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What If Your Husband Is Just Not Interested In Sex?

How do you deal when your husband doesn't want to have sex with you? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tZ7yxAv7n7c Cathy: One of our viewers wrote in and said, "My husband and I have had frank discussions about our lack of sexual relations for the past several years. His final answer is, ‘I'm just not interested.’ That took me by surprise and I don't know [...]

By | 2017-05-09T16:13:04+00:00 September 11, 2017|Body Image, Dating, Event, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Touch|

What Is INCEL and Why Do People Use The Term?

What's the meaning of INCEL? Are there undateable people? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8EWmIBhf1Ck Cathy: Do you know what “Incel” means?  And how to use it? Reid: How do you spell it? Cathy:  I-N-C-E-L. Reid:  Google it! Google fuckin’ exist. This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Before you Google things, If you’re some junior, what’s ‘Incel’? [...]

By | 2017-05-09T16:08:10+00:00 September 8, 2017|Body Image, Dating, Event, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame, Touch, Trauma|

What’s The Sex Toy Etiquette When A Friend Has A New Toy?

What do you do if someone has a new cool sex toy and you want to see it? Do you just grab it? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G8o02f-kyAM Cathy: A good friend shows up with their brand new sex toy. So cool. Reid: It's so shiny. Cathy: It's nice and bright and it's one you've wanted to see forever. Reid: I want to touch [...]

By | 2017-05-09T15:39:10+00:00 September 2, 2017|Collaborators, Event, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

What’s A Respectful Way To End A Date And Close The Evening?

Wanting to end the connection for the evening in a loving and respectful way? Learn how with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GCYKV21YooU Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, I’d like to see of examples of respectful goodbye rituals from long term partners to unhook from each other and smooth out their own Velcro hooks so they can go well and return keenly. Do you have [...]

By | 2017-05-04T16:04:26+00:00 July 19, 2017|Dating, Event, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Video Geek Tips: What Do You take On The Road?

When you're doing video interviews on the road, what do you take with you? With Cathy Vartuli of http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Hello. Sex geek, welcome back to Sex Geek's School for Gifted Sex Geeks. SG3. Today we have a special guest. Ladies and gentlemen, Cathy Vartuli of The Intimacy Dojo, goes the crowd.  Cathy: Hi, everyone.  Reid: We have some meta stuff going on today. This [...]

By | 2016-01-08T09:31:55+00:00 December 29, 2016|Event, Sex Geeks|

Afraid of Discussing Sex? What If You Have a Sex-Positive Business?

How can you be empowered about discussing sex when you feel frightened and ashamed to talk about sex in public? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, and Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com. Cathy: What if you're ashamed to use the word sex or talk about intimacy? What if you're afraid of it? I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Andi: I'm Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com.  Cathy: Thank you for sharing this. I went through [...]

By | 2016-09-22T15:03:44+00:00 October 25, 2016|Event, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame|

How Can I Make My Meetup Group More Inclusive and Diverse?

How can I make my group more inviting to people with different backgrounds, incomes, ages, races, and perspectives? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Someone who runs a polyamory group wrote in and said, "I just started this group but it's mostly Caucasian people with money, how do I attract people..." Reid: That idea is again younger people. Cathy: Younger, yeah. How do I attract [...]

By | 2016-09-22T14:59:48+00:00 October 13, 2016|Collaborators, Event, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

What To Know How To Get Sponsors For Your Heart Centered Business?

Learn the 411 of getting sponsors and leaving them feel super happy! Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: It's recording. Have you ever wondered how to get sponsors? Reid: I have. Hi! This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com, the creator of Sex Geek Summer Camp and when I'm wearing the camp shirt, it's business advise with Cathy Vartuli from the Intimacy Dojo. Cathy: I [...]

By | 2016-01-04T09:14:20+00:00 May 28, 2016|Event|

How Do You Take Care Of Yourself After You Run Events?

After you put out a lot of energy and make sure everyone has a magical experience at your event, how do you take care of yourself? How can you bounce back and recharge? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com.   Reid: What are your after care needs when you run events? After what? Cathy: Knowing how you like to celebrate and wind down is [...]

By | 2016-01-04T08:36:34+00:00 May 10, 2016|Event, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Do You Know When To Cancel An Event And When To Push Forward?

Life events or low attendance can make it challenging to go forward with a planned event. How do you know when to pull out? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com.   Reid: How do you know when it's time to pull out? Cathy: Of an event. Reid: Of an event. This is business advice because I'm wearing my "Sex Geek Summer Camp" T-shirt, which [...]

By | 2016-01-08T05:53:46+00:00 May 7, 2016|Event, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|