Body Image

Looking For An Older Woman To Date? Cougar Hunting?

Like dating older women but aren't sure how to find them or how to go about it? Find out how with Elizabeth Wood and Dan Powers from http://www.BeyondTheBedroom.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RAr_9Mcodu4 Cathy: So someone wrote in and said that it sound a little cheapest like he wasn’t sure that it was okay to ask but he said, I really like dating older women, I’m 24 and I [...]

By | 2017-05-08T20:21:44+00:00 October 8, 2017|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

Being Comfortable In Front Of The Video Camera… Or Doing It Anyway.

How do you shoot videos when you're uncomfortable in front of the camera? Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com with Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com share. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kjj5q4b24FE Reid: I'm so scared. Cathy: We talk a lot about videos when Reid and I do videos and we encourage a lot of people to get out there and make videos. I wanted to just share ... well, actually, Reid's here egging me on ... that [...]

By | 2017-05-08T20:06:57+00:00 October 5, 2017|Body Image, Collaborators, Energy|

Changing Your Mind vs Telling A Lie…

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f_bK8lGy3IA Cathy: We've talked about before about what to do if you're caught in a lie or you catch somebody else in a lie. Someone wrote in and said, "My boyfriend has lied to me a number of times now, and he told me that he wanted to do something, and then he changed his mind, and I consider that a lie. What do I do now?" I'd like to [...]

Self-Sabotage And Then Falling Into A Shame Spiral… What Do You Do?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cl900EHIkO8 Cathy: What do you do when you self-sabotage something that you really wanted to do, and now you're kind of falling in a shame spiral? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: We had someone write in, and again, this was about the webinar, "My partner doesn't want to sleep with me." She felt like she'd ruined ... He was planning a nice surprise [...]

By | 2017-05-08T17:45:04+00:00 September 26, 2017|Body Image, Collaborators, Dating, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

Is There A Male G-Spot?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j6PxHsTWOhU Reid: Is there a male G-spot? I'm Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: The answer's yes. Cathy: Called the P-spot. Reid: But it begins with a P, yes. It's the male prostate. Cathy: It can be a lot of fun for men that like that. There are a number of great guides out there and classes you can take. Reid: But the ultimate guide- [...]

By | 2017-05-08T17:37:25+00:00 September 23, 2017|Body Image, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

On-Again-Off-Again Sex Drive? What Can You Do?

How do you deal with it when you and your partner have an on again - off again sexual connection? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_ASa5NMSWYU Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, "We have had this relationship with this woman on and off again, and the -" Reid: Is it "we have had" or "I have had"?  Cathy: This person wrote in, "I've been in [...]

By | 2017-05-09T16:28:52+00:00 September 17, 2017|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Shame, Touch, Trauma|

What If Your Husband Is Just Not Interested In Sex?

How do you deal when your husband doesn't want to have sex with you? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tZ7yxAv7n7c Cathy: One of our viewers wrote in and said, "My husband and I have had frank discussions about our lack of sexual relations for the past several years. His final answer is, ‘I'm just not interested.’ That took me by surprise and I don't know [...]

By | 2017-05-09T16:13:04+00:00 September 11, 2017|Body Image, Dating, Event, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Touch|

What Is INCEL and Why Do People Use The Term?

What's the meaning of INCEL? Are there undateable people? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8EWmIBhf1Ck Cathy: Do you know what “Incel” means?  And how to use it? Reid: How do you spell it? Cathy:  I-N-C-E-L. Reid:  Google it! Google fuckin’ exist. This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Before you Google things, If you’re some junior, what’s ‘Incel’? [...]

By | 2017-05-09T16:08:10+00:00 September 8, 2017|Body Image, Dating, Event, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame, Touch, Trauma|

If Your STD/STI Test Is Negative… Are You “Clean” or “Clear”?

What correct term do you use when your STI test comes back negative? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xk_gL2w_6nE Reid: Hey Cathy, I just got tested and I'm clean. How about you? Cathy: Reid, I love that you got tested, and you're clean whether you showered or not, not whether you got tested negative or not. Reid: What does that mean? I'm confused. Cathy: This [...]

By | 2017-05-09T15:57:37+00:00 September 5, 2017|Body Image, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Is It Possible To Be “Undateable”?

When do you label a person as undateable? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cjyf3YQlumM Cathy: Is there anyone undateable? This is Reid Mihalko from http://reidaboutsex.com/ Reid: Cathy Vatuli from the http://theintimacydojo.com/ Cathy: And BBC did a documentary called the Undateables, people that no ones dating and the person wrote in just find that people were just too older, too ugly for anyone to ever want [...]

By | 2017-05-09T15:33:53+00:00 August 30, 2017|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Trauma|