Cathy Vartuli

Certain Sexual Positions Hurt… Is That Normal?

Its fun to be able to mix it up and try new things... But what if some of the sexual positions you try hurt? What can you do? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, "I'm wondering if it's normal to have pain during certain sexual positions. I noticed that when riding my boyfriend or being in the doggy [...]

By | 2016-09-22T16:48:51+00:00 December 24, 2016|Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch, Trauma|

Can Stimulating The G-Spot Bruise The Urethra?

The G-spot can be really fun to play with... But can you hurt someone if you do it too hard? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: One of our viewers in Germany wrote in and said "Hey there guys."  Reid: Germany?  Cathy: Yes.  Reid: Hello Germany.  Cathy: It's great to see you. "Hey there guys. I hope it's okay to ask you this. [...]

By | 2016-09-22T16:47:42+00:00 December 21, 2016|Body Image, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

How Can I Relax and Be More Natural In Front Of the Camera?

Want to be more natural when shooting video? Learn how with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: All right, Mr. Mihalko, from Sex Geek Summer Camp and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. We're talking about how to shoot videos. Someone asked, "How can I be more natural in front of the camera? I can talk on stage fine, but I get in front [...]

By | 2016-01-08T09:32:25+00:00 December 20, 2016|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Is The Condom Too Long? Are We Using It Wrong? It Keeps Slipping Off!

What do you do if the condom slips off so there's all this latex at the end? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, "My partner and I often have a problem when the condom will slip off his dick or over stretch the tip so there's this long piece of latex inside me. Is there something in the [...]

By | 2016-09-22T15:36:11+00:00 December 18, 2016|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

I Want Be On Video But I Don’t Look “Right”…

How can I make videos when I'm too (insert your favorite limiter here... big, old, young). Change that with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: We're shooting videos to help you shoot videos. We're talking to people that are making a difference because they learned how to at Reid Mihalko’s Sex Geek Summer Camp. We're having a contest; he's also from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. I am [...]

By | 2016-01-08T09:32:57+00:00 December 17, 2016|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

What Do You Do When You’re In A Relationship And One Partner Transitions Gender?

What if your partner realizes their gender identity is different from what they thought... With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com and Raj. Cathy: What do you when you're in a relationship and one partner decides to transition gender and just expressing themselves differently? I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Andi: I'm Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com.  Raj: I'm Raj. I'm just a regular guy who happens to be married [...]

By | 2016-09-22T15:34:09+00:00 December 15, 2016|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Can I Shoot Video If I Have A Small Space With Lots of Stuff?

Cluttered background holding you back from shooting video? Shot that idea in the foot with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp. Cathy: We're talking about recording videos because you can really make a difference and reach a lot of people even while you sleep. We talked a lot about this at Sex Geek Summer Camp with Reid Mihalko, who's also from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and I'm Cathy [...]

By | 2016-01-08T09:33:27+00:00 December 14, 2016|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

What Do You Do When You Realize What You’ve Been Teaching Is Wrong?!

Its a horrible feeling. You've been confidently teaching what you thought was great advice... And wham! You find out its wrong. What do you do? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Reid: What do you do when you realize what you're teaching is wrong? I love that. I love being wrong. Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Sex Geek Summer Camp Reid: [...]

By | 2016-09-22T15:33:19+00:00 December 12, 2016|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame|

How Transparent Do You Need To Be In Business… And What About Privacy?

Personal stories can help people feel safe and understood. Where is the boundary between privacy and transparency? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Reid: Oh we got a good question. When I'm wearing the Sex Geek Summer Camp shirt, we're talking about business for sex educators around building careers and branding and marketing and stuff, when I'm just wearing the Sex Geek shirt, these [...]

By | 2016-09-22T15:32:30+00:00 December 9, 2016|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

I Want To Shoot Videos But I’m Running Into Resistance…

How do you face your fears and do it anyway in front of a video camera? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: All right, so we were talking to people that want to shoot videos because they were inspired at Sex Geek Summer Camp and want to get their message out. Reid Mihalko from Sex Geek Summer Camp and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli [...]

By | 2016-01-08T09:35:08+00:00 December 8, 2016|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame|