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Can Knowing Your (And Your Partner’s) Cool Down Style Make A Difference When You Fight?

Most couples get angry sometimes. How do you cool down? And what are your needs around cooling down? Does it really matter? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: How do you cool down when you fight? There's actually something called cool down styles and ...  Reid: Fuck this.  Cathy: That's Reid Mihalco from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and he actually has an article on this on [...]

By | 2016-01-07T08:58:44+00:00 June 3, 2016|Dating, Relationship Skills|

What do you do when your libido is low?

Is lack of desire plaguing you? What can you do? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: What do you do if your desire level is really low and you're in a relationship or several?  Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.  Cathy: I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Reid: What do you do?  Cathy: It's usually talk about different conversation formula. I think it's a lot [...]

By | 2016-01-04T09:39:11+00:00 May 31, 2016|Dating, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

What To Know How To Get Sponsors For Your Heart Centered Business?

Learn the 411 of getting sponsors and leaving them feel super happy! Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: It's recording. Have you ever wondered how to get sponsors? Reid: I have. Hi! This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com, the creator of Sex Geek Summer Camp and when I'm wearing the camp shirt, it's business advise with Cathy Vartuli from the Intimacy Dojo. Cathy: I [...]

By | 2016-01-04T09:14:20+00:00 May 28, 2016|Event|

What If You Keep Cutting People Off?

How can you clean it up if you keep interrupting someone? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: We did a video on what to do if someone's always cutting you off, but what if you cut other people off? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: What were you saying? Reid: Wow. We're going to go right [...]

By | 2016-01-05T06:13:57+00:00 May 25, 2016|Relationship Skills|

Do You Get Silent When You’re Disappointed? Can You Reclaim Your Voice?

Silence doesn't often get us what we want, and can leave people feeling disempowered. How can you share when you're disappointment? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, thanks for doing this video, it's about handling disappointment. Then she said, I usually stay silent when I'm disappointed. I'm finding that only causes pain and helpless feelings. I'm middle aged and trying [...]

By | 2016-01-04T07:51:50+00:00 May 22, 2016|Dating, Relationship Skills|

When Is It Time To Pull Out?

Knowing the sensations just before you come give you greater control and possibility during sex. With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Reid: Focus! What are we working on? This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko for http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.  Reid: We have a question.  Cathy: You actually started this as a joke, but I actually want to know. How do you know [...]

By | 2016-01-04T09:32:40+00:00 May 19, 2016|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

Keep Running Into An Ex-Friend And Feel Drawn To Reconnect?

If you're in the same social circle and keep running into an ex-friend... How do you not get pulled in again? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: All right. Someone wrote in and said that they watched our video about talking about conflict.  Reid: We love when you write in!  Cathy: Yes.  Reid: Keep writing in.  Cathy: She said it actually went really [...]

By | 2016-01-07T09:00:25+00:00 May 16, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame, Trauma|

Ever Feel Pressured To Act How People Expect You To Act?

Its easy to feel obligated to meet people's expectations. How do you get around that so you can be self-expressed? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: There's theories in sociology that I've actually ... I believe that are real because I've felt them, but we sometimes behave according to how we think other people think we should behave. Reid: What's that called? Cathy: [...]

By | 2016-01-07T09:02:19+00:00 May 13, 2016|Body Image, Energy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Do You Take Care Of Yourself After You Run Events?

After you put out a lot of energy and make sure everyone has a magical experience at your event, how do you take care of yourself? How can you bounce back and recharge? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com.   Reid: What are your after care needs when you run events? After what? Cathy: Knowing how you like to celebrate and wind down is [...]

By | 2016-01-04T08:36:34+00:00 May 10, 2016|Event, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Do You Know When To Cancel An Event And When To Push Forward?

Life events or low attendance can make it challenging to go forward with a planned event. How do you know when to pull out? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com.   Reid: How do you know when it's time to pull out? Cathy: Of an event. Reid: Of an event. This is business advice because I'm wearing my "Sex Geek Summer Camp" T-shirt, which [...]

By | 2016-01-08T05:53:46+00:00 May 7, 2016|Event, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|