Consecutive or Concurrent Dating?

How do you like to date? And can Reid remember the word? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from     Reid: Hello everybody, it's Reid Mihalko from Cathy: And Cathy Vartuli from Reid: And we have an answer. We figured out from this other video that we're shooting about concurrent and congruent relationships, and I'm like, that's not the word. The word is consecutive. [...]

By | 2016-04-13T11:44:35+00:00 January 17, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Can You Tell When The Condom Breaks During Intercourse?

Can you feel it when the condom breaks or tears during intercourse? What can you pay attention to? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from   Cathy: Can a man feel if a condom tears while he's having intercourse? One of our readers, or watchers, wrote in and asked us. This is Reid Mihalko for with his coffee. Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli, the coffee-less Cathy [...]

By | 2016-01-07T08:44:44+00:00 January 14, 2016|Dating, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

If You Giggle When You’re Nervous, How Do You Let People Know You’re Not Flirting?

Do you giggle and laugh when you feel nervous? Do people think you're flirting? What can you do? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from Cathy: We had someone write in and say that … well she’s really shy, she tends to smile and laugh when people flirt with her. Reid: We switched sides. That’s going to screw everybody up. Cathy: Yeah. Reid: What were you saying? [...]

By | 2016-06-23T11:57:19+00:00 January 11, 2016|Dating, Flirting|

Parental Care and Child Care…How Do I Date?

Does Online Dating save time? I'm so busy! With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from Cathy: One of you wrote in, "Help. I'm sandwiched between my teens, my elderly father, and being super busy at work. I'm looking for a great relationship and an awesome lover. Is online the way to go? I'm Cathy Vartuli from Reid: I’m Reid Mihalko from Cathy: What do you [...]

By | 2016-01-08T12:54:27+00:00 January 5, 2016|Dating, Relationship Skills|

Have You Been Rejected… And Once You Changed They’re Chasing You?

It hurts to be rejected, and then have that person change their mind when you're love weight or had some other success....With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from Reid: One of our amazing Sex Geeky viewers wrote in that they have recently been working and improving ... and kicking ass in a particular area of their business and they've also been losing some weight. And they're receiving [...]

By | 2016-01-08T12:23:21+00:00 December 24, 2015|Dating, Flirting|

Dealing with Insecurity and Worry: Moving Into The Fear

Do you find yourself getting insecure? Worrying if you're being obnoxious or annoying? Turn your brain on it's head... with this tip from Reid Mihalko from and Cathy Vartuli from Cathy: Are you ever afraid that you're being annoying or does your insecurity come up and bite you in the butt? It can get really in your head. The more you think about it, the more you pull back [...]

By | 2016-01-11T13:13:44+00:00 November 8, 2015|Dating, Relationship Skills|

Can You Use Facebook Ads As A Sex Educator?

If you're trying to reach people who want to learn more about physical intimacy and sex, can you use Facebook ads? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from Cathy: Facebook ads. They're great way to reach people but they can be a pain in the butt espe- Reid: Especially when you're a sex educator. Cathy: They get rejected time after time after time. Reid: Facebook is like, [...]

By | 2016-01-04T07:26:01+00:00 November 6, 2015|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

If I Kiss A Woman Does That Make Me A Lesbian?

If you open your relationship up to a woman, does that make you a lesbian? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from Cathy: Someone wrote in and shared that a perspective partner of theirs was terrified that she might be compelled to become a lesbian or bisexual if we even occasionally opened our relationship up to women. Could we talk a little bit about how to define [...]

By | 2015-12-23T15:41:49+00:00 October 28, 2015|Dating|


Cathy: We've a bunch of people writing in and sharing things with us at the bottom of our videos, and one of the questions lately was how do I get my partner to grow up and stop being childish, and I can really use this advice right now. Reid: Cathy, Cathy, Cathy, Cathy, Cathy, Cathy, Cathy, Cathy ... Cathy: Yes? Reid: Hi. Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from [...]

By | 2016-10-03T05:02:54+00:00 August 14, 2015|Dating, Relationship Skills|

How Do You Deal With Change In A Relationship?

Moving across country for a job? Any big change can stress a relationship. What can you do? With Cathy Vartuli from, Andi Cortland from and Raj. Cathy: Dealing with change in a relationship can be really challenging. Moving across country because one person has a job or for other reasons, that can put a lot of turmoil into a relationship. How do you deal with that? I'm Cathy [...]

By | 2016-01-08T07:35:30+00:00 July 21, 2015|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|