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Stories to Reduce Shame: Bawdy Storytelling

How can telling Dirty Stories reduce shame and bring you self-expression and a sense of freedom? Join Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as she interviews Dixie De La Tour from http://bawdystorytelling.com/ and some of the amazing story tellers, including Allison Moon from http://www.TalesOfThePack.com , Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com , FleurDeLis from http://fleurdelissf.com and others. Cathy: Hi, this is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com, and we're here today with Dixie De La Tour [...]

By |2016-01-07T09:42:58+00:00June 9, 2012|Shame|

Romance For The Rest Of Us

Ready for romance tips and insights that will help you delight your partner, open their heart, and maybe get you both lucky?! Join Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as she asks sex and relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com for Romance tips and suggestions. Cathy:  Welcome everyone, this is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com, here with Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. And today we're talking about romance. Reid: Yes. Cathy: Do you have [...]

By |2016-01-06T09:24:34+00:00June 7, 2012|Relationship Skills|

What is a Sex Geek?

What is a Sex Geek? Join Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as she asks sex and relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com to define this term and help you see if you might just be...a Sex Geek! Also see: How Do You Find Sex Geeks? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K7YYCKq5K88 Urban Dictionary Definition: Someone who takes pride in learning, applying and spreading throughout their lives accurate sexual health information, effective communication skills, and relationship blackbelt [...]

By |2016-01-06T09:27:37+00:00June 4, 2012|Relationship Skills|

Mysterious On A Date?

Should you be mysterious when you're dating? Join Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as she asks sex and relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com whether popular dating advise books have your best interest at heart. Cathy:  (laughter) You look like you're constipated.... Reid: I just want the opening picture that's on the YouTube thing to be me going (makes a face) "So people are like, "What's going on? He looks like [...]

By |2016-01-06T12:38:25+00:00June 2, 2012|Dating|

The Innuendo Game

Want a fun flirting game that can start things off and warm things up?! Join sex and relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com as he teaches Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com this flirty game. You can use it to heat up your next connection! Reid: This is the Innuendo video. Cathy: Welcome, everyone. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com, and Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Reid:  Okay, so we just did this whole [...]

By |2016-01-06T09:29:19+00:00May 31, 2012|Dating|

How To Be A Better Flirt!

How can you be better at flirting? Join Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as she asks sex and relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com how to improve flirtation skills and connect with more people, and have fun doing it! The link for Reid's Speed Flirting Top Ten Tips is: http://tinyurl.com/Speed-FlirtingTopTenTipsWMM Cathy:  Hey everyone, I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com and this is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Reid, I don't consider myself a [...]

By |2016-01-06T09:30:14+00:00April 23, 2012|Dating|

Comparing Yourself to Others

Do you compare yourself to others? Who doesn’t! Especially when it comes to intimacy and relationships.    Our primitive brain is constantly evaluating how we "stack up" to others. There is a prevailing sense of LACK of love and connection that drives people to grab on and cling to their partner and guard against any "threats" to their love needs getting met.   We’re conditioned by glossy magazines, advertising, fashion models, sports, and high [...]

By |2012-04-09T22:33:05+00:00April 8, 2012|Dating, Relationship Skills|

Creating Your Dating Profile

You want to start dating (or you are dating and you want to attract more eligible and desirable dating partners). Creating an authentic dating profile can be daunting. How do you write something that shows who you are and filters and attracts the people you want? Join Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com and sex and relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com for the answers to this and more! Cathy: Welcome, everyone. [...]

By |2016-01-06T12:31:28+00:00April 8, 2012|Dating, Relationship Skills|

How Do You Find Sex Geeks?

What can you put in your dating profile to help attract and identify Sex Geeks? Here are some key questions and points to include in your profile to find members of this unique and desirable species- From the Clown Prince of the Sex Geeks! Join Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com and sex and relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com for the answers to this and more! Cathy: Welcome, everyone. This is [...]

By |2016-01-06T09:28:12+00:00April 8, 2012|Dating, Relationship Skills|

What Do You Do If Your Partner Screws Up?

How do you address your concerns and feelings in a empowering, clear way that can actually bring more trust and love to your connection? Join Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com and sex and relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com for the answers to this and more!   Cathy: Welcome, everyone. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com, and this is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. We have another video where we talked about what to [...]

By |2015-12-22T13:38:00+00:00April 8, 2012|Dating, Relationship Skills|
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