Relationship Skills

How Can We Rebuild Trust In Our Relationship?

How do you rebuild trust in your relationship? What can you do, if you have a lot of struggle over time and you're just not feeling really easy and trusting with each other. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and find out how to bring back trust in your relationship. Cathy: One of our listeners wrote in and said, "How do I rebuild trust in my relationship? We've [...]

By | 2016-01-05T06:12:04+00:00 April 16, 2015|Dating, Jealousy, Relationship Skills|

Conflicts Around Money

What to do, if one person wants to save and budget and the other person, someone who is a lot more free thinking about money, doesn't want to budget or plan? That can cause a lot of conflict in a relationship, because one is a saver, and other is a spender. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share ways how to solve conflicts around [...]

By | 2016-04-13T09:12:58+00:00 April 13, 2015|Relationship Skills|

Feeling Under Appreciated In Your Relationship?

Do you sometimes feel under appreciated, but other people just see you as being quiet? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share what you can do when you feel under appreciated in your relationship. Cathy: Another person wrote in saying, "What can I do when I feel underappreciated in my relationship?" Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I'm Cathy Vartuli from the http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: [...]

By | 2016-01-05T10:02:25+00:00 April 10, 2015|Relationship Skills|

What Do I Do When I Don’t Deserve Happiness and Love?

It can be really challenging when you don't feel like you deserve happiness. It's hard to let in the things that would actually allow you feel better about yourself. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share advice on what you can do when you don't feel like you deserve to be happy. Cathy: Someone wrote in and asked what can I do when [...]

By | 2016-01-05T10:03:47+00:00 April 4, 2015|Relationship Skills|

I Like To Flirt…But I Don’t Want Them To Take It As Permission To Jump!

When you flirt does the other person crank up the heat to an 11 as a consequence? Problem sometimes occurs when you tell the other person that you're flirting with, that you're a shy, slow, tentative person, but it seems to come across: "I hereby encourage you to channel Pepe Le Pew and ignore all boundaries, starting now." What can you do? Relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com are going to share [...]

By | 2016-01-04T12:51:31+00:00 April 1, 2015|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills|

I’m Always The Cool Girl Friend… Never the Girlfriend, How Do I Get Out There?

Are you always the cool girl friend and never the cool girlfriend? Do you hate the idea of being shut down? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they talk about how you can deal with that fear of being shut down. Cathy: We shot a video a while ago about being stuck in the friend zone. Reid: It's a Kenny Loggins song, right? Cathy: It's [...]

By | 2016-01-05T10:06:01+00:00 March 29, 2015|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Shame|

If You Want To Be More Powerful …How Can You Still Leave Space For Other People?

There's an assumption that, if you're powerful, then somehow you're not going to notice people. We tend to think that power is automatically reckless or the worry there is that it's going to be reckless. If you want to be a more powerful person, how can you do it without trampling other people, still being aware of other people and giving space for other people to have their needs and wants too? Join [...]

By | 2016-01-06T09:37:28+00:00 March 23, 2015|Energy, Relationship Skills|

In The Mood For Connection… How Can You Invite Your Partner?

If you're in the mood to be really intimate, connected with your partner, not necessarily sexual, but just connected, present, and your partner's not in the mood, how can you start a conversation maybe to invite them to step into it with you? Hear what relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com have to say about this. Cathy: If you're in the mood to be really intimate, connected [...]

By | 2016-01-06T09:39:51+00:00 March 20, 2015|Energy, Relationship Skills|

Tips to Change Your Mental and Emotional State

You're on your way home from work and you're really frustrated. It's a really special night. You really want to be there for your partner and yet, you have road rage. What do you do? How do you change your focus and your state? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share ways to change your mental and emotional state. Cathy: You're on your [...]

By | 2016-01-06T09:43:17+00:00 March 8, 2015|Relationship Skills|

Tried Something New and Hated It?? Your Partner Wants To Do It Again?!

What do you do if you tried something with your partner, and you didn't enjoy it at all. You also don't have the desire to do it again, and your partner won't let it go.  Something like this might happen in the bedroom or in the relationship in general. Hear what relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com have to say about that. Cathy: What do you do if you tried [...]

By | 2016-01-05T07:50:21+00:00 March 5, 2015|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|