Relationship Skills

How Can You Tell If You Should Pursue A Relationship Or Not?

If you think you like someone, keep running into them... but aren't sure if you want to pursue a relationship, what do you do? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: This just in, somebody who is awesome, thank you all of you for leaving comments. What do you do when you are not sure about how you feel about somebody and you keep going back [...]

By | 2016-01-05T08:15:27+00:00 October 25, 2015|Relationship Skills|

Feeling Guilty Even Though You’ve Opened Your Relationship?

What do you do if you're not cheating, but you still feel guilty? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Hello ladies and gentlemen, I am a giants and this is Cathy Vartuli, the little lady that sits on my shoulder. Come on up Cathy, what are we talking about today? I’m Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: We’re talking about [...]

By | 2016-01-05T08:22:15+00:00 October 22, 2015|Relationship Skills|

I’m Poly… I can’t Tell If My Crush Is… What Do I Do?

How do you know if its ok to flirt with someone if you're poly and you don't know if they are? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: This just in. A writer or commenter writes in. It's very detailed and I'll just summarize it but I just want to thank all of you who leave comments and leave questions or email us questions and comments [...]

By | 2016-04-13T05:34:44+00:00 October 19, 2015|Flirting, Relationship Skills|

Like Someone More Than They Like You… Or Vice Versa?

What do you do when the liking isn't equal... it can be really awkward...With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid's article about Difficult Conversation: http://ReidAboutsex.com/Difficult-Conversation-Formula/ Reid: You like somebody more than they like you. Or they like you more than you like them. Cathy: Hi Reid. Reid: Hi Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: Hi Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Let’s talk about this scenario, shall we? [...]

By | 2016-01-05T08:30:43+00:00 October 1, 2015|Relationship Skills|

My Husband Cuts Me Off… What Can I Do?

Feeling unseen and unheard? Getting cut off? What can you do?With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: A writer, writes in ... or a commenter ... writer? They could be a writer? A commenter who could be a writer, writes in. "When I'm talking, my husband will abruptly say, 'Got it.' How do you convey it is dismissive and actually, as you said, can leave me [...]

By | 2016-01-06T10:32:59+00:00 September 28, 2015|Relationship Skills|

Caught In A Lie… The Second Time?

What can you do if you get caught in a lie... Again. With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: One of our listeners wrote in and said that … It was about our video about cleaning up issues and if you were caught lying. He was cheating on a test and got caught. Reid: Oh! Cathy: His teacher caught him. The problem is this is not [...]

By | 2016-01-05T08:03:20+00:00 September 25, 2015|Relationship Skills|

Why Do You Want To Be In A Relationship?

How can you have a "conscious" relationship? Why do you want to be in a relationship? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Why be in a relationship? Oh my God. Have you ever really asked yourself that question? Why be in a relationship? What are you trying to get your needs met, or are you just in a relationship because back in high school it [...]

By | 2016-01-05T08:44:46+00:00 September 22, 2015|Relationship Skills|

What Do You Do About A Mini-Stalker?

How do you handle someone who is SOOO excited about you that they mini-stalk you? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: How do you deal with someone who mini-stalks you? This is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: We've all had times where people really enjoyed being with us or we've enjoyed being with them, but sometimes people don't [...]

By | 2016-01-05T08:37:33+00:00 September 16, 2015|Energy, Relationship Skills|

When Someone Says Really Mean Things… What Do You Do?

What to do when someone says something really mean to you? Examples with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: From the road. Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: And Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Answering your questions to our videos. Cathy: In reply to our video on how to handle mean people, how to deal with them. Reid: Somebody left a really mean comment. Cathy: Yes. Reid: [...]

By | 2016-04-12T22:45:38+00:00 September 10, 2015|Energy, Relationship Skills, Trauma|

Appreciation and How To Know What To Appreciate People For

How can appreciation light up your partner's world, and how can you know what to appreciate them for? The Appreciation Game. Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com share. Reid: This just in. You know who you are. We won't say your name but you left this comment, "I never comment in these but I always watch and absolutely adore this channel." You'll be watching this video. We're [...]

By | 2016-01-05T06:05:18+00:00 September 7, 2015|Relationship Skills|