacy: with Betty Martin

There is give and take in every relationship. Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com interviews Betty Martin from http://www.BettyMartin.org about playing with touch and intimacy. Cathy: I'm Cathy Vartuli from www.TheIntimacyDojo.com here with Betty Martin from www.BettyMartin.org. She's going to share the three-minute game with us. Hey, Betty. Betty: Hey! (Laugh). My favorite topic. Cathy: Is it? Betty: Yes. Pretty much. I'm writing a book on it. We've been talking with you [...]

By | 2016-01-07T12:36:22+00:00 February 14, 2016|Dating, Flirting|

Taking the Confusion Out of Giving Intimacy: With Betty Martin

Cathy: Hi everyone. I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Here with Betty Martin fromhttp://www.BettyMartin.org. We're talking about giving. Now, have you ever been confused about giving and felt a little awkward about it? Betty is going to show us some ways to make it more clear and easy. Thanks, Betty. Betty: Thank you. First I want to define giving, because it can be thought of in a lot of ways. In our [...]

By | 2016-01-08T06:07:12+00:00 February 11, 2016|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Want To Become A Sex Educator? Not Sure Where To Start?

Curious about what it takes to be a sex educator? What about the different types of sex educators? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.   Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, "How does a layperson become a sex educator?  Reid: You said lay. Sorry. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from http://www ReidAboutSex.com. How does a model ... have you ever [...]

By | 2016-01-04T08:07:08+00:00 February 8, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills|

How Do Seniors Meet Energetic Passionate Partners?

How do people in their 50's on up meet amazing partners? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: “What advice can you give someone to a senior person wanting to meet a partner that enjoy life with?” Reid: Okay. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: And Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Aha! We have been seniors, it was like in high school or college. So [...]

By | 2016-01-07T09:18:53+00:00 February 5, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills|

Can A 55 Year Old Woman Have 5 Boyfriends?

We say, Yes! Here's some steps to get there! With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid:  I'm going to start reading it and then start the video? Cathy:  Yeah. You're so helpful, thank you. Someone wrote in and said, "What is it like for a lively woman of 55 to have five boyfriends. I'm thinking I would like this, but don't know how to go about [...]

By | 2016-01-07T09:20:32+00:00 February 2, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills|