Energy

Being Comfortable In Front Of The Video Camera… Or Doing It Anyway.

How do you shoot videos when you're uncomfortable in front of the camera? Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com with Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com share. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kjj5q4b24FE Reid: I'm so scared. Cathy: We talk a lot about videos when Reid and I do videos and we encourage a lot of people to get out there and make videos. I wanted to just share ... well, actually, Reid's here egging me on ... that [...]

By | 2017-05-08T20:06:57+00:00 October 5, 2017|Body Image, Collaborators, Energy|

Tuning In Energetically During Sex…

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OeznFObqylU Cathy: Someone wrote in and said… Reid: Flowers Cathy: Coming out on the top of your head? Reid: Yep Cathy: Oh, sorry. Reid: What they say? We have writing people who write us and say nice things and ask this questions. Cathy: Yes. Someone said she can feel her partner’s arousal energetically and she relates it. She wants to feel more about how can she tune in more, feel [...]

By | 2017-05-08T18:08:49+00:00 October 2, 2017|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

Changing Your Mind vs Telling A Lie…

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f_bK8lGy3IA Cathy: We've talked about before about what to do if you're caught in a lie or you catch somebody else in a lie. Someone wrote in and said, "My boyfriend has lied to me a number of times now, and he told me that he wanted to do something, and then he changed his mind, and I consider that a lie. What do I do now?" I'd like to [...]

Is Lack of Desire Causing Problems in Your Relationship?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lfv8YS0XeMI Cathy: In response to your webinar about my partner doesn't want to sleep with me, we've had a lot of people writing in about this. It's a great question. This woman wrote in and said, "In this situation, I'm the one who doesn't desire sex. It's just not there no matter what we've tried." They think it's menopause and hormones, but they're having trouble in their relationship because of [...]

By | 2017-05-08T17:30:58+00:00 September 20, 2017|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch, Trauma|

On-Again-Off-Again Sex Drive? What Can You Do?

How do you deal with it when you and your partner have an on again - off again sexual connection? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_ASa5NMSWYU Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, "We have had this relationship with this woman on and off again, and the -" Reid: Is it "we have had" or "I have had"?  Cathy: This person wrote in, "I've been in [...]

By | 2017-05-09T16:28:52+00:00 September 17, 2017|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Shame, Touch, Trauma|

Told A Lie, And They Won’t Forgive You? What Can You Do?

What do you do if someone won't forgive you because you lied to him? What if he tells about it to your friends? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4H1tACnA2w8 Cathy: We've talked about people, “What happens if you tell a lie and how do you fix it?” Someone wrote in reply that, “But what if the person doesn't want to forgive you and what if [...]

By | 2017-05-09T16:21:46+00:00 September 14, 2017|Energy, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Is It Possible To Be “Undateable”?

When do you label a person as undateable? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cjyf3YQlumM Cathy: Is there anyone undateable? This is Reid Mihalko from http://reidaboutsex.com/ Reid: Cathy Vatuli from the http://theintimacydojo.com/ Cathy: And BBC did a documentary called the Undateables, people that no ones dating and the person wrote in just find that people were just too older, too ugly for anyone to ever want [...]

By | 2017-05-09T15:33:53+00:00 August 30, 2017|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Trauma|

How Does It Feel When You Share Vulnerably?

Learn the different experiences when sharing vulnerability. With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l0aF0hbhZS0 Cathy: We talk a lot about vulnerability on these videos. And Reid and I were talking the other day and we kind of discovered we had different experiences when we shared vulnerably and we want to talk about that. This is Reid Mihalko http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ Cathy: Yes. So, [...]

By | 2017-08-28T14:56:51+00:00 August 27, 2017|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Shame, Trauma|

Creating Safe Space For Yourself and Others

How do you make a safe space for you and for others around you? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GBUt7BouxoE Cathy: Do you create safe space for yourself? Reid: It’s fucked out of me. Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. I swore I’m right in the beginning of the video. Fuck! Alright, how do you create safe space? Cathy: Actually, [...]

By | 2017-05-05T14:26:37+00:00 August 12, 2017|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Are There Protocals For Long Term Relationships That Aren’t Aiming For Marriage?

How do you have a long term relationship that's conscious and loving, but doesn't look like marriage, children, joint checking accounts (necessarily). Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dWnmEWayJNQ Cathy: Someone wrote in and said they love the slut protocols that you put together. Reid: Yeah, http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/slutprotocols. Cathy: But they wanted to know if you have created a set of protocols for longer term [...]

By | 2017-05-05T13:51:12+00:00 August 6, 2017|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|