Relationship Skills

Energetic Sex: What Is Pragmatic Tantra?

Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com discuss energetic sex, and how being aware of this can make connection more electric! Cathy: Hey everyone, this is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. I'm here with Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Reid, can you tell us a little bit about energetic sex? You give a great workshop on it. Reid: Yes. Thank you for saying it was great. Energetic sex is something [...]

By | 2016-04-14T11:46:42+00:00 August 10, 2012|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills|

Connection Party…And You’re Invited!

Romance Orientation: Do's and Don'ts Connection Party, September 15th Small changes can make delightful and powerful changes to your relationships, romantic or otherwise. Join us for proven and practical ways to deepen your connection or initiate connection and bring new warmth to your life! Includes mind/body and tantra techniques as well as practical steps you can take with your loved ones right now. Are you tired of feeling like the [...]

By | 2012-08-31T05:54:59+00:00 July 29, 2012|Relationship Skills|

Trust in Relationships

Join Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as she asks Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com to discuss how lack of trust can affect relationships. Cathy: Hi everyone, this is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com here with Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com Reid: Yay. Cathy: Can you talk to us about trust and how it's really important in a relationship for a lot of people if there's a lack of trust or a perceived lack of [...]

By | 2016-01-06T12:14:59+00:00 July 27, 2012|Jealousy, Relationship Skills|

UnHooking II- Delaying Emotional Attachment

Join Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com discusses delaying attachment and giving yourself time to got to know your partner (before renting the UHaul on the second date). Reid: So this is the Unhooking II, or what we will say Delaying Attachment. Cathy: It's good if you can delay that. I've seen a lot of people-- Reid: [whispering] this is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com in case you [...]

By | 2016-01-06T12:18:40+00:00 July 24, 2012|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills|

Jealousy- Feeling Special, Example

Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com talk about an example of balancing feeling special when there's more than two people involved. Cathy: Hey everyone, this is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. I'm here with Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com, and this is Feeling Special Video Two. Reid: Video two. Cathy just shared with me that we had ... do that thing. Cathy: So Reid and my best friend Rick [...]

By | 2016-01-04T06:12:56+00:00 July 19, 2012|Dating, Jealousy, Relationship Skills|

Jealousy- Needing To Feel Special With Others

Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as she asks Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com how to balance feeling special in a group. Cathy: Hi everyone, this is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimancyDojo.com, and we're here with Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Hi Reid. Reid: Hi. Cathy: I have a question for you. People like to feel special and you have a great product on jealousy. If there's just two people it's pretty easy in general [...]

By | 2016-01-04T06:10:41+00:00 July 16, 2012|Dating, Jealousy, Relationship Skills|

How Do I Hold Space For My Partner?

Join Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as she asks Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com about Hold Space For Your Partner. Cathy: Hi Everyone, this is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. I'm here with Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: I'm being really weird in these videos this round. Cathy: You are. I gave you too much coffee. That's probably it. Reid: Now you have to hold space for me. Cathy: Okay. So if I [...]

By | 2016-01-06T12:20:14+00:00 July 13, 2012|Dating, Relationship Skills|

How To Create More Play When You’re Shy

Want to play more? Feel shy? How do you make life more playful and engage other people more? Join Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as she asks Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com how to create more play. Reid: Just so you know, I don't think I've ever talked about this topic with Cathy, so she's actually springing this on me and I don't know how it's going to be. Cathy: We never [...]

By | 2016-01-06T09:17:09+00:00 July 10, 2012|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills|

Bottom Lines

How do you know what you're bottom lines are? And what do you do when someone crosses one? Join Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as she asks Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com these questions. Cathy: Hi everyone, this is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. And we're here with Reid Mihalko from http://RediAboutSex.com. Reid: I was just wondering if it would like my half of the video froze if I just went [pause] the [...]

By | 2016-04-13T07:17:53+00:00 July 4, 2012|Dating, Relationship Skills|

Handling Mean People

It's easy to be rattled when someone is mean to us. Want to learn cool ways to reframe this and "turn the tables"? Join Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as she talks to sex and relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com about creating more intimacy in your life. Cathy:  Hey, everyone. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com, and Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Reid, what do you do if someone's mean to [...]

By | 2016-04-13T07:07:58+00:00 June 23, 2012|Relationship Skills, Trauma|