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Energetic Sex: Mindfulness and Mental Presence To Heat Things Up

Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com discuss energetic sex, and how mindfulness can heat things up in the bedroom! Cathy: Hi everyone. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: This is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com and this is Video 4. We don't know how many there are going to be. Cathy: It's a surprise. Reid: Energetic sex, we just keep coming. It's nuts. You were talking about [...]

By | 2016-01-06T09:10:20+00:00 August 19, 2012|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Energetic Sex: Being Present With Touch

Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com discuss energetic sex, and being present with touch to create the electric feeling. Reid: This is Video 3 of the Energetic Sex. Cathy: And this is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Yes, and this is our little wineglass from the last ones. If you haven't watched the first two, it will make a lot more sense [...]

By | 2016-01-06T09:10:42+00:00 August 16, 2012|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills|

Energetic Sex: Tuning Into Energy and Finding Your Frequency

Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com talk about tuning into your "frequency" so you can connect more deeply. Reid: Hello, everyone this is a wine glass, or a water glass, half empty or half full. I'm Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. And this is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Thanks Reid. Reid: You're welcome. Cathy: Tell us about the wine glass. We want to know.  Reid: If you [...]

By | 2016-01-06T09:11:03+00:00 August 13, 2012|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills|

Energetic Sex: What Is Pragmatic Tantra?

Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com discuss energetic sex, and how being aware of this can make connection more electric! Cathy: Hey everyone, this is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. I'm here with Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Reid, can you tell us a little bit about energetic sex? You give a great workshop on it. Reid: Yes. Thank you for saying it was great. Energetic sex is something [...]

By | 2016-04-14T11:46:42+00:00 August 10, 2012|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills|

UnHooking II- Delaying Emotional Attachment

Join Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com discusses delaying attachment and giving yourself time to got to know your partner (before renting the UHaul on the second date). Reid: So this is the Unhooking II, or what we will say Delaying Attachment. Cathy: It's good if you can delay that. I've seen a lot of people-- Reid: [whispering] this is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com in case you [...]

By | 2016-01-06T12:18:40+00:00 July 24, 2012|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills|

How Do You Unhook and Stay UnHooked

Join Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as she asks Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com about Emotional Bonding, Attachment and keeping clean boundaries. Cathy: Hey everyone, this is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. I’m here with Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Yay! Cathy: Reid, how do you- If you’re with people, if you’re intimate with people sometimes it’s easy to get hooked. To get attached. How do you unhook and stay unhooked? Reid: There’s [...]

By | 2016-01-06T12:18:03+00:00 July 24, 2012|Dating, Flirting|

Jealousy- Feeling Special, Example

Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com talk about an example of balancing feeling special when there's more than two people involved. Cathy: Hey everyone, this is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. I'm here with Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com, and this is Feeling Special Video Two. Reid: Video two. Cathy just shared with me that we had ... do that thing. Cathy: So Reid and my best friend Rick [...]

By | 2016-01-04T06:12:56+00:00 July 19, 2012|Dating, Jealousy, Relationship Skills|

Jealousy- Needing To Feel Special With Others

Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as she asks Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com how to balance feeling special in a group. Cathy: Hi everyone, this is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimancyDojo.com, and we're here with Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Hi Reid. Reid: Hi. Cathy: I have a question for you. People like to feel special and you have a great product on jealousy. If there's just two people it's pretty easy in general [...]

By | 2016-01-04T06:10:41+00:00 July 16, 2012|Dating, Jealousy, Relationship Skills|

How Do I Hold Space For My Partner?

Join Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as she asks Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com about Hold Space For Your Partner. Cathy: Hi Everyone, this is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. I'm here with Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: I'm being really weird in these videos this round. Cathy: You are. I gave you too much coffee. That's probably it. Reid: Now you have to hold space for me. Cathy: Okay. So if I [...]

By | 2016-01-06T12:20:14+00:00 July 13, 2012|Dating, Relationship Skills|

How To Create More Play When You’re Shy

Want to play more? Feel shy? How do you make life more playful and engage other people more? Join Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as she asks Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com how to create more play. Reid: Just so you know, I don't think I've ever talked about this topic with Cathy, so she's actually springing this on me and I don't know how it's going to be. Cathy: We never [...]

By | 2016-01-06T09:17:09+00:00 July 10, 2012|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills|