Monthly Archives: July 2017

Saying No To Your Partner In A Loving Way…

Its important to be able to set boundaries with your partner and say no... How do you do that in a way that leaves them cared about? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e88yKbgodJ4 Cathy: We had people writing in. We discussed how you set boundaries when that’s what you need in your relationship. And what if your partner does or doesn’t want to, like, do [...]

By | 2017-05-05T12:39:56+00:00 July 31, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

The Importance of Fact Checking…

The Importance of Fact Checking... Why does it matter if you check facts before sharing information? Find out more with Dr. Liz from http://www.SexPositivePsych.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vWWfBIFBt9Q Cathy: We’d like to talk about the importance of fact checking especially in social media. This is Dr. Liz from https://www.sexpositivepsych.com/   Liz: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.theintimacydojo.com/   Cathy: And this is again a delicate topic. We seem [...]

By | 2017-09-01T16:19:03+00:00 July 30, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Restitution… Is it Important Or Not?

When do you make amends and when is okay to let things go? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xa1AEORxN9s Cathy: Restitution should you do it and is it good? Start, if you don’t like the I way, start. Don’t you laugh? Reid: I just want to say, I love people stay and watching videos. Cathy: They‘re already tolerating you so much. Reid: In this video, [...]

By | 2017-05-04T16:46:24+00:00 July 28, 2017|Dating, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

A Friend Lets You Down… How Do You Handle Missed Promises?

Broken promises can be tough... How do you handle it when a friend doesn't come through? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UfyY5lVWQxQ Reid: Last video. Hugh Jackman Maroon 5. In this video, how do you handle mispromises, you have a friend who promised you something and they couldn’t deliver. How do you handle mispromises? Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from http://reidaboutsex.com/ and I’m Cathy [...]

By | 2017-05-04T16:17:10+00:00 July 25, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Your Partner Asks You To Make A Change… Do You Try Or Honor Where You Are?

Self-expression and boundaries are great things to have. But if someone asks you to upgrade some behavior or skill, how do you know when to stick to your self-expression and when to level up? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LMHWGXJUCmQ Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, my question is say my partner ask to meet a need for them, which is difficult for me. How [...]

By | 2017-05-04T15:59:46+00:00 July 22, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

What’s A Respectful Way To End A Date And Close The Evening?

Wanting to end the connection for the evening in a loving and respectful way? Learn how with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GCYKV21YooU Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, I’d like to see of examples of respectful goodbye rituals from long term partners to unhook from each other and smooth out their own Velcro hooks so they can go well and return keenly. Do you have [...]

By | 2017-05-04T16:04:26+00:00 July 19, 2017|Dating, Event, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Do You Deal With Jealousy Of Sex Ed Peers?

With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Someone wrote and said I really loved that I have some amazing friends in the sex ed business.  My peers are amazing, they’re great people I noticing though that I have a lot of jealousy. One of my friends just released a book and there’s a big to-do over it and other friends is giving side talk at Ted. How [...]

By | 2017-05-04T15:17:40+00:00 July 16, 2017|Dating, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Passionate About Sharing Sex Ed and Sex Positivity? Where Do You Start?

Where do you begin when you are planning to start your own sex positive business? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy:  If you’re starting out in business you could see that there’s so many things to do and especially if you’re only passion about getting sex ed and sex positive information out there. Where do you start? Reid: Oh, my goodness! This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.theintimacydojo.com/ [...]

By | 2017-05-04T15:15:01+00:00 July 13, 2017|Dating, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How To Run A Sex Geek Work Weekend

How do you facilitate work weekends with your sex educator peers? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: So someone wrote in and said, I heard about these works weekends, I’ve been running some and another people get to or people get together and crank out work. It's lot more fun sometimes and they’re wanting to know how to facilitate it where people are not chatting too [...]

By | 2017-05-03T20:11:13+00:00 July 10, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Can You Handle It If You Get Banned From A Community?

You don't know what you did and you're being banned from the community. How do you handle it? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: What happens if you get banned from a community? How should you handle that? Cathy: This Reid Mihalko from http://www.reidaboutsex.com/. Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.theintimacydojo.com/. Cathy: That would really be hard and it’s hard to balance that. Balance running events in the [...]

By | 2017-05-03T19:54:53+00:00 July 7, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills|