Relationship Skills

How Can You Use Internal or Female Condoms?

 Curious about how to use internal or female condoms? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from   Reid: Pring! Pring! Hello? Oh yes, you have a question about putting on internal condoms or what we used to be called female condoms? Hang on! We'll shoot that video. Cathy Vartuli from Intimacy Dojo, it's for you. Cathy: Thank you, Reid Mihalko from Wow, can we be cornier? [...]

By | 2016-01-07T12:22:53+00:00 January 27, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Uncategorized|

Do You Need To Pinch The Tip When You Put On A Condom?

How important is it to pinch the tip of the condom when you put it on? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from Reid: This one goes [inaudible 00:00:06] this one goes [inaudible 00:00:07] because it's muffled, because it's got a condom on it. Okay, last condom video, we didn't talk about pinching the tip to roll it out. Pinch the tip, because you don't want air [...]

By | 2016-01-07T08:42:18+00:00 January 23, 2016|Dating, Event, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Can Being Too Dry Cause The Condom To Tear?

Will the condom tear if you don't have enough lube? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from   Cathy: There it goes. So someone wrote in and said she is inexperienced having multiple-partner sex. She's ... Reid: She's inexperienced having multiple-partnered sex? Cathy: Yeah. So she had some questions. Reid: Multi partners, meaning more than one person in the bed? Cathy: Mm-hmm (affirmative). Reid: Excellent. Cathy: Yes, [...]

By | 2016-01-07T08:43:23+00:00 January 20, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills|

Consecutive or Concurrent Dating?

How do you like to date? And can Reid remember the word? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from     Reid: Hello everybody, it's Reid Mihalko from Cathy: And Cathy Vartuli from Reid: And we have an answer. We figured out from this other video that we're shooting about concurrent and congruent relationships, and I'm like, that's not the word. The word is consecutive. [...]

By | 2016-04-13T11:44:35+00:00 January 17, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Can You Tell When The Condom Breaks During Intercourse?

Can you feel it when the condom breaks or tears during intercourse? What can you pay attention to? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from   Cathy: Can a man feel if a condom tears while he's having intercourse? One of our readers, or watchers, wrote in and asked us. This is Reid Mihalko for with his coffee. Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli, the coffee-less Cathy [...]

By | 2016-01-07T08:44:44+00:00 January 14, 2016|Dating, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Parental Care and Child Care…How Do I Date?

Does Online Dating save time? I'm so busy! With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from Cathy: One of you wrote in, "Help. I'm sandwiched between my teens, my elderly father, and being super busy at work. I'm looking for a great relationship and an awesome lover. Is online the way to go? I'm Cathy Vartuli from Reid: I’m Reid Mihalko from Cathy: What do you [...]

By | 2016-01-08T12:54:27+00:00 January 5, 2016|Dating, Relationship Skills|

I Fell Out Of Love… Now What Do I Do?

What do you do if you aren't in love and you want to be friends? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from Cathy: One of our viewers wrote in and said, "I just broke up with my girlfriend. She said I think you're making a big mistake. I just don't like her as much as she likes me and I feel bad about it. We were together [...]

By | 2016-01-05T10:09:33+00:00 January 2, 2016|Relationship Skills|

How Can You Support Your Partner Through Low-Self-Esteem When They Don’t Know What To Ask For?

How can you help partner get their needs met and still take care of yourself? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from Cathy: We love your comments and questions. Thank you so much. Here’s one from one of our viewers. Question; if my partner often gets low self-esteem, how can I support them in identifying what they need if they don’t know. Sometimes neither of us know [...]

By | 2016-01-05T08:06:20+00:00 December 30, 2015|Relationship Skills|

Want To Let Someone Know You’re In An Open Relationship?

Can you graciously and flirtatiously let someone know you're in an open relationship? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from Cathy: How do you let someone know graciously and flirtatiously that you might be ... that you are in an open relationship and that you might be interested in them? Reid: I don't know. Cathy: Oh hey! Reid: I'm in an open relationship, how about you? Cathy: [...]

By | 2016-01-05T08:08:15+00:00 December 27, 2015|Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Partner Checking Your Phone Even Though Your Trying To Rebuild Trust?

What can you do if your partner is sneaking peeks at your phone? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from Cathy: What does it mean if you're trying to rebuild trust in your relationship and your partner's checking your phone to see who you're calling and want to know what you're talking about? This is Reid Mihalko from, and this is Cathy Vartuli from Reid: [...]

By | 2016-01-08T12:37:29+00:00 November 21, 2015|Jealousy, Relationship Skills|