Relationship Skills

What Do You Do If Your Partner Lies To You Repeatedly?

Is your partner keep lying to you but you don't want to leave him/her? First, know that there's a difference between that kind of lie which is not really a big deal, versus those really big lies that can affect your relationship and your partner is keeping them from you. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they talk about what to do, if your partner lies to [...]

By | 2016-01-05T06:06:27+00:00 June 29, 2015|Dating, Relationship Skills|

How Do I Know If My Partner Is Faking It?

How do you know if your partner had orgasm? We all have faked orgasm before, it's true, we do sometimes. What you want to start doing is start talking to each other about the kind of sex that you like. What gets you off, what doesn't get you off, when you're not having the sex. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and find out more about [...]

By | 2016-01-04T12:42:41+00:00 June 26, 2015|Body Image, Dating, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame, Touch|

My Partner Is Horrible At Reframing Fighting… I Want To Give Up!

Is your partner horrible at reframing fighting? Do you get to the point where you just give up because you don’t care? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share ways to learn how to reframe fighting and fight better. Cathy: In our video about reframing fighting, which I really enjoyed doing I think it's really useful information. Someone wrote: "Oh my god. [...]

By | 2016-01-05T06:06:46+00:00 June 23, 2015|Relationship Skills|

Fighting Over The Same Silly Thing… Over And Over

Do you have the same conflict coming up over and over? What can you do? Tips and ideas with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: It's Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: And Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: OK, so Cathy are you going to try to put the camera over here and try to film us both at the same time. Cathy: I will do my [...]

By | 2016-01-05T06:11:05+00:00 June 17, 2015|Relationship Skills|

Handling Disappointment Can Be Challenging…Unless You Know How!

A simple tip on dealing with Disappointment with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: We often get disappointed in life, and knowing how to handle that disappointment can make the difference between moving forward much more easily and feeling devastated. This is- Reid: (Blows nose loudly) Cathy: I feel very disappointed in my shirt right now. Reid: Acting. That was great. I'm an acting teacher. I'm [...]

By | 2016-01-04T06:00:06+00:00 June 14, 2015|Relationship Skills|

I Want Commitment, My Partner Doesn’t… What Do I Do?

What does commitment mean to you? Ideas and tips with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Road ballads, ladies and gentlemen, that take us into relationship advice. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: I'm driving. Cathy: We had someone write in and say, "Why won't my boyfriend commit? He says he loves me and I'm the kind of [...]

By | 2016-01-05T09:09:38+00:00 June 8, 2015|Relationship Skills|

Is Hesitation An Invitation For Further Persuasion?

If someone hesitates when answering a question should you jump in and urge them to say yes? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Is hesitation an invitation for further persuasion? This is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: And this is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: I'm so glad you remember who I am. Reid: Thanks Cathy. Cathy: In our society, it is often seen that [...]

By | 2016-01-05T09:13:37+00:00 June 5, 2015|Relationship Skills|

Overanalyzing And Not Taking Action

Its easy to get in your head, especially when you're trying something new. Ideas with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Road trip advice from Cathy Vartuli at http://TheIntimacyDojo.com Cathy: And Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: All right what's the question today Cathy? Cathy: We had someone write in and say that she loves our advice and she wants to follow it but she's finding herself [...]

By | 2016-04-12T23:10:49+00:00 May 30, 2015|Relationship Skills|

What If I’m Poly But My Friends and Co-Workers Don’t Know?

I'm afraid they'll think I'm cheating if they see me out on a date. What to do with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Road trip YouTube videos. What are we talking about today Cathy Vartuli of the Intimacy Dojo? Cathy: Dot com. Reid: Dot com. Cathy: And Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. We're talking about poly. Someone wrote in and said, "I'm poly, but I'm afraid [...]

By | 2016-01-05T09:14:42+00:00 May 21, 2015|Dating, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

What If You Like Someone Who Doesn’t Like You Back?

If you want someone, you're attracted, and they say no... what can you do? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: This is a really good video that you picked. If you missed the one before it this is still good, but the one before it whoa! Cathy: When you’re attracted or aroused towards someone and they don’t reciprocate how do you handle that and how [...]

By | 2016-01-05T08:31:42+00:00 May 19, 2015|Relationship Skills|