Touch

Is it really possible to fall in love with more than one person at a time?

Is it really possible to fall in love with more than one person at a time? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l-W_JVLYiX8 Cathy: Can you really fall in love with more than one person at a time? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com   Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com   Cathy: And we talk about poly a lot but we had someone write in really sweet beautiful question about, you were talking about your slut [...]

By | 2017-08-31T14:56:32+00:00 May 21, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

When You’re On The Road, How Do You Support Your Partner Back At Home?

When You're On The Road, How Do You Support Your Partner Back At Home? You're busy traveling and doing all the things you need to do, how do you support your partner back at home? With Elizabeth Wood from http://www.BedEvents.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JfYBz3EJRvk Cathy: When you’re on the road, how do you support your partner who stuck back at home keeping the home fires burning? This is Elizabeth Wood from [...]

By | 2017-08-28T21:35:28+00:00 May 6, 2018|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

How Do You Find The Confidence and Courage To Own All Of You When You’re Out There Dating?

How Do You Find The Confidence and Courage To Own All Of You When You're Out There Dating? How do you say "I'm disabled," or "I'm a bigger woman," and own the things that sadly some people don't sometimes see as valuable when dating? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Robin Wilson Beattie from http://www.sexAbledwithRobinWB.com How Do You Find The Confidence and Courage To Own All Of You When You're Out [...]

By | 2017-08-28T18:15:49+00:00 April 9, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

What About Self-Care and Self-Love?

What About Self-Care and Self-Love? If you haven't be taking care of yourself, all the sex geeky skills in the world aren't going to help. What can you do? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, Yoni Alkan from http://www.ElementsofSexuality.com, Liz Powell from http://www.SexPositivePsych.com and Caroline Carrington from http://www.JewelInTheLotusCoaching.com, with special guest, sexy librarian! @DrYoniAlkan @sexpospsych @JewelotusTantra https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zfcVnmKYyq8   Cathy: What about self-care and self-love? I’m Cathy Vartuli from from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com   Liz: I’m Doctor Liz from [...]

By | 2017-08-28T18:16:34+00:00 April 6, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

Does Quality of Touch Matter?

Does Quality of Touch Matter? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qkPkTtDcECY Cathy: Does quality of touch matters when you’re on a date or hooking up? I’m Cathy Vartuli from from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com Yoni: I’m Yoni Alkan from http://www.ElementsofSexuality.com Liz: I’m Doctor Liz from http://www.SexPositivePsych.com Caroline: I’m Caroline Carrington from http://www.JewelInTheLotusCoaching.com Sexy Librarian: I’m also the talking librarian who is off screen. Liz: She’s a sexy librarian. Cathy: Yes. Caroline: Sexy, Sparkly librarian. Liz: So sparkly. So [...]

By | 2017-08-28T18:03:02+00:00 April 3, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

What About Consent? With Jet Appling

What About Consent? With Jet Appling https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L6nNaWtLxzs Cathy: Have you wondered about consent? I’m here with Jet Appling from http://www.JetNoirMuse.com and I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com  and Jet you we’re talking a little earlier about consent and you were talking about how when you’re on stage, how you want consent from people before you don’t scrub them and flip them around, what other things do you have in there that [...]

By | 2017-08-28T17:23:12+00:00 March 28, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

What Are Bottom Lines, How Do You Know What They Are and Should You Share Them With Your Partner?

What Are Bottom Lines, How Do You Know What They Are and Should You Share Them With Your Partner? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo, Hunter Riley manager of Self Serve Toys and we're in Self Serve Toys right now filming. Your website is https://HunterRileySexEducation.com/. Matie Fricker from http://SelfServeToys.com/. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DM5OQ5ATDmM   Cathy: So, we're just shooting a video about how to clean up messes and maybe brought up bottom line so we [...]

By | 2017-08-28T16:35:49+00:00 March 22, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

I Can’t Orgasm With A Condom On – Help!

I Can't Orgasm With A Condom On - Help! Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KZRdswttC_s&feature=youtu.be   Cathy: Someone wrote in and said I’m really, I’ve never been able to cum while wearing a condom during sex. I’m trying to be safer but I feel like it’s almost like a waste of time. I’ve tried masturbating with a condom too, nothing works. I don’t orgasm with a condom [...]

By | 2017-08-28T16:01:39+00:00 March 13, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

How Do You Balance Multiple Lovers In Bed?

How Do You Balance Multiple Lovers In Bed? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a5gW8sfdc40&feature=youtu.be Cathy: So someone wrote in and asked what are some techniques and ways I can please multiple partners if I’m a swinger or a poly? This is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com/. Reid: Cathy Vartuli from TheIntimacyDojo.com. Get them other lovers and partners. Cathy: I think they mean in the moment you have multiple lovers [...]

By | 2017-08-28T15:53:52+00:00 March 10, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

How Do You Work With People Who Can’t Handle Rejection?

How Do You Work With People Who Can't Handle Rejection? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BucyfxTE9nk&feature=youtu.be Reid: Video number 4 here in a series because we’re on a roll. How to handle or how to work with people who when they make a request in this case around sex, you feel like they can’t take a no gracefully or that they’re going to [...]

By | 2017-08-28T15:41:21+00:00 March 7, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|