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Receiving vs Being Done To: Betty Martin on Intimacy

There is give and take in every relationship. Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com interviews Betty Martin from http://www.BettyMartin.org about receiving and being "done to." Cathy: Hi everyone. I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, I’m here with Betty Martin fromhttp://www.BettyMartin.org. Betty has great insight into how people can have more intimacy and connection in really powerful ways. Some of it is really subtle, but it makes just a delightful difference. Betty, what is the [...]

By | 2016-01-07T12:37:27+00:00 February 24, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Taking and Receiving: With Betty Martin

There is give and take in every relationship. Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com interviews Betty Martin from http://www.BettyMartin.org about making taking and receiving consciously. Cathy: Today, we're talking about taking and receiving. I'm here with Betty Martin from http://www.BettyMartin.org. I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Betty, why is it important for people to understand the difference between giving and receiving? Betty: That's a great question, and that's one that's really very often confusing [...]

By | 2016-01-19T13:15:33+00:00 February 20, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Intimacy and Connection: Allowing, with Betty Martin

There is give and take in every relationship. Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com interviews Betty Martin from http://www.BettyMartin.org about Allowing. Cathy: Hi, everyone. I'm Cathy Vartuli from www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. You're with Betty Martin from www.BettyMartin.org. We're going to be talking about 'allowing' now. Betty, why is that important? Why do we need to talk about this? Betty: Because it is so fun. That's why. Cathy: (Laughing). I love talking about fun things. [...]

By | 2016-04-14T11:34:43+00:00 February 17, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Playing with Touch and Intimacy: with Betty Martin

There is give and take in every relationship. Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com interviews Betty Martin from http://www.BettyMartin.org about playing with touch and intimacy. Cathy: I'm Cathy Vartuli from www.TheIntimacyDojo.com here with Betty Martin from www.BettyMartin.org. She's going to share the three-minute game with us. Hey, Betty. Betty: Hey! (Laugh). My favorite topic. Cathy: Is it? Betty: Yes. Pretty much. I'm writing a book on it. We've been talking with you [...]

By | 2016-01-07T12:36:22+00:00 February 14, 2016|Dating, Flirting|

Taking the Confusion Out of Giving Intimacy: With Betty Martin

Cathy: Hi everyone. I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Here with Betty Martin fromhttp://www.BettyMartin.org. We're talking about giving. Now, have you ever been confused about giving and felt a little awkward about it? Betty is going to show us some ways to make it more clear and easy. Thanks, Betty. Betty: Thank you. First I want to define giving, because it can be thought of in a lot of ways. In our [...]

By | 2016-01-08T06:07:12+00:00 February 11, 2016|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Want To Become A Sex Educator? Not Sure Where To Start?

Curious about what it takes to be a sex educator? What about the different types of sex educators? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.   Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, "How does a layperson become a sex educator?  Reid: You said lay. Sorry. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from http://www ReidAboutSex.com. How does a model ... have you ever [...]

By | 2016-01-04T08:07:08+00:00 February 8, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills|

How Do Seniors Meet Energetic Passionate Partners?

How do people in their 50's on up meet amazing partners? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: “What advice can you give someone to a senior person wanting to meet a partner that enjoy life with?” Reid: Okay. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: And Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Aha! We have been seniors, it was like in high school or college. So [...]

By | 2016-01-07T09:18:53+00:00 February 5, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills|

Can A 55 Year Old Woman Have 5 Boyfriends?

We say, Yes! Here's some steps to get there! With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid:  I'm going to start reading it and then start the video? Cathy:  Yeah. You're so helpful, thank you. Someone wrote in and said, "What is it like for a lively woman of 55 to have five boyfriends. I'm thinking I would like this, but don't know how to go about [...]

By | 2016-01-07T09:20:32+00:00 February 2, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills|

How Can You Use Internal or Female Condoms?

 Curious about how to use internal or female condoms? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.   Reid: Pring! Pring! Hello? Oh yes, you have a question about putting on internal condoms or what we used to be called female condoms? Hang on! We'll shoot that video. Cathy Vartuli from Intimacy Dojo, it's for you. Cathy: Thank you, Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Wow, can we be cornier? [...]

By | 2016-01-07T12:22:53+00:00 January 27, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Uncategorized|

Can Being Too Dry Cause The Condom To Tear?

Will the condom tear if you don't have enough lube? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.   Cathy: There it goes. So someone wrote in and said she is inexperienced having multiple-partner sex. She's ... Reid: She's inexperienced having multiple-partnered sex? Cathy: Yeah. So she had some questions. Reid: Multi partners, meaning more than one person in the bed? Cathy: Mm-hmm (affirmative). Reid: Excellent. Cathy: Yes, [...]

By | 2016-01-07T08:43:23+00:00 January 20, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills|