Cathy Vartuli

How Can You Be More Orgasmic? When You’ve Been Only Able To Come With A Vibrator?

How can I enjoy my partner more, when I've been depending on a vibrator to peak? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: A reader wrote in and said, "I can only have orgasms with a vibrator and I haven't really talked to my husband about it. I'm wondering how I can enjoy pleasure with him more? Can I be more orgasmic?" This is [...]

By | 2016-01-07T08:26:11+00:00 March 20, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame|

Will I Get In Trouble If I Bring My Vibrator When I Fly?

I don't want to get in trouble or be embarrassed. What can I do? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Someone asked, can I bring my vibrator with me when I fly? Is TSA going to pull it out and embarrass me in front of everyone? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from the http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: I've flown [...]

By | 2016-01-07T08:38:25+00:00 March 17, 2016|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame|

What Is A Good Starter Vibrator?

Never had a vibrator before? Feeling uncomfortable and not sure where to start? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. . Cathy: One of our viewers wrote in and said, "I'm an older woman, and I've never had a vibrator, and I'd really like to have one, but I'm scared. I don't know what to try out. I don't know what to get that won't [...]

By | 2016-01-07T08:39:36+00:00 March 14, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Did Your Partner “Steal” Your Latest Crush?

What if your partner beats you to the punch flirting with someone you like? What can you do? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: What happens when you and your partner are interested in the same person and they start flirting with them first? Beating you to the punch. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: And, Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com Reid: What [...]

By | 2016-01-07T09:09:44+00:00 March 11, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Can You Really Be Picky About Who You Date… Can You Really Date Your Species?

Isn't it hard to find someone to date? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Can you really design happiness into your relationships?  Reid: Hello, that's bullshit. Do you ever listen to Reid Mihalko? Oh my lord!  Cathy: Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com talks about dating your species ...  Reid: I hate him, I don't like that man. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, and [...]

By | 2016-04-13T11:54:56+00:00 March 8, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Intimacy and Connection: Taking, with Betty Martin

There is give and take in every relationship. Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com interviews Betty Martin from http://www.BettyMartin.org about Taking. Cathy: Hi everyone. I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, here with Betty Martin from http://www.BettyMartin.org. We're delighted to have her. She has vast experience and really great insights. In the previous video, we talked about being done to. Now we're going to talk about taking. Betty: In the context of those several [...]

By | 2016-01-07T12:37:42+00:00 February 27, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Receiving vs Being Done To: Betty Martin on Intimacy

There is give and take in every relationship. Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com interviews Betty Martin from http://www.BettyMartin.org about receiving and being "done to." Cathy: Hi everyone. I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, I’m here with Betty Martin fromhttp://www.BettyMartin.org. Betty has great insight into how people can have more intimacy and connection in really powerful ways. Some of it is really subtle, but it makes just a delightful difference. Betty, what is the [...]

By | 2016-01-07T12:37:27+00:00 February 24, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Taking and Receiving: With Betty Martin

There is give and take in every relationship. Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com interviews Betty Martin from http://www.BettyMartin.org about making taking and receiving consciously. Cathy: Today, we're talking about taking and receiving. I'm here with Betty Martin from http://www.BettyMartin.org. I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Betty, why is it important for people to understand the difference between giving and receiving? Betty: That's a great question, and that's one that's really very often confusing [...]

By | 2016-01-19T13:15:33+00:00 February 20, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Intimacy and Connection: Allowing, with Betty Martin

There is give and take in every relationship. Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com interviews Betty Martin from http://www.BettyMartin.org about Allowing. Cathy: Hi, everyone. I'm Cathy Vartuli from www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. You're with Betty Martin from www.BettyMartin.org. We're going to be talking about 'allowing' now. Betty, why is that important? Why do we need to talk about this? Betty: Because it is so fun. That's why. Cathy: (Laughing). I love talking about fun things. [...]

By | 2016-04-14T11:34:43+00:00 February 17, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Playing with Touch and Intimacy: with Betty Martin

There is give and take in every relationship. Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com interviews Betty Martin from http://www.BettyMartin.org about playing with touch and intimacy. Cathy: I'm Cathy Vartuli from www.TheIntimacyDojo.com here with Betty Martin from www.BettyMartin.org. She's going to share the three-minute game with us. Hey, Betty. Betty: Hey! (Laugh). My favorite topic. Cathy: Is it? Betty: Yes. Pretty much. I'm writing a book on it. We've been talking with you [...]

By | 2016-01-07T12:36:22+00:00 February 14, 2016|Dating, Flirting|