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Is Lack of Desire Causing Problems in Your Relationship?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lfv8YS0XeMI Cathy: In response to your webinar about my partner doesn't want to sleep with me, we've had a lot of people writing in about this. It's a great question. This woman wrote in and said, "In this situation, I'm the one who doesn't desire sex. It's just not there no matter what we've tried." They think it's menopause and hormones, but they're having trouble in their relationship because of [...]

By | 2017-05-08T17:30:58+00:00 September 20, 2017|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch, Trauma|

On-Again-Off-Again Sex Drive? What Can You Do?

How do you deal with it when you and your partner have an on again - off again sexual connection? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_ASa5NMSWYU Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, "We have had this relationship with this woman on and off again, and the -" Reid: Is it "we have had" or "I have had"?  Cathy: This person wrote in, "I've been in [...]

By | 2017-05-09T16:28:52+00:00 September 17, 2017|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Shame, Touch, Trauma|

What If Your Husband Is Just Not Interested In Sex?

How do you deal when your husband doesn't want to have sex with you? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tZ7yxAv7n7c Cathy: One of our viewers wrote in and said, "My husband and I have had frank discussions about our lack of sexual relations for the past several years. His final answer is, ‘I'm just not interested.’ That took me by surprise and I don't know [...]

By | 2017-05-09T16:13:04+00:00 September 11, 2017|Body Image, Dating, Event, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Touch|

What Is INCEL and Why Do People Use The Term?

What's the meaning of INCEL? Are there undateable people? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8EWmIBhf1Ck Cathy: Do you know what “Incel” means?  And how to use it? Reid: How do you spell it? Cathy:  I-N-C-E-L. Reid:  Google it! Google fuckin’ exist. This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Before you Google things, If you’re some junior, what’s ‘Incel’? [...]

By | 2017-05-09T16:08:10+00:00 September 8, 2017|Body Image, Dating, Event, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame, Touch, Trauma|

What’s The Sex Toy Etiquette When A Friend Has A New Toy?

What do you do if someone has a new cool sex toy and you want to see it? Do you just grab it? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G8o02f-kyAM Cathy: A good friend shows up with their brand new sex toy. So cool. Reid: It's so shiny. Cathy: It's nice and bright and it's one you've wanted to see forever. Reid: I want to touch [...]

By | 2017-05-09T15:39:10+00:00 September 2, 2017|Collaborators, Event, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

How Do You Handle Being Jealous If You’re A Casual Partner?

Feeling jealous but not sure you have a right to be? Find out more with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KAX61TUE8uI Cathy: So how do you handle being jealous when you’re not part of a couple but you’re a casual partner to someone who is poly. Reid: How do you avoid being jealous? Cathy: Or how do you handle being jealous? Reid: That sounds like envy [...]

By | 2017-05-05T14:04:25+00:00 August 9, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

Are There Protocals For Long Term Relationships That Aren’t Aiming For Marriage?

How do you have a long term relationship that's conscious and loving, but doesn't look like marriage, children, joint checking accounts (necessarily). Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dWnmEWayJNQ Cathy: Someone wrote in and said they love the slut protocols that you put together. Reid: Yeah, http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/slutprotocols. Cathy: But they wanted to know if you have created a set of protocols for longer term [...]

By | 2017-05-05T13:51:12+00:00 August 6, 2017|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

Wound Up After A Sexual Encounter? Can’t Sleep?

Are you finding hard to sleep after a sexual encounter? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: So what do you do… Reid: Tada!! Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com Cathy: Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com Reid: Never spin around. That’s an intro. Cathy: Would you like to spin back right now? Reid: No, I’ll do it at the end. What are we talking about? Cathy: Someone wrote in [...]

By | 2017-05-03T01:40:04+00:00 June 10, 2017|Flirting, Sex Geeks, Touch|

Can I Be A Sex Educator Even If I’m Not Having A Lot Of Sex Right Now?

Does a sex educator have to be having great sex a lot to be in integrity? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: I can't take him anywhere. Reid: That's why we sit right here, in front of this camera. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said they're a sex educator. Good job. They're also going through a lot of transition about their sexuality right [...]

By | 2016-09-23T15:26:10+00:00 April 20, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

Does Holding Hands Make You Uncomfortable? Can You Get Close To People Anyway?

Are you scared or uncomfortable holding hands? How can you date or let people close? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: What do you do if you want to get close to people, you want to go dating, but you're scared of holding hands?  Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. If you are not comfortable [...]

By | 2016-09-23T14:36:08+00:00 January 20, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|