Cathy Vartuli

Having A Hard Time Meeting Women Within A Narrow Age Range, What Do You Do?

Having A Hard Time Meeting Women Within A Narrow Age Range, What Do You Do? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MjD4y2GIO4M Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, I’m shy but my real immediate problem is meeting women ages 58-62, I haven’t had much luck in dating sites, mostly women in their 70’s express interest. Help. This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: Cathy Vartuli from the http://www.IntimacyDojo.com/ Cathy: And I’m curious about this question, thank [...]

By |2017-09-18T05:43:05+00:00September 13, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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You Organized A Play Party, What Do You Do If Too Many Men Showed Up?

You Organized A Play Party, What Do You Do If Too Many Men Showed Up? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3W1PdM-Zinw Reid: It’s on. Cathy: Yes. Now you’re going to. Reid: You, you ask the question and then you tell me who I am and I tell you who you are and then they keep watching. Cathy: Hopefully. Reid: Yeah. Cathy: Okay. Reid: It’s hard to sort eagles people, that’s all I’m saying, that’s all [...]

By |2017-09-18T05:35:27+00:00September 10, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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Shy At A Play Party, What Do You Do?

Shy At A Play Party, What Do You Do? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HjLLwqb0LJw Reid: You’re shy and you’re at a play party. What do you do? This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.IntimacyDojo.com/ Cathy: I am and this is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: And for those of you who are just joining us, play party is what the what the kids are calling a newfangled orgy these orgy these days, so you’re at [...]

By |2017-09-18T05:28:49+00:00September 7, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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How Do I Start Meeting People In A New City?

How Do I Start Meeting People In A New City? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dUcob4aB_XA Cathy: Quick question, as a super single 20-something in a new city what are tried and true ways I can use to start getting “out there”. Tinder was kind of weird for me and any advice from bona fide sex nerds with great sex life would be super appreciated. Reid: Yes. Cathy Vartuli from http://www.IntimacyDojo.com/ Cathy: Reid Mihalko from [...]

By |2017-09-18T05:22:46+00:00September 4, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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Mildest to Wildest in a Play Party, What Does That Mean?

Mildest to Wildest in a Play Party, What Does That Mean? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dSmj5DrYqf8 Cathy: If you’re at a play party and someone talks about sharing their mildest and wildest, what does that mean? I’m here with Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.IntimacyDojo.com/ A play party for those of you who are just tuning in is the newfangled word for an orgy and yes there are orgies happening all [...]

By |2018-07-20T05:53:37+00:00September 1, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|
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When Should You Take Care Of Someone Else’s Feelings?

When Should You Take Care Of Someone Else's Feelings? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y4mdsQXw6Ns Cathy: Do you feel obliged to take care of other people? When is it appropriate to look after someone else’s feeling? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.IntimacyDojo.com/ and we got the memo today coz we’re wearing shirts that are almost the same color if you haven’t noticed it. Cathy: Almost, yeah, yeah. Reid: [...]

By |2017-09-18T05:00:44+00:00August 29, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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Poly or Kink-Friendly Therapist, Where Can I Find them?

Poly or Kink-Friendly Therapist, Where Can I Find them?   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sUjviQzwvrI Cathy: How do I find a good poly or kink-friendly therapist? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.IntimacyDojo.com/ Cathy: And someone wrote in and said they were looking for a therapist and they weren’t sure how to find someone who is poly or kink-friendly. I think one of the first things I would do is [...]

By |2018-07-20T05:54:16+00:00August 26, 2018|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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We’re A Married Couple, How Do We Find A Threesome Partner?

We're A Married Couple, How Do We Find A Threesome Partner?   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L2PaIX-yFao Cathy: So someone wrote in and said, I just started listening to Everyone Wants to Have Better Sex with Crystal Bergen and I love it especially the threesome episode with Reid. So, cut into a chase, how does a married couple go about finding someone you could to have a threesome with? This is Reid Mihalko from [...]

By |2018-07-20T05:54:39+00:00August 23, 2018|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|
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How To Be Self-Expressed But Not Shower Emotion All Over Others?

How To Be Self-Expressed But Not Shower Emotion All Over Others? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z6ZPLK80LbY Cathy: When you’re trying to be self-expressed, how do you not drip your emotions all over the other person? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: Cathy Vartuli from the http://www.IntimacyDojo.com/ Explain your terms. Cathy: So we talk often about being self-expressed and have your emotions and being able to share like hey I’m disappointed, or hey that [...]

By |2018-07-20T05:55:13+00:00August 20, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame|
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You’re Not In The Mood To Flirt, How Do You Say No?

You're Not In The Mood To Flirt, How Do You Say No? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6L3zrcAw1co Cathy: How do you say no to flirting? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/ Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.IntimacyDojo.com/ Hi Cathy. Cathy: Hey Reid. Reid: How do you say no to flirting? Cathy: Oh, you’re being really obvious. Reid: Yeah. How do you say no? Cathy: Reid, I’m notice. I’m thinking that you’re flirting with [...]

By |2018-07-20T05:55:41+00:00August 17, 2018|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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