Collaborators

How Do I Know If My Rules Are Reasonable In My Poly Relationship?

What is "reasonable" to ask for in a relationship? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com as they disagree and debate. Cathy: Hi Reid and Cathy. I really need some advice and someone to tell me if the rule I have in my poly relationship is reasonable or not. My primary partner has started dating someone else for the first time in 6 years. I [...]

By | 2016-09-23T14:37:00+00:00 January 23, 2017|Collaborators, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Changing Brands And Looking For New Business Peers?

What if you realize you're redefining your business identity? What can you do? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Reid: Oh, my goodness. We've got some amazing questions that people write in and we've a really dense one, so I'm just going to set this up. My name is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. I'm the creator of Sex Geek Summer Camp. When the Sex [...]

By | 2016-09-22T15:19:21+00:00 November 24, 2016|Collaborators, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Collaboration Tips and Pointers

Collaboration can let us get more done, quicker, and add more value. But how do you find the people you want to collaborate with? Kate McCombs from http://www.SexGeekdom.com, Ashley Manta from http://www.AshleyManta.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com share tips and their experiences. Cathy: We're talking about collaboration and how to identify people that would be really fun to work with, play with, create with. I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com  Kate: [...]

By | 2016-09-22T15:04:35+00:00 October 28, 2016|Collaborators, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Can I Make My Meetup Group More Inclusive and Diverse?

How can I make my group more inviting to people with different backgrounds, incomes, ages, races, and perspectives? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Someone who runs a polyamory group wrote in and said, "I just started this group but it's mostly Caucasian people with money, how do I attract people..." Reid: That idea is again younger people. Cathy: Younger, yeah. How do I attract [...]

By | 2016-09-22T14:59:48+00:00 October 13, 2016|Collaborators, Event, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Can Knowing Fair and Equal Can Make Your Sex-Positive Business Lots More Fun!

What is fair vs equal and how can it make a difference in your business? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Reid: What's the difference between fair and equal?  Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Sex Geek Summer Camp.  Reid: When I'm wearing my Sex Geek Summer Camp tee shirt that means we're talking about business. This is business advice for sex [...]

By | 2016-04-25T12:06:45+00:00 April 22, 2016|Collaborators, Event, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Know Your Business Style And How You Connect Best?

What do you need in business relationships to feel energized and excited? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: What's your business style? Are you someone who loves a lot of primaries? Do you want some secondaries? How do you work with people?  Reid: Oh my goodness. I'm wearing my Sex Geek Summer Camp shirt. This conversation must be about business, being a sex [...]

By | 2016-06-30T18:33:28+00:00 April 19, 2016|Collaborators, Event, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Business Exit Strategies Part II

Even if you're business is going great, having an exit strategy can help strengthen it and help you get your needs met. Learn how with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Reid: Exit Strategies II, Part 2, which means there's Part 1, so go check out Part 1 so you can jump in on this one. I'm Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Sex Geek Summer [...]

By | 2016-01-04T09:01:27+00:00 April 16, 2016|Collaborators, Event, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

If You Had To Exit A Business Agreement, How Would You Do It?

Exit strategies for business are smart and savvy. How do you create them and how do they help? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: Do you have exit strategies for your business?  Reid: How do you escape!?  Cathy: Is that what you're trying to do?  Reid: Escape!  Cathy: It kind of looks like you might be having-  Reid: I'm like in a straitjacket. [...]

By | 2016-01-04T08:33:25+00:00 April 13, 2016|Collaborators, Event, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How To Be Better Prepared for a Conference

Conferences, workshops and events can be a blast! And they can be overwhelming and leave you exhausted and worn out. Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com share how to have a better conference! Cathy: Do you want to have a better conference? Reid: Yeah.  I totally do.  Most of my conference experiences are haphazard and hit or miss.  This would be really useful information.  Tell me more. Cathy: This [...]

By | 2016-01-07T09:38:56+00:00 July 17, 2014|Collaborators, Event|

Trauma and Sexuality

Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Ashley Manta from http://www.AshleyManta.com share how trauma can effect sexual self-expression, and what you can do to support yourself or others in healing and reclaiming your sexuality. Cathy: Hi everyone today we are talking about trauma and sexuality. A lot of people are traumatized. There is an estimated one in three females by the time that they are eighteen have had some type of sexual [...]

By | 2016-01-20T05:50:11+00:00 June 14, 2014|Body Image, Collaborators, Shame, Touch, Trauma|