The Intimacy Dojo Blog

I Fell Out Of Love… Now What Do I Do?

What do you do if you aren't in love and you want to be friends? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: One of our viewers wrote in and said, "I just broke up with my girlfriend. She said I think you're making a big mistake. I just don't like her as much as she likes me and I feel bad about it. We were together [...]

By | 2016-01-05T10:09:33+00:00 January 2, 2016|Relationship Skills|

How Can You Support Your Partner Through Low-Self-Esteem When They Don’t Know What To Ask For?

How can you help partner get their needs met and still take care of yourself? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: We love your comments and questions. Thank you so much. Here’s one from one of our viewers. Question; if my partner often gets low self-esteem, how can I support them in identifying what they need if they don’t know. Sometimes neither of us know [...]

By | 2016-01-05T08:06:20+00:00 December 30, 2015|Relationship Skills|

Want To Let Someone Know You’re In An Open Relationship?

Can you graciously and flirtatiously let someone know you're in an open relationship? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: How do you let someone know graciously and flirtatiously that you might be ... that you are in an open relationship and that you might be interested in them? Reid: I don't know. Cathy: Oh hey! Reid: I'm in an open relationship, how about you? Cathy: [...]

By | 2016-01-05T08:08:15+00:00 December 27, 2015|Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Have You Been Rejected… And Once You Changed They’re Chasing You?

It hurts to be rejected, and then have that person change their mind when you're love weight or had some other success....With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: One of our amazing Sex Geeky viewers wrote in that they have recently been working and improving ... and kicking ass in a particular area of their business and they've also been losing some weight. And they're receiving [...]

By | 2016-01-08T12:23:21+00:00 December 24, 2015|Dating, Flirting|

How Do You Deal When Someone Shames You For Being A Sex Educator?

When society shames you for teaching "bad" things or expects you to be available sexually to everyone, what do you do? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Sex educator shame, what is it? Hi. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: And this is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: I'm holding the mic here to see if it sounds better. Cathy: He's good with that [...]

By | 2016-01-04T06:31:07+00:00 December 21, 2015|Sex Geeks, Shame|

What Is Sex Magic and Can I Use It For Success In Business?

Sex Magic for Business? Does it work? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Sex magic. Can you use it on your business, what the hell is it? Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Some of you know that I am a pragmatist. I like my science and my peer reviewed double blind research. Cathy's by night, a 19 patents holding engineer, [...]

By | 2016-06-27T09:58:34+00:00 December 18, 2015|Energy|

Have You Been Shamed For Wanting Distance or Space?

Has anyone ever given you a hard time because you didn't want to spend as much time (or affection) as they wanted? Join Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com as they share ideas and insights from the beach (recorded from Fort Lauderdale Beach, our apologize for the wind noise on the recording). Cathy: What do you do when someone shames you for wanting some space? I'm Cathy [...]

By | 2016-01-06T12:41:08+00:00 December 15, 2015|Shame|

Ejaculation Control? How Can You Learn This?

Ejaculation control can add a lot in the bedroom... how do you learn it? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: We had a listener write in ... or viewer, whatever you guys call yourselves, you sassy, sexy sex geeks out there ... about ejaculatory control; somebody who's got a lot of the rest of their lives ... they feel ... under control, around diet and [...]

By | 2016-01-04T10:40:33+00:00 December 12, 2015|Sex Geeks|

Appreciation for Comments and Questions!

Thank you for your great comments and questions!! With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Hi, I'm Cathy Vartuli from the http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Do you want to start again? Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko, the interrupting cow. Moo. Cathy: From http://ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: And also a creator of Sex Geek Summer Camp. We just want to say for the people who are leaving all the fun, "Oh my God [...]

By | 2015-12-23T21:02:32+00:00 December 9, 2015|Energy|

The Clit…How To Have Fun With It

There are there a lot of myths about the clit. What is one secret most people don't know about it? Join Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com as they share ideas and insights from the beach (recorded from Fort Lauderdale Beach, our apologize for the wind noise on the recording). Cathy: Hello everyone, this is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: And Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Extra [...]

By | 2016-01-04T10:46:06+00:00 December 6, 2015|Sex Geeks|