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What Do You Do When The Chair Breaks Under You?

There is a fear, especially for bigger folks, that chairs and benches won't support them. What do you do when that happens? Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com shares and experience. Cathy: So, I'm at Sex Geek Summer Camp. I'm hanging out and it's the day after we're chilling. I sat down at the picnic bench and I wanted to lay down because Reid was taking a dunk. Reid: A dunk, not [...]

By | 2017-05-10T17:05:57+00:00 December 10, 2017|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame, Touch, Trauma|

Self-Care Tip… Back To Back Events? What Do You Do To Take Care Of Yourself?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=02guRt_bNUE Reid: So Cathy Vartuli, how's it going after camp? Cathy: This is actually really comfortable, believe it or not. Reid: Oh. I think you've innovated picnic table design. The reclining picnic table. The picnic table lounge. Cathy: You should try it. This is really comfortable. Reid: Are you happy that the camp is over? Cathy: I have a great time and it's probably good that it is over because [...]

By | 2017-05-10T14:06:29+00:00 December 7, 2017|Collaborators, Dating, Energy, Event, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

SnowBalling… Tea Bagging… What Do They Have To Do With Sex?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BkCDR9uH-F8 Cathy: So what’s snowballing and tea bagging? Reid: Oh lord. This is a video where they all unsubscribe. Cathy: Oh sorry, it’s been nice knowing you. Reid: Get the kids out of the room quick. This is explicit content with Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com/. Cathy: And Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ and earlier today he was shooting a video with sex nerd Sandra. Reid: Sex Nerd Sandra who is very [...]

If I Lust In My Mind… Am I Committing Adultery?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jj0pHKMY9LY Reid: Trigger warning. There’s Bible quote coming’. Cathy: Yeah, we get a lot of comments, we love the comments and this. Comment with questions you guys sent in. Someone said, but I say unto you that whoever looketh other woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart. So he felt like we were talking about…just us talking about it is wrong. Reid: Okay. [...]

If I Sleep With An Older Woman, Will I Get STDs or STIs?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f1cWU3t9kSs Cathy: So, I’ve done a video with Elizabeth Wood and Dan Powers about cougar if someone had to ask about wanting to date older women. Reid: Cougaring? Cathy: Cougaring. Reid: Is that what’s called? Cathy: Yes Reid: That’s awesome. Cougaring. My Cougars out there. [Inaudible 00:00:17] Cathy: Someone replies said that cougar mantra Reid: Cougar mantra? Cathy: Well he was not being very nice about it. Reid: Okay Cathy: [...]

How Do Handle It When If You Ask- They Say No, But If Its Their Idea- They Love it?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WdWNBQb8GUY Reid: How do you handle situations where when you ask for something, the person is a no but if it’s their idea, they’re yes? This is Cathy Vartuli from http://theintimacydojo.com/ Cathy: And this is Reid Mihalko from http://reidaboutsex.com/. Reid: We’re building off of a previous video and so I had this insight now, and I want to flip these scales on Cathy Vartuli and be like okay, so how [...]

What Do You Do When Someone Says Everything Is Fine (In Bed) But They Don’t Mean It?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mAxRBMtFVxA Cathy: Okay. So someone write in and said I come from Asia and realized that what I’m sharing is trembles cultures, people will say everything is fine, when they don’t really mean it, so she says, I’ve had sexual partners who I, they report that they love our connection, interaction with regular partners and I asked them to let me know if anything’s uncomfortable or if everything feels good…they [...]

How Do I Stop Myself From “Future Tripping”?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3QIUxn94M9c Cathy: How do I stop myself when I’m future tripping for example, my primary partner doesn’t call or text me back in a few hours I start feeling like I’m not important to him anymore therefore we’re gonna break up, etc. I take these things too far. Reid: I think I like to get myself back to the future too. Cathy: Do you have any banana pills? Reid: I [...]

By | 2017-05-10T12:38:24+00:00 November 16, 2017|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame, Touch, Trauma|

Does Status and Gender Matter? Do Women “Settle” If They Date Someone Of Equal Status?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ISjsvYAlmVc Cathy: Someone wrote in and said that they are curious about the current state of this person mentioned Japan and US where he saw a huge gap in the mentality of women towards men. Making most women on the same level as men in terms of looks, money and lifestyle, think they are better in settling down if they get together with a man of equal status. He wanted [...]

Will Strong Vibrators Numb You Out?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UWHryt9Y--Y Reid: Vibrators! Specifically the Sybian, it’s kind of like a Cadillac or John Deer tractors of vibrators the one that you sit on. Can it numb you out? Can it numb your stuff out? Can it harm you? I’m Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Hmmm… So, for transparency Sybian. I’m friends with many of the people at that company. Cathy: They are wonderful [...]

By | 2017-05-09T13:56:41+00:00 November 7, 2017|Body Image, Collaborators, Dating, Delivery, Energy, Event, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|