Dating

They Say I’m Doing Poly Wrong.. What Should I Do?

They Say I'm Doing Poly Wrong.. What Should I Do? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kDi6uVts238&feature=youtu.be Cathy: What do you do if you're shame for not being poly enough or doing poly wrong? This is Matie Fricker from http://www.SelfServeToys.com/. Hunter Riley who works at Self-Serve and has http://www.HunterRileySexEducation.com/ and I am Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/. So what have you noticed about people being poly-shamed? Matie: It happened to me, maybe [...]

By | 2017-08-28T16:25:34+00:00 March 19, 2018|Dating, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame|

Can You Give Yourself Herpes if You Use Your Own Saliva as Lube?

Can You Give Yourself Herpes if You Use Your Own Saliva as Lube? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FMj0kaNFxRg Cathy: If I use my own saliva, can I give myself herpes? This is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com/. Reid: What a great question. Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com/. Cathy: So this person wrote in that they were using their own saliva as lube and they have Herpes 1, [...]

By | 2017-08-28T16:16:23+00:00 March 16, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Trauma, Uncategorized|

I Can’t Orgasm With A Condom On – Help!

I Can't Orgasm With A Condom On - Help! Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KZRdswttC_s&feature=youtu.be   Cathy: Someone wrote in and said I’m really, I’ve never been able to cum while wearing a condom during sex. I’m trying to be safer but I feel like it’s almost like a waste of time. I’ve tried masturbating with a condom too, nothing works. I don’t orgasm with a condom [...]

By | 2017-08-28T16:01:39+00:00 March 13, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

How Do You Balance Multiple Lovers In Bed?

How Do You Balance Multiple Lovers In Bed? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a5gW8sfdc40&feature=youtu.be Cathy: So someone wrote in and asked what are some techniques and ways I can please multiple partners if I’m a swinger or a poly? This is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com/. Reid: Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Get them other lovers and partners. Cathy: I think they mean in the moment you have multiple lovers [...]

By | 2017-08-28T15:53:52+00:00 March 10, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

How Do You Work With People Who Can’t Handle Rejection?

How Do You Work With People Who Can't Handle Rejection? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BucyfxTE9nk&feature=youtu.be Reid: Video number 4 here in a series because we’re on a roll. How to handle or how to work with people who when they make a request in this case around sex, you feel like they can’t take a no gracefully or that they’re going to [...]

By | 2017-08-28T15:41:21+00:00 March 7, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

Sexual Invitation: When Is It Wanted, When Is It Not?

Sexual Invitation: When Is It Wanted, When Is It Not? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SoVPEe9qyDs&feature=youtu.be Cathy: How do you know when sexual invitation is welcomed and when it would feel intrusive? This Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ Cathy: And I think we all have times whether we did this or someone else did this were they were kinda hinting it or asking for sexual [...]

By | 2017-08-28T15:29:01+00:00 March 4, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

When Is It Somebody’s Business And When Is It Not?

What are the things you're allowed to share and when? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Privacy. What you're allowed to share, what you're not allowed to share, when it is appropriate. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheintimacyDojo.com/. Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/. Reid: Using a real life example. Boom! Cathy: So, Reid was just looking something up on his phone while we were shooting [...]

By | 2017-05-12T17:51:04+00:00 March 1, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Shame, Touch|

Should You Always Come Clean and How To Make Sure Your Partner Won’t Walk Out?

How would you know your partner won't crack up if you come clean? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: This was a question in response to our coming clean video. And the person wrote in and said, “How can you be sure that your partner will just freak out and walk away? Or is it better to come clean regardless of what will happen? When [...]

By | 2017-05-12T17:16:15+00:00 February 23, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Touch|

What Do I Do When My Boyfriend Doesn’t Say He Loves Me Or Even Likes Me?

What if your partner never says they love you or verbally shows their affection? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Our microphone’s showing. Cathy: Oh, no. Reid: Sorry. Sorry about that. Magic! Movie magic! Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “I have an anonymous question for you”, and we have a video on that that we’re gonna shoot again. Anyway, someone wrote in and said, “This isn’t [...]

By | 2017-05-12T16:17:44+00:00 February 14, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Touch|

How Do I Get My Lover Have Sex With Me Again?

What do you do if your partner or lover doesn't want to have sex? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: So someone wrote in and said you talked about how to get my wife to have sex with me again program, has it been released yet? And can you tell us how to get this to work? This is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com/. Reid: Cathy [...]

By | 2017-05-12T15:41:21+00:00 February 8, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Shame, Touch|