Jealousy

Passive Aggressive Friends And What You Can Do About Them…

What should you do if your friend won't go directly to you to talk about issues and won't let you know what he wants and instead, he gets passive aggressive? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: What if you have a friend that you really care about who sometimes gets a little passive aggressive. Reid: Whatever.. Cathy: And not so suddenly pulls you down. Reid: Way to go. [...]

By | 2017-05-02T18:01:01+00:00 May 8, 2017|Dating, Jealousy, Relationship Skills|

3 Strikes Rule And Lying/Changing Your Mind

What are the 3 Strikes Rule and how are they applied to lying? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.     Reid: Cathy promised me that was the last video but now we have to shoot another one. Cathy: Actually I- Reid: You lied to me! Cathy: No, you changed your mind. Reid: Okay, the first video if you haven't seen it was about lying and there [...]

By | 2017-05-03T20:21:59+00:00 May 2, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills|

Do You End Up Being Friends With People You’re Interested In Romantically? Here’s Help!

Cathy: Some people end up being friends with everyone they're interested with romantically. It doesn't ever quite transition to romantic. They end up being buddies. That can be really frustrating. Reid: The friend zone. Cathy: Yes. It can be very frustrating.  What would you do, Reid Mihalko, from http://wwwReidAboutSex.com? Reid: I don't know, Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. What would I do? What a weird segue. Being stuck in the friend zone. [...]

By | 2016-09-23T15:27:19+00:00 April 23, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Do You Deal With Haters? And Herpes Not A Big Deal?!

Someone calling you a wacko? And saying you're way off track? What can you do? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Reid: Hate mail, hate mail, whatcha gonna do? Whatcha gonna do when the haters come for you? Okay, so this really isn't necessarily hate mail ...  Cathy: Well, calling us "fucking wackos" is a little bit unpleasant.  Reid: Well, we're a little bit [...]

By | 2016-09-23T14:55:52+00:00 March 17, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Trauma|

Gossip and How To Deal With It

Being generous and nice to someone and then find out they're saying bad things behind your back? What do you do? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: We have writer write in. We love it when you write in because it gives us things should be used about. You do not want us just to sit here without anything to do. A little hands and [...]

By | 2016-09-23T14:43:57+00:00 February 12, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Jealousy Explained

Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.ThrivingNow.com (and founder of http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com) discuss the different aspects of jealousy and how understanding the "8-arms" of jealousy can add ease and deepen connection. Cathy: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://ThrivingNow.com. I'm here with Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. We're talking about jealousy. Reid: This is video three. There are two other videos if you have not seen them. Cathy: They stand alone, [...]

By | 2016-09-08T06:37:57+00:00 January 31, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Jealousy in Polyamorous Relationships: Examples and Stories

Wanting to handle jealousy better? What are examples of jealousy in poly relationships? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and asked about jealousy in a polyamorous relationship and was asking if we had some stories we could share that would help bring it down to a real level, like a more practical experiential level.  Reid: And Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com has a [...]

By | 2016-09-22T14:57:07+00:00 October 10, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Jealousy and the Law of Attraction

How does understanding jealousy can help you attract more of what you want in your life? Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.ThrivingNow.com (and founder of http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com) discuss how understanding jealousy can help you attract more of what you want in your life. Cathy: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://ThrivingNow.com. I'm here with Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. If you saw the first video, we were talking about how [...]

By | 2016-09-19T14:36:36+00:00 October 7, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Can Understanding Jealousy Give You More Confidence?

Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.ThrivingNow.com (and founder of http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com) discuss how understanding jealousy can give you more confidence. Cathy: Good evening, this is Cathy Vartuli from http://ThrivingNow.com. I'm here with Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. We're going to be talking about jealousy today. Reid: The green-eyed beast. Cathy: We all have jealousy and our society does not teach us how to deal with it well, most of [...]

By | 2016-09-19T14:33:29+00:00 October 4, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

When Can Disappointment and Grief Be Triggered By Childhood Experiences?

Sometimes emotional pain can hit us out of the blue... And seem way out of line with the intensity we might expect. Sometimes that's because the disappointment is resonating with something from your childhood. What do you do? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: Dealing with the grief of disappointment. How do you do it? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.  Reid: This [...]

By | 2016-09-19T14:31:11+00:00 October 1, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Shame|