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Can Argument Guidelines Make Your Fights “Better”?

Arguments can spiral out of control quickly... having agreements and signals ahead of time can make a huge difference. Letting your partner know what triggers you have and learning theirs, can help you resolve things lots faster! Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com share. Here's the link to the Cool Down Styles article: http://ReidAboutSex.com/Cool-Down-Styles/ Cathy: One of our viewers wrote in and said, I'm wondering if I'm weird. [...]

By | 2016-01-05T05:49:43+00:00 August 19, 2015|Relationship Skills|

Authenticity and Intimacy

Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com talks about being authentic to create more intimacy. Most people want intimacy. They want connection and love…but they're not quite sure how to get that. I know. I struggled for years. I thought that if I could pretend enough, and act the way I thought I was supposed to enough, and try to guess what you wanted and be that, I'd finally get the intimacy. If [...]

By | 2015-12-23T12:46:21+00:00 August 16, 2015|Relationship Skills|

Cheating

Cathy: We've a bunch of people writing in and sharing things with us at the bottom of our videos, and one of the questions lately was how do I get my partner to grow up and stop being childish, and I can really use this advice right now. Reid: Cathy, Cathy, Cathy, Cathy, Cathy, Cathy, Cathy, Cathy ... Cathy: Yes? Reid: Hi. Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from [...]

By | 2016-10-03T05:02:54+00:00 August 14, 2015|Dating, Relationship Skills|

Charisma and Intimacy: Presence, Power and Warmth

Do you ever wish you had more charisma? Join Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as she shares tips and concepts. Do you ever wish you had more charisma? I used to think that charisma was something that a few special people that were usually very handsome or pretty were naturally born with. Lately, I've been studying charisma because I want to get my message out in the world and I want [...]

By | 2015-12-23T12:44:52+00:00 August 13, 2015|Relationship Skills|

How Saying No Can Create Connection

Can being able to say "no" actually create more intimacy? Join Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as she shares. Being able to say, "No," is one of the most important things to form the intimate connections there is. That seems counterintuitive to a lot of people. They want to be close, so why would they say, "No?" The truth is, if I don't have brakes on my car, I'm not going [...]

By | 2016-01-05T06:04:10+00:00 August 10, 2015|Relationship Skills|

When Is It Nice To Be Desired… And When Its Not…

What do you do when you're getting attention you're not in the mood for or don't want, what do you do? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Hi, I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: I'm Reid from Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: We're talking about arousal, attraction, and when it's nice and when it's not. It's really great to be desired when it's someone that [...]

By | 2016-01-05T07:42:44+00:00 August 7, 2015|Flirting|

What Do You Do When Your Difficult Conversation Blows Up?

What happens if you are following the difficult conversation formula and things blew up anyway? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: What happens if you are following the difficult conversation formula and things blew up anyway? Reid: Did you do it wrong? No! We will tell you why. I'm Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: We had a writer write [...]

By | 2016-01-05T06:04:41+00:00 August 4, 2015|Relationship Skills|

Condom Broke?! What Do You Do Now?

What do you do when the condom breaks? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: What do you do when the condom breaks? Coming up now. I'm Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: What do you do when the condom breaks, Cathy? Cathy: Initially, there is usually panic because we're taught that that's scary. Reid: That's the worst. Cathy: There's STIs, [...]

By | 2016-01-04T12:36:27+00:00 August 1, 2015|Sex Geeks|

Want To Spice Up Your Masterbastion Time?

Do you need some more information on masturbation? Some new tricks, some things to spice it up? Watch this video with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com to find out more. Reid: Self love.  Masturbation. One on one. I'm Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: We had an amazing person leave a comment, writing to us saying, "Could I get some more [...]

By | 2016-01-04T12:38:40+00:00 July 29, 2015|Sex Geeks, Touch|

How Do You Handle It If A Gay Person Hits On You? (And You’re Straight)

What do you do when you're straight and gay people hit on you? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: What do you do when you're straight and gay people hit on you? I'm Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com Reid: This is a great question, so whoever left this comment, I just want to say thank you because ... Thank you [...]

By | 2016-01-05T08:48:59+00:00 July 26, 2015|Flirting|