I Love Her But I Think I’m Losing Her!

Cathy: We had someone write to us and say that he’s so in love with the woman he’s with and he feels like he’s losing her, and he wanted to know what to do. Do you have any suggestions? Reid: I do. I’m Reid Mihalko from Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from Reid: And here is our advice. You go first. Cathy: I go first? Reid: Yeah. Cathy: Part of it depends on why do you [...]

By | 2016-01-07T13:42:35+00:00 July 22, 2014|Dating, Relationship Skills|

Approaching Your Partner About Anal Play

Cathy: Hi.  Have you ever wondered how to approach your partner about anal play? Reid: Whoa.  Man, easy.  Take it easy there. Cathy: Did you know there were 8,000 nerve endings in the anus? Reid: Whoa.  No wonder.  There's a cat walking around here. Cathy: Do you want to restart it? Reid: No.  That's life. Cathy: It's life. Reid: It's real.  Back to anal play.  Yikes. Cathy: How do you [...]

By | 2016-01-06T08:34:47+00:00 July 20, 2014|Dating, Sex Geeks|

How Can You Tease and Build Anticipation?

Would you like to be better at teasing and building anticipation? It can make everything from flirting to marketing more fun! Reid Mihalko from and Cathy Vartuli from share. Cathy:  Would you like to be better at teasing and building anticipation? Reid:  Hm? What? Yes. Yes! I want to be better at that. Cathy:  This is Reid Mihalko from Reid:  And this is Cathy Vartuli from Cathy:  [...]

By | 2016-01-06T07:56:59+00:00 July 14, 2014|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Touch|

Using Presence and Focus To “Listen To The Room”

Listening To The Room", hearing what the group or audience wants, how they're responding and how connected they are, can make an event go smoothly and easily, leaving enthusiastic and educated attendees! Reid Mihalko from and Cathy Vartuli from share how to Listen To A Room! Cathy:  Have you ever wanted to listen to a room? It could be really useful when you're leading a workshop or just hanging [...]

By | 2016-01-07T09:41:42+00:00 July 12, 2014|Dating, Relationship Skills|

Finding Ways To Flirt When You’re Shy

Flirting can be fun and playful...but if you're shy, it can feel impossible! Reid Mihalko from and Cathy Vartuli from share how to flirt when you're shy! Cathy: We've done a video on flirting before but I've noticed that ... Reid: No we didn't. Cathy: Yes we did. Reid: No we didn't. Oh I touched your boob. Cathy: My problem is I get very shy when I'm flirting with someone I actually [...]

By | 2016-01-19T13:10:27+00:00 July 10, 2014|Dating, Relationship Skills|

Dealing with Arousal: Enjoying Being Turned On

Arousal can be uncomfortable and embarrassing. Most of us haven't been taught to enjoy it, or how to deal with it. Join Reid Mihalko from and Cathy Vartuli from as they discuss enjoying arousal. Cathy: Hi everyone. I'm Cathy Vartuli from This is Reid Mihalko from Reid: What are we talking about today? Cathy: We're talking about arousal and dealing with it. A lot of us are afraid [...]

By | 2016-01-05T07:35:46+00:00 July 6, 2014|Dating, Flirting|

Tuning Into Touch: Increasing Sensation and Arousal

Want more spark in the bedroom? What to drive your partner wild? Join Reid Mihalko from and Cathy Vartuli from as they discuss Tuning Into Touch. Cathy: Tuning into Touch.  This is Cathy Vartuli from Reid: And I'm Reid Mihalko from  Oh, oh, oh. Cathy: (Laughs) Reid: Everybody just clicked off because they were like, EW! Stop it! Stop it! Cathy: (Laughs) I love that you talk about [...]

By | 2016-01-05T07:37:46+00:00 June 30, 2014|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills|

Break Up Tips To Make Things Easier For Your Ex

You cared enough to date them. How can you make things easier for your ex during and after a break up? Join Reid Mihalko from and Cathy Vartuli from as they discuss making breaking up easier! Cathy: How can you make breakups easier for your ex? Reid: How can you make breakups easier? Cathy: Usually it's someone you cared about enough at least to be in a relationship with.  So, [...]

By | 2016-01-05T10:12:21+00:00 June 27, 2014|Dating, Relationship Skills, Shame|

The Cleavage Dilemma

Have you ever had someone stare at your cleavage? Or have you had trouble tearing your eyes away from someone's boobs? Join Reid Mihalko from and Cathy Vartuli from as they discuss The Cleavage Dilemma! Reid:  Hi, I'm Reid Mihalko from and this is Cathy Vartuli from  Today we're going to talk about cleavage. Cathy: [Laughs]. Reid:  Actually, I'm bringing the camera down because I want to show off [...]

By | 2016-01-07T09:34:45+00:00 June 26, 2014|Body Image, Dating, Flirting|

Sexual Preferences and Body Image

Do you ever find yourself being attracted to aspects of people that you think you shouldn't like? Or not being attracted to people you think you should like? Join Reid Mihalko from and Cathy Vartuli from as they discuss preferences, attraction, and image! Cathy: Today we're talking about body preference and body image.  A lot of people think that you have to like what's PC, and our bodies don't [...]

By | 2016-01-07T09:27:27+00:00 June 24, 2014|Body Image, Dating, Shame|