What If You Want To Change The Level of Connection in A Relationship?

Been Hanging out with someone and want to not spend the same amount of time and intimacy with them? What do you do? With Cathy Vartuli from, Andi Cortland from Andi: That's really interesting, but then what happens if say you have had a connection with someone in the past, but right now you're just totally overbooked? You have so many amazing things happening in your life that [...]

By | 2016-09-22T15:02:51+00:00 October 22, 2016|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

When Is It Time To Pull Out?

Knowing the sensations just before you come give you greater control and possibility during sex. With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from and Reid: Focus! What are we working on? This is Cathy Vartuli from  Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko for  Reid: We have a question.  Cathy: You actually started this as a joke, but I actually want to know. How do you know [...]

By | 2016-01-04T09:32:40+00:00 May 19, 2016|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

Ever Feel Pressured To Act How People Expect You To Act?

Its easy to feel obligated to meet people's expectations. How do you get around that so you can be self-expressed? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from and Cathy: There's theories in sociology that I've actually ... I believe that are real because I've felt them, but we sometimes behave according to how we think other people think we should behave. Reid: What's that called? Cathy: [...]

By | 2016-01-07T09:02:19+00:00 May 13, 2016|Body Image, Energy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Taking the Confusion Out of Giving Intimacy: With Betty Martin

Cathy: Hi everyone. I'm Cathy Vartuli from Here with Betty Martin from We're talking about giving. Now, have you ever been confused about giving and felt a little awkward about it? Betty is going to show us some ways to make it more clear and easy. Thanks, Betty. Betty: Thank you. First I want to define giving, because it can be thought of in a lot of ways. In our [...]

By | 2016-01-08T06:07:12+00:00 February 11, 2016|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Want To Work With More Clients and Not Burn Out?

Ready to touch more lives and make more money? But don't want to burn out or be exhausted all the time? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from Cathy: How can I work with more clients without burning out? Someone wrote in and said they're really concerned about this. They want to make more money. They want to reach more people and they're feeling burnt out. Reid: Well, [...]

By | 2016-01-04T08:09:46+00:00 January 29, 2016|Energy, Relationship Skills|

What Is Sex Magic and Can I Use It For Success In Business?

Sex Magic for Business? Does it work? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from Reid: Sex magic. Can you use it on your business, what the hell is it? Cathy Vartuli from Cathy: Reid Mihalko from Reid: Some of you know that I am a pragmatist. I like my science and my peer reviewed double blind research. Cathy's by night, a 19 patents holding engineer, [...]

By | 2016-06-27T09:58:34+00:00 December 18, 2015|Energy|

Appreciation for Comments and Questions!

Thank you for your great comments and questions!! With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from Cathy: Hi, I'm Cathy Vartuli from the Do you want to start again? Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko, the interrupting cow. Moo. Cathy: From Reid: And also a creator of Sex Geek Summer Camp. We just want to say for the people who are leaving all the fun, "Oh my God [...]

By | 2015-12-23T21:02:32+00:00 December 9, 2015|Energy|

How Can You Be Part Of The Community Faster?

How can you build relationships faster? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from Cathy: How can you build relationships that are deep in a relatively short amount of time?  This is Reid Mihalko from and I'm Cathy Vartuli from  I think I've worn you out.  Is it too much work? Reid: We've been shooting videos for a while now, all because you keep leaving amazing [...]

By | 2016-01-05T06:01:05+00:00 November 12, 2015|Energy, Event, Relationship Skills|

What Do You Do About A Mini-Stalker?

How do you handle someone who is SOOO excited about you that they mini-stalk you? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from Cathy: How do you deal with someone who mini-stalks you? This is Reid Mihalko from Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from Cathy: We've all had times where people really enjoyed being with us or we've enjoyed being with them, but sometimes people don't [...]

By | 2016-01-05T08:37:33+00:00 September 16, 2015|Energy, Relationship Skills|

When Someone Says Really Mean Things… What Do You Do?

What to do when someone says something really mean to you? Examples with Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from Reid: From the road. Reid Mihalko from Cathy: And Cathy Vartuli from Reid: Answering your questions to our videos. Cathy: In reply to our video on how to handle mean people, how to deal with them. Reid: Somebody left a really mean comment. Cathy: Yes. Reid: [...]

By | 2016-04-12T22:45:38+00:00 September 10, 2015|Energy, Relationship Skills, Trauma|