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Am I Poly? Would Poly Work For Me?

Am I Poly? Would Poly Work For Me? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vuAvotOoEN8 Cathy: Have you ever wondered if you might be poly or poly might be good for you? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/   Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ and someone wrote in and said I would be poly but for STD’s I’m really worried about those that’s the major concern and when I wrote back and said there’s a lot [...]

By | 2017-09-01T15:24:46+00:00 July 23, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

She Screamed After I Put My Dick In, What Should I Do?

She Screamed After I Put My Dick In, What Should I Do? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yh0MK0hSZSM Cathy: So this might be somewhat trigerring question but I think it’s really important to answer. Someone wrote in and said I put my dick in a pussy and she screamed, what do I do when she says stop? And I think it’s so important to talk about the fact that a lot of people don’t know [...]

By | 2018-07-20T06:00:56+00:00 July 8, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

Where Do I Go To Find Kinky Sexy Sex Geeks?

Where Do I Go To Find Kinky Sexy Sex Geeks? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VPJTwEpLlWE Cathy: Where do you find sexy, kinky, sex geeks?   Reid: Look where the tuxes are that’s where you’ll find them.   Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com   Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com my luggage got lost this morning and all I had was my suit bag which had my tux in it so were getting tuxy. [...]

By | 2018-07-20T06:04:16+00:00 June 5, 2018|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

How To Make Sure Your Date Is Aware That You’re Not Out Poly or Kinky Because of Work or Kids

How To Make Sure Your Date Is Aware That You're Not Out Poly or Kinky Because of Work or Kids   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c62edJXqpYs Cathy: If you’re poly and you’re dating, are there good ways to make sure that people you’re dating are aware that you’re not coming out because of work or kids?   Reid: I really thought you’d say “If you’re poly and dating clap your hands” (claps his hands). [...]

By | 2018-07-20T06:04:52+00:00 June 2, 2018|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Is It True That Men Don’t Have To Masturbate and Their Partners Should Do It For Them?

Is It True That Men Don't Have To Masturbate and Their Partners Should Do It For Them? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uoDOCuFpDCs Cathy: In response to our video in masturbation someone wrote in and says the guy doesn’t have to masturbate his wife or girlfriend can do if or him. He should never have to jerk off if he has a woman and if he has a foot fetish, she can use her sexy [...]

By | 2018-07-20T06:05:47+00:00 May 30, 2018|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

When You’re On The Road, How Do You Support Your Partner Back At Home?

When You're On The Road, How Do You Support Your Partner Back At Home? You're busy traveling and doing all the things you need to do, how do you support your partner back at home? With Elizabeth Wood from http://www.BedEvents.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JfYBz3EJRvk Cathy: When you’re on the road, how do you support your partner who stuck back at home keeping the home fires burning? This is Elizabeth Wood from [...]

By | 2017-08-28T21:35:28+00:00 May 6, 2018|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

Releasing The Feeling Of Being Tired of Carrying Other People’s Nonsense

Releasing The Feeling Of Being Tired of Carrying Other People's Nonsense https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MN6nm1rJhtY Cathy: This is Jimanekia Eborn from https://www.SEwJim.com/ and I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/. I do a lot of work using emotional freedom techniques as well as a coaching on intimacy. Basically I can pressure points where we can release some of the tension and stored energies in our body, help our primitive brain or survival brain relax, talk to our cognitive [...]

By | 2017-08-28T21:19:14+00:00 April 30, 2018|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

When You’ve Been Really Sick…

When You've Been Really Sick... Not many people talk about what its like after you've been really sick. There are things that can make it easier to know...Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Robin Wilson Beattie from http://www.sexAbledwithRobinWB.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2_9OiFyEEVo Cathy: So Robin, you and I have both been sick and one   Robin: Oh.   Cathy: of the things that I was so surprised with afterwards was nobody told me I’d [...]

By | 2017-08-28T20:50:08+00:00 April 18, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

What Do You Do When You Can’t Admit Something Isn’t Working?

What Do You Do When You Can't Admit Something Isn't Working? When you get stuck, it can be really hard to stop and just admit it isn't working. What do you do? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Robin Wilson Beattie from http://www.sexAbledwithRobinWB.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TNtg5WHdLDE Robin: Let me think what they’re struggling about that?   Cathy: No I’m going to tell you.   Robin: Oh yeah, that’s what I’m saying.   Cathy: [...]

By | 2017-08-28T18:30:32+00:00 April 15, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

When You’re Dating Someone New, Should You Sleep With Them Right Away?

When You're Dating Someone New, Should You Sleep With Them Right Away? Fuck first, or wait awhile? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, Yoni Alkan from http://www.ElementsofSexuality.com, Liz Powell from http://www.SexPositivePsych.com and Caroline Carrington from http://www.JewelInTheLotusCoaching.com, with special guest, sexy librarian! @DrYoniAlkan @sexpospsych @JewelotusTantra https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v-pvB5fuA_A Liz: So when you’re dating someone new, should you have sex with them first or make them wait awhile? I’m Liz Powell from http://www.SexPositivePsych.com/   Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ [...]

By | 2017-08-28T18:26:16+00:00 April 12, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|