Body Image

Am I Poly? Would Poly Work For Me?

Am I Poly? Would Poly Work For Me? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vuAvotOoEN8 Cathy: Have you ever wondered if you might be poly or poly might be good for you? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/   Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ and someone wrote in and said I would be poly but for STD’s I’m really worried about those that’s the major concern and when I wrote back and said there’s a lot [...]

By | 2017-09-01T15:24:46+00:00 July 23, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

She Screamed After I Put My Dick In, What Should I Do?

She Screamed After I Put My Dick In, What Should I Do? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yh0MK0hSZSM Cathy: So this might be somewhat trigerring question but I think it’s really important to answer. Someone wrote in and said I put my dick in a pussy and she screamed, what do I do when she says stop? And I think it’s so important to talk about the fact that a lot of people don’t know [...]

By | 2018-07-20T06:00:56+00:00 July 8, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

How To Trust Someone Again When They Cheated A Lot In The Past?

How To Trust Someone Again When They Cheated A Lot In The Past?   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AI-AaN03zQM Cathy: Someone else wrote in and said they just stared opening up their relationship and her partner just met another girl which he likes which is just great, my only problem is she has a lot of trust issues because he cheated on her in the past and she notices that she did the trust [...]

By | 2018-07-20T06:03:03+00:00 June 11, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Trauma|

How to run an awesome positive play party?

How to run an awesome positive play party? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lWsfZ4SCadQ Cathy: How do you run a great sex positive play party? I’m here with Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com who’s thrown a bunch of parties. Reid: Like a lot at this point, very many. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com who’s thrown fewer than I but still an impressive note. Cathy: So Reid I really loved how you throw play parties and I’ve been asking in [...]

By | 2017-08-28T22:01:51+00:00 May 18, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Is There Anything You Can Do About Low Libido Due to Low Hormones?

Is There Anything You Can Do About Low Libido Due to Low Hormones? What do you do if you aren't interested in sex because of low hormones? With Elizabeth Wood from http://www.BedEvents.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YU8pyI8cOqY Cathy: What do you do if you have low libido due to low hormones? I’m here with Elizabeth Wood from http://beyondthebedroomevents.com/  and I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://theintimacydojo.com/. Thanks for being here Elizabeth.   Elizabeth: Thanks [...]

By | 2017-08-28T21:40:26+00:00 May 9, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

When You’ve Been Really Sick…

When You've Been Really Sick... Not many people talk about what its like after you've been really sick. There are things that can make it easier to know...Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Robin Wilson Beattie from http://www.sexAbledwithRobinWB.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2_9OiFyEEVo Cathy: So Robin, you and I have both been sick and one   Robin: Oh.   Cathy: of the things that I was so surprised with afterwards was nobody told me I’d [...]

By | 2017-08-28T20:50:08+00:00 April 18, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

What Do You Do When You Can’t Admit Something Isn’t Working?

What Do You Do When You Can't Admit Something Isn't Working? When you get stuck, it can be really hard to stop and just admit it isn't working. What do you do? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Robin Wilson Beattie from http://www.sexAbledwithRobinWB.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TNtg5WHdLDE Robin: Let me think what they’re struggling about that?   Cathy: No I’m going to tell you.   Robin: Oh yeah, that’s what I’m saying.   Cathy: [...]

By | 2017-08-28T18:30:32+00:00 April 15, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

When You’re Dating Someone New, Should You Sleep With Them Right Away?

When You're Dating Someone New, Should You Sleep With Them Right Away? Fuck first, or wait awhile? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, Yoni Alkan from http://www.ElementsofSexuality.com, Liz Powell from http://www.SexPositivePsych.com and Caroline Carrington from http://www.JewelInTheLotusCoaching.com, with special guest, sexy librarian! @DrYoniAlkan @sexpospsych @JewelotusTantra https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v-pvB5fuA_A Liz: So when you’re dating someone new, should you have sex with them first or make them wait awhile? I’m Liz Powell from http://www.SexPositivePsych.com/   Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ [...]

By | 2017-08-28T18:26:16+00:00 April 12, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Do You Find The Confidence and Courage To Own All Of You When You’re Out There Dating?

How Do You Find The Confidence and Courage To Own All Of You When You're Out There Dating? How do you say "I'm disabled," or "I'm a bigger woman," and own the things that sadly some people don't sometimes see as valuable when dating? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Robin Wilson Beattie from http://www.sexAbledwithRobinWB.com How Do You Find The Confidence and Courage To Own All Of You When You're Out [...]

By | 2017-08-28T18:15:49+00:00 April 9, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

Does Quality of Touch Matter?

Does Quality of Touch Matter? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qkPkTtDcECY Cathy: Does quality of touch matters when you’re on a date or hooking up? I’m Cathy Vartuli from from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com Yoni: I’m Yoni Alkan from http://www.ElementsofSexuality.com Liz: I’m Doctor Liz from http://www.SexPositivePsych.com Caroline: I’m Caroline Carrington from http://www.JewelInTheLotusCoaching.com Sexy Librarian: I’m also the talking librarian who is off screen. Liz: She’s a sexy librarian. Cathy: Yes. Caroline: Sexy, Sparkly librarian. Liz: So sparkly. So [...]

By | 2017-08-28T18:03:02+00:00 April 3, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|