Sex Geeks

They Say I’m Doing Poly Wrong.. What Should I Do?

They Say I'm Doing Poly Wrong.. What Should I Do? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kDi6uVts238&feature=youtu.be Cathy: What do you do if you're shame for not being poly enough or doing poly wrong? This is Matie Fricker from http://www.SelfServeToys.com/. Hunter Riley who works at Self-Serve and has http://www.HunterRileySexEducation.com/ and I am Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/. So what have you noticed about people being poly-shamed? Matie: It happened to me, maybe [...]

By | 2017-08-28T16:25:34+00:00 March 19, 2018|Dating, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame|

Can You Give Yourself Herpes if You Use Your Own Saliva as Lube?

Can You Give Yourself Herpes if You Use Your Own Saliva as Lube? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FMj0kaNFxRg Cathy: If I use my own saliva, can I give myself herpes? This is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com/. Reid: What a great question. Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com/. Cathy: So this person wrote in that they were using their own saliva as lube and they have Herpes 1, [...]

By | 2017-08-28T16:16:23+00:00 March 16, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Trauma, Uncategorized|

I Can’t Orgasm With A Condom On – Help!

I Can't Orgasm With A Condom On - Help! Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KZRdswttC_s&feature=youtu.be   Cathy: Someone wrote in and said I’m really, I’ve never been able to cum while wearing a condom during sex. I’m trying to be safer but I feel like it’s almost like a waste of time. I’ve tried masturbating with a condom too, nothing works. I don’t orgasm with a condom [...]

By | 2017-08-28T16:01:39+00:00 March 13, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

How Do You Balance Multiple Lovers In Bed?

How Do You Balance Multiple Lovers In Bed? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a5gW8sfdc40&feature=youtu.be Cathy: So someone wrote in and asked what are some techniques and ways I can please multiple partners if I’m a swinger or a poly? This is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com/. Reid: Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Get them other lovers and partners. Cathy: I think they mean in the moment you have multiple lovers [...]

By | 2017-08-28T15:53:52+00:00 March 10, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

How Do You Work With People Who Can’t Handle Rejection?

How Do You Work With People Who Can't Handle Rejection? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BucyfxTE9nk&feature=youtu.be Reid: Video number 4 here in a series because we’re on a roll. How to handle or how to work with people who when they make a request in this case around sex, you feel like they can’t take a no gracefully or that they’re going to [...]

By | 2017-08-28T15:41:21+00:00 March 7, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

Sexual Invitation: When Is It Wanted, When Is It Not?

Sexual Invitation: When Is It Wanted, When Is It Not? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SoVPEe9qyDs&feature=youtu.be Cathy: How do you know when sexual invitation is welcomed and when it would feel intrusive? This Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ Cathy: And I think we all have times whether we did this or someone else did this were they were kinda hinting it or asking for sexual [...]

By | 2017-08-28T15:29:01+00:00 March 4, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How To Arrange Your Businesses If You Do Different Things?

If you have multiple businesses, which is best to do: to separate or combine them? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “Could you speak to whether to combine or separate businesses if you have multiple practices?” This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/. When I’m wearing this Sex Geek Summer Camp t-shirt, the green shirt, it [...]

By | 2017-05-12T16:46:30+00:00 February 20, 2018|Sex Geeks|

Why Is It a Good Idea to Have a Strong Bio As a Sex-Positive Educator?

As a sex-positive educator, what's the advantage of having a strong bio? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Reid, why is it a good idea to have a strong bio? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and when I’m wearing the Sex Geek Summer Camp t-shirt, the green t shirt, this means a business advice to Sex Educators. [...]

By | 2017-05-12T15:46:54+00:00 February 17, 2018|Sex Geeks|

Why Should You Wear Your Name Tag During Business Events?

Know the importance of wearing your name tag during business events. Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Why is it important to wearing your name tag when you’re at business events? This is Reid Mihalko from http://reidaboutsex.com/ Reid: Cathy Vartuli from the http://TheIntimacyDojo.com/. And when we got the green shirt on for Sex Geek Summer Camp, this is a business advice video for sex educators, sex-positive entrepreneurs, etc. So [...]

By | 2017-05-12T15:44:39+00:00 February 11, 2018|Event, Sex Geeks|

How Do You Deal With Repeated Minor Putdowns?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LOAbTeO5kr8 Cathy: At camp, Sex Geek Summer Camp which Reid respond amazing event there were lot of talks about people were talking about micro aggressions were and how to make people feel valued and welcomed. I don’t meddle a lot or talked to that really well. And one question we have is what is the difference about micro aggression and genuine expression for instance if one person always says you [...]