Sex Geeks

What If You Tell A HUGE Lie?

How do you clean it up if you tell a big lie, and don't know what to do? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: We have a video about what to do if you tell a lie and get caught in it. Why did you do that?  Reid: I do that when I lie.  Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.  Reid: Cathy Vartuli [...]

By | 2016-01-05T08:02:29+00:00 June 21, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Trauma|

When Desire Goes Away… What Do You Do?

If you've been enjoying sex and sensuality... what do you do when all of sudden the passion and wanting go away? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: What if you've been pretty sexual, pretty sensual and all of the sudden the desire goes away? It can be really hard and really confusing. This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.  Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. What [...]

By | 2016-01-04T09:47:47+00:00 June 18, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame|

Talking To Your Partner About Touch You Don’t Like In Bed

How can you offer your partner an upgrade about touch in bed? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: What do you if your partner's touching you in ways that you don't particularly like?  Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.  Cathy: This is Cathy Vartuli from The Intimacy Dojo. The long suffering Cathy Vartuli.  Reid: It's awesome. The long suffering Cathy Vartuli.  Cathy: This is [...]

By | 2016-01-04T09:44:20+00:00 June 15, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

How Do You Play With A Bigger Person? How Do You Talk About It?

Is there a difference in being sexual with a bigger person? Can you talk about it? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: So, what if you have never slept with a bigger person? And, you want to? How do you talk to them about what's going on and how to play with them?  Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.  Cathy: I'm Cathy Vartuli [...]

By | 2016-01-04T09:41:18+00:00 June 12, 2016|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Is Poly Just For The Rich and Educated?

Could being poly be "irresponsible" and the playground of the wealthy and educated only? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: In regards to the interview you did with Esther Perel and Diana Adams, which was really good-  Reid: Thank you.  Cathy: About polyamory, someone said, "Would these academic people think differently if they lost their prosperity? I'm convinced they would. These are results of [...]

By | 2016-01-07T08:55:42+00:00 June 6, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

What do you do when your libido is low?

Is lack of desire plaguing you? What can you do? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: What do you do if your desire level is really low and you're in a relationship or several?  Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.  Cathy: I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Reid: What do you do?  Cathy: It's usually talk about different conversation formula. I think it's a lot [...]

By | 2016-01-04T09:39:11+00:00 May 31, 2016|Dating, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

When Is It Time To Pull Out?

Knowing the sensations just before you come give you greater control and possibility during sex. With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Reid: Focus! What are we working on? This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko for http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.  Reid: We have a question.  Cathy: You actually started this as a joke, but I actually want to know. How do you know [...]

By | 2016-01-04T09:32:40+00:00 May 19, 2016|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

Keep Running Into An Ex-Friend And Feel Drawn To Reconnect?

If you're in the same social circle and keep running into an ex-friend... How do you not get pulled in again? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: All right. Someone wrote in and said that they watched our video about talking about conflict.  Reid: We love when you write in!  Cathy: Yes.  Reid: Keep writing in.  Cathy: She said it actually went really [...]

By | 2016-01-07T09:00:25+00:00 May 16, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame, Trauma|

Ever Feel Pressured To Act How People Expect You To Act?

Its easy to feel obligated to meet people's expectations. How do you get around that so you can be self-expressed? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: There's theories in sociology that I've actually ... I believe that are real because I've felt them, but we sometimes behave according to how we think other people think we should behave. Reid: What's that called? Cathy: [...]

By | 2016-01-07T09:02:19+00:00 May 13, 2016|Body Image, Energy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Do You Take Care Of Yourself After You Run Events?

After you put out a lot of energy and make sure everyone has a magical experience at your event, how do you take care of yourself? How can you bounce back and recharge? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com.   Reid: What are your after care needs when you run events? After what? Cathy: Knowing how you like to celebrate and wind down is [...]

By | 2016-01-04T08:36:34+00:00 May 10, 2016|Event, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|