How Can You Use Internal or Female Condoms?

 Curious about how to use internal or female condoms? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from   Reid: Pring! Pring! Hello? Oh yes, you have a question about putting on internal condoms or what we used to be called female condoms? Hang on! We'll shoot that video. Cathy Vartuli from Intimacy Dojo, it's for you. Cathy: Thank you, Reid Mihalko from Wow, can we be cornier? [...]

By | 2016-01-07T12:22:53+00:00 January 27, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Uncategorized|

Can Being Too Dry Cause The Condom To Tear?

Will the condom tear if you don't have enough lube? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from   Cathy: There it goes. So someone wrote in and said she is inexperienced having multiple-partner sex. She's ... Reid: She's inexperienced having multiple-partnered sex? Cathy: Yeah. So she had some questions. Reid: Multi partners, meaning more than one person in the bed? Cathy: Mm-hmm (affirmative). Reid: Excellent. Cathy: Yes, [...]

By | 2016-01-07T08:43:23+00:00 January 20, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills|

Consecutive or Concurrent Dating?

How do you like to date? And can Reid remember the word? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from     Reid: Hello everybody, it's Reid Mihalko from Cathy: And Cathy Vartuli from Reid: And we have an answer. We figured out from this other video that we're shooting about concurrent and congruent relationships, and I'm like, that's not the word. The word is consecutive. [...]

By | 2016-04-13T11:44:35+00:00 January 17, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

If You Giggle When You’re Nervous, How Do You Let People Know You’re Not Flirting?

Do you giggle and laugh when you feel nervous? Do people think you're flirting? What can you do? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from Cathy: We had someone write in and say that … well she’s really shy, she tends to smile and laugh when people flirt with her. Reid: We switched sides. That’s going to screw everybody up. Cathy: Yeah. Reid: What were you saying? [...]

By | 2016-06-23T11:57:19+00:00 January 11, 2016|Dating, Flirting|

Want To Let Someone Know You’re In An Open Relationship?

Can you graciously and flirtatiously let someone know you're in an open relationship? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from Cathy: How do you let someone know graciously and flirtatiously that you might be ... that you are in an open relationship and that you might be interested in them? Reid: I don't know. Cathy: Oh hey! Reid: I'm in an open relationship, how about you? Cathy: [...]

By | 2016-01-05T08:08:15+00:00 December 27, 2015|Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Have You Been Rejected… And Once You Changed They’re Chasing You?

It hurts to be rejected, and then have that person change their mind when you're love weight or had some other success....With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from Reid: One of our amazing Sex Geeky viewers wrote in that they have recently been working and improving ... and kicking ass in a particular area of their business and they've also been losing some weight. And they're receiving [...]

By | 2016-01-08T12:23:21+00:00 December 24, 2015|Dating, Flirting|

Someone Hitting On Your Partner In Front Of You?

Not sure what to do when someone hits on your partner in front of you? What can you say? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from Reid: What do you do when somebody hits on your boyfriend, girlfriend, your husband, or your wife? This is Cathy Vartuli from Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from Reid: Oh yeah, time to throw down. No. Cathy: Well, it [...]

By | 2016-01-07T08:49:25+00:00 November 24, 2015|Flirting|

Can You Use Facebook Ads As A Sex Educator?

If you're trying to reach people who want to learn more about physical intimacy and sex, can you use Facebook ads? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from Cathy: Facebook ads. They're great way to reach people but they can be a pain in the butt espe- Reid: Especially when you're a sex educator. Cathy: They get rejected time after time after time. Reid: Facebook is like, [...]

By | 2016-01-04T07:26:01+00:00 November 6, 2015|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

I’m Poly… I can’t Tell If My Crush Is… What Do I Do?

How do you know if its ok to flirt with someone if you're poly and you don't know if they are? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from Reid: This just in. A writer or commenter writes in. It's very detailed and I'll just summarize it but I just want to thank all of you who leave comments and leave questions or email us questions and comments [...]

By | 2016-04-13T05:34:44+00:00 October 19, 2015|Flirting, Relationship Skills|

When Is It Nice To Be Desired… And When Its Not…

What do you do when you're getting attention you're not in the mood for or don't want, what do you do? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from Cathy: Hi, I'm Cathy Vartuli from Reid: I'm Reid from Reid Mihalko from Cathy: We're talking about arousal, attraction, and when it's nice and when it's not. It's really great to be desired when it's someone that [...]

By | 2016-01-05T07:42:44+00:00 August 7, 2015|Flirting|