Energy

When You’re On The Road, How Do You Support Your Partner Back At Home?

When You're On The Road, How Do You Support Your Partner Back At Home? You're busy traveling and doing all the things you need to do, how do you support your partner back at home? With Elizabeth Wood from http://www.BedEvents.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JfYBz3EJRvk Cathy: When you’re on the road, how do you support your partner who stuck back at home keeping the home fires burning? This is Elizabeth Wood from [...]

By | 2017-08-28T21:35:28+00:00 May 6, 2018|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

Releasing The Feeling Of Being Tired of Carrying Other People’s Nonsense

Releasing The Feeling Of Being Tired of Carrying Other People's Nonsense https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MN6nm1rJhtY Cathy: This is Jimanekia Eborn from https://www.SEwJim.com/ and I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/. I do a lot of work using emotional freedom techniques as well as a coaching on intimacy. Basically I can pressure points where we can release some of the tension and stored energies in our body, help our primitive brain or survival brain relax, talk to our cognitive [...]

By | 2017-08-28T21:19:14+00:00 April 30, 2018|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

When You’ve Been Really Sick…

When You've Been Really Sick... Not many people talk about what its like after you've been really sick. There are things that can make it easier to know...Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Robin Wilson Beattie from http://www.sexAbledwithRobinWB.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2_9OiFyEEVo Cathy: So Robin, you and I have both been sick and one   Robin: Oh.   Cathy: of the things that I was so surprised with afterwards was nobody told me I’d [...]

By | 2017-08-28T20:50:08+00:00 April 18, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

What Do You Do When You Can’t Admit Something Isn’t Working?

What Do You Do When You Can't Admit Something Isn't Working? When you get stuck, it can be really hard to stop and just admit it isn't working. What do you do? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Robin Wilson Beattie from http://www.sexAbledwithRobinWB.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TNtg5WHdLDE Robin: Let me think what they’re struggling about that?   Cathy: No I’m going to tell you.   Robin: Oh yeah, that’s what I’m saying.   Cathy: [...]

By | 2017-08-28T18:30:32+00:00 April 15, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

When You’re Dating Someone New, Should You Sleep With Them Right Away?

When You're Dating Someone New, Should You Sleep With Them Right Away? Fuck first, or wait awhile? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, Yoni Alkan from http://www.ElementsofSexuality.com, Liz Powell from http://www.SexPositivePsych.com and Caroline Carrington from http://www.JewelInTheLotusCoaching.com, with special guest, sexy librarian! @DrYoniAlkan @sexpospsych @JewelotusTantra https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v-pvB5fuA_A Liz: So when you’re dating someone new, should you have sex with them first or make them wait awhile? I’m Liz Powell from http://www.SexPositivePsych.com/   Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ [...]

By | 2017-08-28T18:26:16+00:00 April 12, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Does Quality of Touch Matter?

Does Quality of Touch Matter? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qkPkTtDcECY Cathy: Does quality of touch matters when you’re on a date or hooking up? I’m Cathy Vartuli from from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com Yoni: I’m Yoni Alkan from http://www.ElementsofSexuality.com Liz: I’m Doctor Liz from http://www.SexPositivePsych.com Caroline: I’m Caroline Carrington from http://www.JewelInTheLotusCoaching.com Sexy Librarian: I’m also the talking librarian who is off screen. Liz: She’s a sexy librarian. Cathy: Yes. Caroline: Sexy, Sparkly librarian. Liz: So sparkly. So [...]

By | 2017-08-28T18:03:02+00:00 April 3, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

I Can’t Orgasm With A Condom On – Help!

I Can't Orgasm With A Condom On - Help! Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KZRdswttC_s&feature=youtu.be   Cathy: Someone wrote in and said I’m really, I’ve never been able to cum while wearing a condom during sex. I’m trying to be safer but I feel like it’s almost like a waste of time. I’ve tried masturbating with a condom too, nothing works. I don’t orgasm with a condom [...]

By | 2017-08-28T16:01:39+00:00 March 13, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

How Do You Balance Multiple Lovers In Bed?

How Do You Balance Multiple Lovers In Bed? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a5gW8sfdc40&feature=youtu.be Cathy: So someone wrote in and asked what are some techniques and ways I can please multiple partners if I’m a swinger or a poly? This is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com/. Reid: Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Get them other lovers and partners. Cathy: I think they mean in the moment you have multiple lovers [...]

By | 2017-08-28T15:53:52+00:00 March 10, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

How Do I Get My Lover Have Sex With Me Again?

What do you do if your partner or lover doesn't want to have sex? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: So someone wrote in and said you talked about how to get my wife to have sex with me again program, has it been released yet? And can you tell us how to get this to work? This is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com/. Reid: Cathy [...]

By | 2017-05-12T15:41:21+00:00 February 8, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Shame, Touch|

Is It Ever Your Fault If You’re INCEL (Involuntarily Celibate)?

Should you blame yourself if you aren't ever connecting sexually? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: We had a video on incels, people that are voluntarily celibate. And someone wrote in and said, white male that are incel are very pathetic, they belong in a group of men that are sought after by women. So your inability to get a decent woman is all caps [...]

By | 2017-05-12T15:38:58+00:00 February 2, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Shame, Touch, Trauma|