Dating

How Can You Handle It If You Get Banned From A Community?

You don't know what you did and you're being banned from the community. How do you handle it? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: What happens if you get banned from a community? How should you handle that? Cathy: This Reid Mihalko from http://www.reidaboutsex.com/. Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.theintimacydojo.com/. Cathy: That would really be hard and it’s hard to balance that. Balance running events in the [...]

By | 2017-05-03T19:54:53+00:00 July 7, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills|

What Happens If Your Love Life Withers… Can You Bring It Back?

If desire goes away, can you revive it? With Elizabeth Wood and Dan Powers from http://www.BeyondTheBedroom.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: What happens when your love life dies and withers? Can you ever bring it back? I'm here with Elizabeth Wood and Dan Powers from http://www.BeyondTheBedroomEvents.com/ and I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/. Elizabeth: Great question. Do you want to talk personal experience, or do you want to just talk [...]

By | 2017-05-03T14:53:27+00:00 July 4, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills|

Cyber Flirting Basics… What To Do

How do people cyber flirt? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Cyber flirting. How do you do it? I'm Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Well this is fun for me because Cathy usually picks all the questions because Cathy is better than this than I am and now I have a topic. We have different dating styles… Cathy: Well because you're an [...]

By | 2017-05-03T03:54:12+00:00 July 1, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Do You Tell Someone That You’re Just Not That Into Them?

What would you do when you realize you just want to be friends? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Someone wrote and said, “I recently parted with a female over the New Year’s holidays but now she’s obviously more into me that I am into her. She’s dropping the L word after only a week.” Reid: Latte! I’m Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I’m Cathy [...]

By | 2017-05-03T02:37:28+00:00 June 19, 2017|Dating, Relationship Skills|

How Do I Know If My Rules Are Reasonable In My Poly Relationship?

What is "reasonable" to ask for in a relationship? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Hi Reid and Cathy. I really need some advice and someone to tell me if the rule I have in my poly relationship is reasonable or not. My primary partner has started dating someone else for the first time in 6 years. I support her 100%. I have [...]

By | 2017-05-03T02:15:08+00:00 June 16, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills|

If You’re Enthusiastic Does That Mean You Aren’t Cool?

How cool and enthusiastic can you be? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: So this is a little bit of a vulnerable discussion about being a cool kid and how enthusiastic to be. This is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Yeah! Cathy: He’s very enthusiastic. Reid: And very cool. Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Playin’ it… Cathy: So, I’ve been moved out to [inaudible 00:00:24]. [...]

By | 2017-05-03T01:13:37+00:00 June 7, 2017|Dating, Energy|

Bored On A Date? What Do You Do?

How would you tell your date that you are bored? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: What do you if your date bores you? Reid: Go on a second date! No! Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: And what would you do if your date bored you? Reid: I would say, “This is been a lovely evening…” Cathy: [...]

By | 2017-05-03T00:43:22+00:00 June 4, 2017|Dating, Flirting|

Feel Sorry For Someone But Just Not Into Dating Them?

How would you break bad news to someone? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.   Cathy: So we just did a video about how to tell someone your dating that you’re just not into them. Now how do you do that when they might have something either you feel sorry for them about or they’re struggling with or either kind of using that or you’re just [...]

By | 2017-05-03T00:28:40+00:00 June 1, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills|

If You Start Oral Sex… Do You Have To Finish?

Do you really have to finish doing blow job until they come? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, "If you start a blow job or cunnilingus, don't you have to finish?" Like, when we're talking about how you could say you we're done with stuff. They're like, "Don't you have to finish, wait, go until they cum? This is Reid [...]

By | 2017-05-23T16:47:42+00:00 May 23, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills|

Partner Not Wanting To Sleep With You: Part IV

What do you do if you realize that their desire is already gone? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: You've done your thing, and your partner is still not wanting to sleep with you, not wanting to connect that way. What do you do? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. What would you do? Cathy: I've worked with a lot [...]

By | 2017-05-02T23:14:45+00:00 May 20, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills|