Jealousy

How Do You Deal With Repeated Minor Putdowns?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LOAbTeO5kr8 Cathy: At camp, Sex Geek Summer Camp which Reid respond amazing event there were lot of talks about people were talking about micro aggressions were and how to make people feel valued and welcomed. I don’t meddle a lot or talked to that really well. And one question we have is what is the difference about micro aggression and genuine expression for instance if one person always says you [...]

Where Is The Boundary Between Other People’s Need To Feel Special, and My Consent

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1nplixJBKeQ Cathy: So, where is the boundary between other people’s need to feel special and my consent? This is Reid Mihalko from www.ReidAboutSex.com Reid: Cathy Vartuli from www.TheIntimacyDojo.com Cathy: You do remember who I am? Reid: Yes I do but this is a good question, read the question again. Cathy: Some people have a very strong need to feel special and where is the boundary between their need to feel [...]

Betrayal… And How Can Someone Bounce Back?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e0-CgrlvnXs Cathy: We have new comment. Hey peeps, running for a dear friend who had a classic narcissistic partner with who have been lying to her for years. A lot something major, it’s a long story. I’m looking for advice about psychological response to experiencing betrayal and the loss of abusive addictive relationship. How can someone flame of bad relationships of their self-talks than can find strength to pick up [...]

What If My Partner Doesn’t Want To Sleep Over After Sex?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_si1nghPrsk Cathy: We have a wonderful viewer who write in and said that she loved our video on when your partner doesn’t want to sleep with you meaning sexual sleep with you but she said you know I love sleeping after the date like after we have sex. I love when my partner wants to sleep over and I am dating someone right now, he doesn’t want to spend the [...]

I Miss Giving My HSV Positive Partner Oral… Is There Anything I Can Do?

If you have Herpes, do you need to stop having oral sex with your partner? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Hi guys! My wife has HSV 2 but I don’t I don’t have one or two we’ve been 30 years. I kinda wish I could get infected because I miss giving her oral sex please keep up the good work. This is Reid Mihalko [...]

By | 2017-05-10T20:19:28+00:00 December 19, 2017|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Shame, Touch, Trauma|

Is It Okay To Masturbate To Someone?

Can you fantasize about someone when you masturbate? What is the ethics around this? With Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from htto://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: So one of our amazing viewers wrote and said, it is okay if I fantasize, they’re talking to you, fantasize about you when I masturbate? Reid: I didn’t see this comment. Cathy: I haven’t share it with you yet. Reid: Oh my goodness. Cathy: You [...]

By | 2017-05-10T17:17:26+00:00 December 13, 2017|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Shame, Touch, Trauma|

What Do You Do When The Chair Breaks Under You?

There is a fear, especially for bigger folks, that chairs and benches won't support them. What do you do when that happens? Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com shares and experience. Cathy: So, I'm at Sex Geek Summer Camp. I'm hanging out and it's the day after we're chilling. I sat down at the picnic bench and I wanted to lay down because Reid was taking a dunk. Reid: A dunk, not [...]

By | 2017-05-10T17:05:57+00:00 December 10, 2017|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame, Touch, Trauma|

If I Lust In My Mind… Am I Committing Adultery?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jj0pHKMY9LY Reid: Trigger warning. There’s Bible quote coming’. Cathy: Yeah, we get a lot of comments, we love the comments and this. Comment with questions you guys sent in. Someone said, but I say unto you that whoever looketh other woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart. So he felt like we were talking about…just us talking about it is wrong. Reid: Okay. [...]

How Do Handle It When If You Ask- They Say No, But If Its Their Idea- They Love it?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WdWNBQb8GUY Reid: How do you handle situations where when you ask for something, the person is a no but if it’s their idea, they’re yes? This is Cathy Vartuli from http://theintimacydojo.com/ Cathy: And this is Reid Mihalko from http://reidaboutsex.com/. Reid: We’re building off of a previous video and so I had this insight now, and I want to flip these scales on Cathy Vartuli and be like okay, so how [...]

What Do You Do When Someone Says Everything Is Fine (In Bed) But They Don’t Mean It?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mAxRBMtFVxA Cathy: Okay. So someone write in and said I come from Asia and realized that what I’m sharing is trembles cultures, people will say everything is fine, when they don’t really mean it, so she says, I’ve had sexual partners who I, they report that they love our connection, interaction with regular partners and I asked them to let me know if anything’s uncomfortable or if everything feels good…they [...]