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How Can A Shy Introverted Guy Encourage Women To Initiate Interactions?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IDkq4XS2ynM Cathy: One gentleman wrote and said how can shy introverts like myself encourage women to lead interactions. I think this is true for whatever gender you might be. It’s really nice to know how you can encourage other people to approach you if you’re shy introvert. Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from https://TheIntimacyDojo.com/. Cathy: And Reid Mihalko from https://ReidAboutSex.com/. Reid: I’m geeky about this kind of content. I’m an [...]

Is It Okay To Masturbate To Someone?

Can you fantasize about someone when you masturbate? What is the ethics around this? With Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from htto://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: So one of our amazing viewers wrote and said, it is okay if I fantasize, they’re talking to you, fantasize about you when I masturbate? Reid: I didn’t see this comment. Cathy: I haven’t share it with you yet. Reid: Oh my goodness. Cathy: You [...]

By | 2017-05-10T17:17:26+00:00 December 13, 2017|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Shame, Touch, Trauma|

What Do You Do When The Chair Breaks Under You?

There is a fear, especially for bigger folks, that chairs and benches won't support them. What do you do when that happens? Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com shares and experience. Cathy: So, I'm at Sex Geek Summer Camp. I'm hanging out and it's the day after we're chilling. I sat down at the picnic bench and I wanted to lay down because Reid was taking a dunk. Reid: A dunk, not [...]

By | 2017-05-10T17:05:57+00:00 December 10, 2017|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame, Touch, Trauma|

Self-Care Tip… Back To Back Events? What Do You Do To Take Care Of Yourself?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=02guRt_bNUE Reid: So Cathy Vartuli, how's it going after camp? Cathy: This is actually really comfortable, believe it or not. Reid: Oh. I think you've innovated picnic table design. The reclining picnic table. The picnic table lounge. Cathy: You should try it. This is really comfortable. Reid: Are you happy that the camp is over? Cathy: I have a great time and it's probably good that it is over because [...]

By | 2017-05-10T14:06:29+00:00 December 7, 2017|Collaborators, Dating, Energy, Event, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

SnowBalling… Tea Bagging… What Do They Have To Do With Sex?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BkCDR9uH-F8 Cathy: So what’s snowballing and tea bagging? Reid: Oh lord. This is a video where they all unsubscribe. Cathy: Oh sorry, it’s been nice knowing you. Reid: Get the kids out of the room quick. This is explicit content with Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com/. Cathy: And Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ and earlier today he was shooting a video with sex nerd Sandra. Reid: Sex Nerd Sandra who is very [...]

If I Lust In My Mind… Am I Committing Adultery?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jj0pHKMY9LY Reid: Trigger warning. There’s Bible quote coming’. Cathy: Yeah, we get a lot of comments, we love the comments and this. Comment with questions you guys sent in. Someone said, but I say unto you that whoever looketh other woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart. So he felt like we were talking about…just us talking about it is wrong. Reid: Okay. [...]

If I Sleep With An Older Woman, Will I Get STDs or STIs?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f1cWU3t9kSs Cathy: So, I’ve done a video with Elizabeth Wood and Dan Powers about cougar if someone had to ask about wanting to date older women. Reid: Cougaring? Cathy: Cougaring. Reid: Is that what’s called? Cathy: Yes Reid: That’s awesome. Cougaring. My Cougars out there. [Inaudible 00:00:17] Cathy: Someone replies said that cougar mantra Reid: Cougar mantra? Cathy: Well he was not being very nice about it. Reid: Okay Cathy: [...]

Do Your Friends Just Go Along With Your Choices Because They’re Shy?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P7-pKh9j3_I Reid: So, you invited your friends to dinner. And you’re like, hey! Where do you want to go? And they don’t have any answers. So, you’re like, how about Chinese? Coz’ you love Chinese, insert whatever food you want. But you secretly worry that they just went along with it and said yes, because maybe they’re shy, maybe they don’t have the words to speak up. What do you [...]

By | 2017-05-10T13:03:08+00:00 November 25, 2017|Body Image, Collaborators, Dating, Event, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame|

How Do Handle It When If You Ask- They Say No, But If Its Their Idea- They Love it?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WdWNBQb8GUY Reid: How do you handle situations where when you ask for something, the person is a no but if it’s their idea, they’re yes? This is Cathy Vartuli from http://theintimacydojo.com/ Cathy: And this is Reid Mihalko from http://reidaboutsex.com/. Reid: We’re building off of a previous video and so I had this insight now, and I want to flip these scales on Cathy Vartuli and be like okay, so how [...]

What Do You Do When Someone Says Everything Is Fine (In Bed) But They Don’t Mean It?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mAxRBMtFVxA Cathy: Okay. So someone write in and said I come from Asia and realized that what I’m sharing is trembles cultures, people will say everything is fine, when they don’t really mean it, so she says, I’ve had sexual partners who I, they report that they love our connection, interaction with regular partners and I asked them to let me know if anything’s uncomfortable or if everything feels good…they [...]