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How Can I Have Casual Sex And Leave Them Feeling Great?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7p91IWa1t3w Cathy: Someone wrote in and said to Reid, I love your interview with Christopher Ryan. It was really good and he continued although it’s too short I definitely need help with the cabin casual sex and leaving a girl feeling great about our relationship. Can you give us some advice? This is Reid Mihalko from https://ReidAboutSex.com/. Reid: Cathy Vartuli from https://TheIntimacyDojo.com/ and we have a new microphone that we’re [...]

What Do You Do If Someone Smells? How Do You Tell Them?

Dealing with someone's odors can be challenging. Can you talk to them about it? Learn how with Dan Powers and Elizabeth Wood from http://www.BeyondTheBedroom.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pSjaD2CsmVQ Dan: Have you ever been to an event and somebody really smell not quite right for you.  Well, I’ve got two beautiful women here that can help us answer the question.. Cathy and Elizabeth:  What do you do then? [...]

By | 2017-05-08T20:37:48+00:00 October 14, 2017|Body Image, Collaborators, Dating, Event, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame, Touch, Trauma|

Dealing with Body Image And Shame In The Bedroom…

How do you get past body image issues and shame when you're getting sexual? With Dan Power and Elizabeth Wood from http://www.BeyondTheBedroom.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EbzwshBroDM Cathy: In life in general and especially in the bedroom, body image and shame can really crop up and lock our flow and our sexuality and our feeling of desirability. We have some amazing people here tonight and we're going to [...]

By | 2017-05-08T20:30:20+00:00 October 11, 2017|Body Image, Dating, Event, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame, Touch, Trauma|

What If Your Husband Is Just Not Interested In Sex?

How do you deal when your husband doesn't want to have sex with you? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tZ7yxAv7n7c Cathy: One of our viewers wrote in and said, "My husband and I have had frank discussions about our lack of sexual relations for the past several years. His final answer is, ‘I'm just not interested.’ That took me by surprise and I don't know [...]

By | 2017-05-09T16:13:04+00:00 September 11, 2017|Body Image, Dating, Event, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Touch|

What Is INCEL and Why Do People Use The Term?

What's the meaning of INCEL? Are there undateable people? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8EWmIBhf1Ck Cathy: Do you know what “Incel” means?  And how to use it? Reid: How do you spell it? Cathy:  I-N-C-E-L. Reid:  Google it! Google fuckin’ exist. This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Before you Google things, If you’re some junior, what’s ‘Incel’? [...]

By | 2017-05-09T16:08:10+00:00 September 8, 2017|Body Image, Dating, Event, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame, Touch, Trauma|

What’s The Sex Toy Etiquette When A Friend Has A New Toy?

What do you do if someone has a new cool sex toy and you want to see it? Do you just grab it? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G8o02f-kyAM Cathy: A good friend shows up with their brand new sex toy. So cool. Reid: It's so shiny. Cathy: It's nice and bright and it's one you've wanted to see forever. Reid: I want to touch [...]

By | 2017-05-09T15:39:10+00:00 September 2, 2017|Collaborators, Event, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

What’s A Respectful Way To End A Date And Close The Evening?

Wanting to end the connection for the evening in a loving and respectful way? Learn how with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GCYKV21YooU Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, I’d like to see of examples of respectful goodbye rituals from long term partners to unhook from each other and smooth out their own Velcro hooks so they can go well and return keenly. Do you have [...]

By | 2017-05-04T16:04:26+00:00 July 19, 2017|Dating, Event, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Video Geek Tips: What Do You take On The Road?

When you're doing video interviews on the road, what do you take with you? With Cathy Vartuli of http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Hello. Sex geek, welcome back to Sex Geek's School for Gifted Sex Geeks. SG3. Today we have a special guest. Ladies and gentlemen, Cathy Vartuli of The Intimacy Dojo, goes the crowd.  Cathy: Hi, everyone.  Reid: We have some meta stuff going on today. This [...]

By | 2016-01-08T09:31:55+00:00 December 29, 2016|Event, Sex Geeks|

Afraid of Discussing Sex? What If You Have a Sex-Positive Business?

How can you be empowered about discussing sex when you feel frightened and ashamed to talk about sex in public? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, and Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com. Cathy: What if you're ashamed to use the word sex or talk about intimacy? What if you're afraid of it? I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Andi: I'm Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com.  Cathy: Thank you for sharing this. I went through [...]

By | 2016-09-22T15:03:44+00:00 October 25, 2016|Event, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame|

How Can I Make My Meetup Group More Inclusive and Diverse?

How can I make my group more inviting to people with different backgrounds, incomes, ages, races, and perspectives? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Someone who runs a polyamory group wrote in and said, "I just started this group but it's mostly Caucasian people with money, how do I attract people..." Reid: That idea is again younger people. Cathy: Younger, yeah. How do I attract [...]

By | 2016-09-22T14:59:48+00:00 October 13, 2016|Collaborators, Event, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|