Like dating older women but aren’t sure how to find them or how to go about it?
Find out how with Elizabeth Wood and Dan Powers from http://www.BeyondTheBedroom.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.
Cathy: So someone wrote in and said that it sound a little cheapest like he wasn’t sure that it was okay to ask but he said, I really like dating older women, I’m 24 and I just adore dating women in their late 30’s, 40’s even early 50’s. And it just really fun for me but I feel kinda ashamed you know, people call that cougar hunting and is that okay? And how do I find them? So this is Elizabeth Wood, Dan Powers and I’m Cathy Vartuli. They’re from http://www.BeyondTheBedroom.com.
Elizabeth and Dan: http://www.BeyondTheBedroom.com.
Cathy: That was really good. And I’m from http://www.IntimacyDojo.com/ so, what are your thoughts?
Elizabeth: I was in that situation once, and it was really fun and really exciting. I was actually pursued and I was actually said yes to a gentlemen who was 14 years younger but this is right when Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore started to date before none of them were married. So I thought, I felt sexy and that sort of lustfulness of that young hunger. It was totally fun until somebody said “who’s he with? Is that his mother?” But anyway I had a ball until their comment. So it was a lot of fun, it really was.
Cathy: I hope there’s nothing wrong with it at all, as long as it’s consensual and you may have to deal with some society fret. I dates someone who is 18 years old younger than me for 6 months. And we have a really nice time but it was kinda after a while there’s a lot do uncommonness that I wanted to have. But as long as it’s mutually satisfying there’s nothing wrong with it.
Dan: I absolutely agree, well, being little bit older men now but younger the experience of older woman, one of the things that I have found is woman when they get to their 40’s especially in their 50’s they kinda throw all their suicidal withholds. My parents are either aren’t around or don’t care, they’re turning off the religion maybe. They’ve been in a relationship that got divorced and I was you know I need to start having fun now. So they can get some experience to, they got to hunger themselves and it could be so much fun for both that’s mutually beneficial in that respect. And I absolutely think that there’s nothing wrong with that. Now if I wanna have a long term relationship that way, maybe not.
Cathy: And everybody’s got to choose. And there’s nothing..
Dan: Right. Yeah absolutely.
Elizabeth: If you both having fun and you both enjoying it and you have things to talk about. So it’s not just always as sexual, you have some common or similar interest they don’t have to be all be. But if you have similar interest and you can keep the conversation going. I think works well in longevity.
Cathy: And I think that everybody’s have different likes. Like some people don’t like dating or having sex with bigger women. Some people like, yeah that really fun or I don’t care if you’re the meanest person I want to sleep with you. And you just have to get out there and meet people, the more people you meet and if you’re willing to share what you want that makes a huge difference. So, something like that may be felt like a good place. And I would assume that there some dating website that might be like you know cougar-related website, I wanna know what they’re called.
Cathy: Well, you know https://www.okcupid.com/ has a lot of flexibility on what age range that they can choose and they’re pretty friendly.
Elizabeth and Dan: Well try it!
Dan: We have a friend that has a cougar limousine service. So she really caters to that cougar relationship.
Cathy: So drive for them.
Elizabeth: Yeah, that’s a lot of fun. I hope you try it.
Cathy: And one thing you can do is learn to be okay of who you are. So, it’s surprising at first that your mother like all the stereotypes. But after a while you kinda get yeah, no she’s no my mother she’s my date and that’s really hot. I get to like what I want and this person’ss with me and I’m really proud of it. And that would be fun.
Elizabeth: And I also really be excited if I was called, I didn’t know what the word was long time ago “Milf” yeah you’re a hot milf. What is it sound like? And I was like, so when they told me what milfs is, I was like wait, wait I’m not a mother wait a second, I loved it. It’s exciting to know that somebody that’s young and youthful especially as we have a red around the big five “ooh”. It’s kinda really exciting that’s somebody younger was saying “wow, that surreal, that’s a beauty that’s scourge high”.
Cathy: And I think we’re spending our age range with what is sexually used to be that, it was kina shameful to date someone in their 40’s coz they should been giving up that sex stuff. Where I’ve been to play parties where they have been 60 years old and 70 years old having a blast in the middle of the room. So, there’s still chance for you.
Elizabeth: Yeah, there is still a chance.
Cathy: Thanks very much for asking me, we love to hear your comments. What do you think? Where do you find cougars if you’re looking for one?
Dan: Let us know.
Cathy: Dan, wants to know.