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What’s In Reid Mihalko’s Toy Bag?

Join Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com shares what he has in his toy bag! Cathy: Hey everyone, this is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com here with Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Reid is a sex geek. He has a toy bag and we were wondering what was in your toy bag. Reid: Let's see. I have a little bag. I have a bunch of things. I have condoms [...]

By | 2016-01-06T09:15:32+00:00 July 21, 2012|Sex Geeks|

Jealousy- Feeling Special, Example

Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com talk about an example of balancing feeling special when there's more than two people involved. Cathy: Hey everyone, this is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. I'm here with Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com, and this is Feeling Special Video Two. Reid: Video two. Cathy just shared with me that we had ... do that thing. Cathy: So Reid and my best friend Rick [...]

By | 2016-01-04T06:12:56+00:00 July 19, 2012|Dating, Jealousy, Relationship Skills|

Jealousy- Needing To Feel Special With Others

Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as she asks Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com how to balance feeling special in a group. Cathy: Hi everyone, this is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimancyDojo.com, and we're here with Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Hi Reid. Reid: Hi. Cathy: I have a question for you. People like to feel special and you have a great product on jealousy. If there's just two people it's pretty easy in general [...]

By | 2016-01-04T06:10:41+00:00 July 16, 2012|Dating, Jealousy, Relationship Skills|

How Do I Hold Space For My Partner?

Join Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as she asks Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com about Hold Space For Your Partner. Cathy: Hi Everyone, this is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. I'm here with Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: I'm being really weird in these videos this round. Cathy: You are. I gave you too much coffee. That's probably it. Reid: Now you have to hold space for me. Cathy: Okay. So if I [...]

By | 2016-01-06T12:20:14+00:00 July 13, 2012|Dating, Relationship Skills|

About Reid Mihalko

If Dr. Ruth and Jon Stewart had a son, that son would be Reid Mihalko… Reid is one of the only male sex and relationship experts touring the country today who appeals to audiences of all ages, orientations, and backgrounds. Reid has appeared on the Emmy award-winning talk show Montel, Fox News, VH1’s Scott Baio is 45 and Single, Showtime’s Penn & Teller’s Bulls**t!, Canada’s The Sex Files and SexTV, [...]

By | 2012-07-11T22:03:15+00:00 July 11, 2012|Collaborators, Sex Geeks|

How To Create More Play When You’re Shy

Want to play more? Feel shy? How do you make life more playful and engage other people more? Join Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as she asks Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com how to create more play. Reid: Just so you know, I don't think I've ever talked about this topic with Cathy, so she's actually springing this on me and I don't know how it's going to be. Cathy: We never [...]

By | 2016-01-06T09:17:09+00:00 July 10, 2012|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills|

Difficult Conversations Video

Join Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex as he discusses Difficult Conversations with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com . You can find the Difficult Conversations article here: http://reidaboutsex.com/difficult-conversation-formula/ (not safe for all work places, with lots of other juicy content) or http://theintimacydojo.com/difficult-conversations/ (safe for work, with other articles about intimacy). Cathy: Hi everyone, this is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com and we're here with reidabout -- I did it again. We are here with [...]

By | 2016-04-12T23:49:38+00:00 July 7, 2012|Uncategorized|

Bottom Lines

How do you know what you're bottom lines are? And what do you do when someone crosses one? Join Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as she asks Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com these questions. Cathy: Hi everyone, this is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. And we're here with Reid Mihalko from http://RediAboutSex.com. Reid: I was just wondering if it would like my half of the video froze if I just went [pause] the [...]

By | 2016-04-13T07:17:53+00:00 July 4, 2012|Dating, Relationship Skills|

Handling Mean People

It's easy to be rattled when someone is mean to us. Want to learn cool ways to reframe this and "turn the tables"? Join Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as she talks to sex and relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com about creating more intimacy in your life. Cathy:  Hey, everyone. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com, and Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Reid, what do you do if someone's mean to [...]

By | 2016-04-13T07:07:58+00:00 June 23, 2012|Relationship Skills, Trauma|

Jealousy As A Signal That Needs Aren’t Being Met

Most of us avoid the topic of Jealousy, but when we face the feelings and learn new skills, we can transform our relationships and create new intimacy. Being jealous doesn't mean you're bad- it may just mean you have some needs that aren't being met. Join Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as she talks to sex and relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com about creating more intimacy in your life. Cathy:  [...]

By | 2016-01-04T06:07:28+00:00 June 21, 2012|Relationship Skills, Shame|