Being Comfortable In Front Of The Video Camera… Or Doing It Anyway.

How do you shoot videos when you're uncomfortable in front of the camera? Cathy Vartuli from with Reid Mihalko from share. Reid: I'm so scared. Cathy: We talk a lot about videos when Reid and I do videos and we encourage a lot of people to get out there and make videos. I wanted to just share ... well, actually, Reid's here egging me on ... that [...]

By | 2017-05-08T20:06:57+00:00 October 5, 2017|Body Image, Collaborators, Energy|

Changing Your Mind vs Telling A Lie… Cathy: We've talked about before about what to do if you're caught in a lie or you catch somebody else in a lie. Someone wrote in and said, "My boyfriend has lied to me a number of times now, and he told me that he wanted to do something, and then he changed his mind, and I consider that a lie. What do I do now?" I'd like to [...]

Self-Sabotage And Then Falling Into A Shame Spiral… What Do You Do? Cathy: What do you do when you self-sabotage something that you really wanted to do, and now you're kind of falling in a shame spiral? This is Reid Mihalko from Reid: Cathy Vartuli from Cathy: We had someone write in, and again, this was about the webinar, "My partner doesn't want to sleep with me." She felt like she'd ruined ... He was planning a nice surprise [...]

By | 2017-05-08T17:45:04+00:00 September 26, 2017|Body Image, Collaborators, Dating, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

What’s The Sex Toy Etiquette When A Friend Has A New Toy?

What do you do if someone has a new cool sex toy and you want to see it? Do you just grab it? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from Cathy: A good friend shows up with their brand new sex toy. So cool. Reid: It's so shiny. Cathy: It's nice and bright and it's one you've wanted to see forever. Reid: I want to touch [...]

By | 2017-05-09T15:39:10+00:00 September 2, 2017|Collaborators, Event, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

How Do I Know If My Rules Are Reasonable In My Poly Relationship?

What is "reasonable" to ask for in a relationship? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and as they disagree and debate. Cathy: Hi Reid and Cathy. I really need some advice and someone to tell me if the rule I have in my poly relationship is reasonable or not. My primary partner has started dating someone else for the first time in 6 years. I [...]

By | 2016-09-23T14:37:00+00:00 January 23, 2017|Collaborators, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Changing Brands And Looking For New Business Peers?

What if you realize you're redefining your business identity? What can you do? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from and Reid: Oh, my goodness. We've got some amazing questions that people write in and we've a really dense one, so I'm just going to set this up. My name is Reid Mihalko from I'm the creator of Sex Geek Summer Camp. When the Sex [...]

By | 2016-09-22T15:19:21+00:00 November 24, 2016|Collaborators, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Collaboration Tips and Pointers

Collaboration can let us get more done, quicker, and add more value. But how do you find the people you want to collaborate with? Kate McCombs from, Ashley Manta from and Cathy Vartuli from share tips and their experiences. Cathy: We're talking about collaboration and how to identify people that would be really fun to work with, play with, create with. I'm Cathy Vartuli from  Kate: [...]

By | 2016-09-22T15:04:35+00:00 October 28, 2016|Collaborators, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Can I Make My Meetup Group More Inclusive and Diverse?

How can I make my group more inviting to people with different backgrounds, incomes, ages, races, and perspectives? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from Cathy: Someone who runs a polyamory group wrote in and said, "I just started this group but it's mostly Caucasian people with money, how do I attract people..." Reid: That idea is again younger people. Cathy: Younger, yeah. How do I attract [...]

By | 2016-09-22T14:59:48+00:00 October 13, 2016|Collaborators, Event, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Can Knowing Fair and Equal Can Make Your Sex-Positive Business Lots More Fun!

What is fair vs equal and how can it make a difference in your business? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from and Reid: What's the difference between fair and equal?  Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from and Sex Geek Summer Camp.  Reid: When I'm wearing my Sex Geek Summer Camp tee shirt that means we're talking about business. This is business advice for sex [...]

By | 2016-04-25T12:06:45+00:00 April 22, 2016|Collaborators, Event, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Know Your Business Style And How You Connect Best?

What do you need in business relationships to feel energized and excited? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from and Cathy: What's your business style? Are you someone who loves a lot of primaries? Do you want some secondaries? How do you work with people?  Reid: Oh my goodness. I'm wearing my Sex Geek Summer Camp shirt. This conversation must be about business, being a sex [...]

By | 2016-06-30T18:33:28+00:00 April 19, 2016|Collaborators, Event, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|