Is It Impractical To Ask Everyone In A Cuddle Or Play Pile For Consent? Cathy: Question: When discussing consent in a workshop someone asked, “How do you respond to someone claiming that it’s impractical to ask every participant for consent in a cuddle or fuck pile? Thanks in advance.” Reid: Yes, so… Cathy: Reid Mihalko from Reid: Oh, my god! I just wanna answer this! Cathy Vartuli from Cathy: It’s a great question. Reid: Yeah, the impractical is an interesting situation [...]

How Should Ejaculate Come Out When I Come? Should It Spurt Or Drip?

Wondering how cum should come out during orgasm for a penis owner? Find out with Reid Mihalko from and Cathy Vartuli from Cathy: When you ejaculate, as, if with a penis owner, how was the sperm supposed to come out? Is this supposed to launch like a rocket or is this supposed to leak out? Reid: Excellent question, this is Cathy Vartuli from Cathy: And [...]

How Do I Keep Casual Sex, Casual?

If you have casual sex, how do you keep the connection... casual? Cathy: So we just answered the question about how to have casual sex and leave your partner feeling great but someone else wrote in said I’ve noticed that whenever I have sex with people even if we have agreed on casual sex after I first time I have casual sex with them they start calling me like [...]

By | 2017-05-09T13:30:33+00:00 October 23, 2017|Collaborators, Dating, Delivery, Energy, Event, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

How Can I Have Casual Sex And Leave Them Feeling Great? Cathy: Someone wrote in and said to Reid, I love your interview with Christopher Ryan. It was really good and he continued although it’s too short I definitely need help with the cabin casual sex and leaving a girl feeling great about our relationship. Can you give us some advice? This is Reid Mihalko from Reid: Cathy Vartuli from and we have a new microphone that we’re [...]

Being Comfortable In Front Of The Video Camera… Or Doing It Anyway.

How do you shoot videos when you're uncomfortable in front of the camera? Cathy Vartuli from with Reid Mihalko from share. Reid: I'm so scared. Cathy: We talk a lot about videos when Reid and I do videos and we encourage a lot of people to get out there and make videos. I wanted to just share ... well, actually, Reid's here egging me on ... that [...]

By | 2017-05-08T20:06:57+00:00 October 5, 2017|Body Image, Collaborators, Energy|

Tuning In Energetically During Sex… Cathy: Someone wrote in and said… Reid: Flowers Cathy: Coming out on the top of your head? Reid: Yep Cathy: Oh, sorry. Reid: What they say? We have writing people who write us and say nice things and ask this questions. Cathy: Yes. Someone said she can feel her partner’s arousal energetically and she relates it. She wants to feel more about how can she tune in more, feel [...]

By | 2017-05-08T18:08:49+00:00 October 2, 2017|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

Changing Your Mind vs Telling A Lie… Cathy: We've talked about before about what to do if you're caught in a lie or you catch somebody else in a lie. Someone wrote in and said, "My boyfriend has lied to me a number of times now, and he told me that he wanted to do something, and then he changed his mind, and I consider that a lie. What do I do now?" I'd like to [...]

Is Lack of Desire Causing Problems in Your Relationship? Cathy: In response to your webinar about my partner doesn't want to sleep with me, we've had a lot of people writing in about this. It's a great question. This woman wrote in and said, "In this situation, I'm the one who doesn't desire sex. It's just not there no matter what we've tried." They think it's menopause and hormones, but they're having trouble in their relationship because of [...]

By | 2017-05-08T17:30:58+00:00 September 20, 2017|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch, Trauma|

On-Again-Off-Again Sex Drive? What Can You Do?

How do you deal with it when you and your partner have an on again - off again sexual connection? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, "We have had this relationship with this woman on and off again, and the -" Reid: Is it "we have had" or "I have had"?  Cathy: This person wrote in, "I've been in [...]

By | 2017-05-09T16:28:52+00:00 September 17, 2017|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Shame, Touch, Trauma|

Told A Lie, And They Won’t Forgive You? What Can You Do?

What do you do if someone won't forgive you because you lied to him? What if he tells about it to your friends? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from Cathy: We've talked about people, “What happens if you tell a lie and how do you fix it?” Someone wrote in reply that, “But what if the person doesn't want to forgive you and what if [...]

By | 2017-05-09T16:21:46+00:00 September 14, 2017|Energy, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|