Jealousy

When Can Disappointment and Grief Be Triggered By Childhood Experiences?

Sometimes emotional pain can hit us out of the blue... And seem way out of line with the intensity we might expect. Sometimes that's because the disappointment is resonating with something from your childhood. What do you do? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: Dealing with the grief of disappointment. How do you do it? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.  Reid: This [...]

By | 2016-09-19T14:31:11+00:00 October 1, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Shame|

Dealing With Envy and Disappointment When There’s No Way To Get That Need Met…

It's easier to deal with disappointment and envy when you have alternatives... Can't have chocolate ice cream, just have chocolate chip. What do you when you can't have ice cream at all? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: This is Reid being helpful.  Reid: This is a very important question and I'm feeling intimidated.  Cathy: Someone asked:  "How do you deal with envy [...]

By | 2016-09-22T14:50:24+00:00 September 22, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Trauma|

Keep Running Into An Ex-Friend And Feel Drawn To Reconnect?

If you're in the same social circle and keep running into an ex-friend... How do you not get pulled in again? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: All right. Someone wrote in and said that they watched our video about talking about conflict.  Reid: We love when you write in!  Cathy: Yes.  Reid: Keep writing in.  Cathy: She said it actually went really [...]

By | 2016-01-07T09:00:25+00:00 May 16, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame, Trauma|

Can You Really Just Watch Your Partner Sleep With Someone Else?

If your partner wants to sleep with someone else, does it work for you to watch? Or does that make you feel bad? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, "What's wrong with you dude? You just sit there and watch while someone else fucked your girl?" and while the language wasn't very polite I really think there's a [...]

By | 2016-01-07T09:04:00+00:00 May 1, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Being Accused of Being a Cheater… When You’re Innocent?

What if your partner keeps expecting you to cheat? And you're not! Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said "My partner thinks I'm going to cheat in the future and he's spending a lot of time talking about it. But the thing is, I haven't done anything that I'm aware of and I have no intention to cheat. What [...]

By | 2016-01-07T09:08:54+00:00 March 26, 2016|Dating, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Did Your Partner “Steal” Your Latest Crush?

What if your partner beats you to the punch flirting with someone you like? What can you do? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: What happens when you and your partner are interested in the same person and they start flirting with them first? Beating you to the punch. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: And, Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com Reid: What [...]

By | 2016-01-07T09:09:44+00:00 March 11, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Charming Partner Causing Jealousy Issues and Gossip?

How do you deal with a charming partner who has lots of people who pull at him... and gossip about you? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: One of you amazing viewers just wrote in. Cathy: She wrote in and said that, there's been some jealousy and people that are kind of pulling at her boyfriend and, she's feeling kind of overwhelmed. Her boyfriend happens [...]

By | 2016-01-04T09:51:58+00:00 February 21, 2016|Dating, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Can You Use Internal or Female Condoms?

 Curious about how to use internal or female condoms? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.   Reid: Pring! Pring! Hello? Oh yes, you have a question about putting on internal condoms or what we used to be called female condoms? Hang on! We'll shoot that video. Cathy Vartuli from Intimacy Dojo, it's for you. Cathy: Thank you, Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Wow, can we be cornier? [...]

By | 2016-01-07T12:22:53+00:00 January 27, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Uncategorized|

Partner Checking Your Phone Even Though Your Trying To Rebuild Trust?

What can you do if your partner is sneaking peeks at your phone? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: What does it mean if you're trying to rebuild trust in your relationship and your partner's checking your phone to see who you're calling and want to know what you're talking about? This is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com, and this is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: [...]

By | 2016-01-08T12:37:29+00:00 November 21, 2015|Jealousy, Relationship Skills|

How Can We Rebuild Trust In Our Relationship?

How do you rebuild trust in your relationship? What can you do, if you have a lot of struggle over time and you're just not feeling really easy and trusting with each other. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and find out how to bring back trust in your relationship. Cathy: One of our listeners wrote in and said, "How do I rebuild trust in my relationship? We've [...]

By | 2016-01-05T06:12:04+00:00 April 16, 2015|Dating, Jealousy, Relationship Skills|