Cathy Vartuli

Talking To Your Partner About Touch You Don’t Like In Bed

How can you offer your partner an upgrade about touch in bed? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: What do you if your partner's touching you in ways that you don't particularly like?  Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.  Cathy: This is Cathy Vartuli from The Intimacy Dojo. The long suffering Cathy Vartuli.  Reid: It's awesome. The long suffering Cathy Vartuli.  Cathy: This is [...]

By | 2016-01-04T09:44:20+00:00 June 15, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

How Do You Play With A Bigger Person? How Do You Talk About It?

Is there a difference in being sexual with a bigger person? Can you talk about it? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: So, what if you have never slept with a bigger person? And, you want to? How do you talk to them about what's going on and how to play with them?  Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.  Cathy: I'm Cathy Vartuli [...]

By | 2016-01-04T09:41:18+00:00 June 12, 2016|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

What Do I Do If I Have Anal Burning?

Not sure what to do if you experience burning around your anus? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, "This is embarrassing, but I need an answer. My anus is burning anytime I use the rest room or shave in that area."  Reid: Put water on it, quick!  Cathy: Wow.  Reid: Like it's actually on fire?  Cathy: I don't think [...]

By | 2016-01-04T09:35:08+00:00 June 9, 2016|Shame, Trauma|

Is Poly Just For The Rich and Educated?

Could being poly be "irresponsible" and the playground of the wealthy and educated only? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: In regards to the interview you did with Esther Perel and Diana Adams, which was really good-  Reid: Thank you.  Cathy: About polyamory, someone said, "Would these academic people think differently if they lost their prosperity? I'm convinced they would. These are results of [...]

By | 2016-01-07T08:55:42+00:00 June 6, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Can Knowing Your (And Your Partner’s) Cool Down Style Make A Difference When You Fight?

Most couples get angry sometimes. How do you cool down? And what are your needs around cooling down? Does it really matter? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: How do you cool down when you fight? There's actually something called cool down styles and ...  Reid: Fuck this.  Cathy: That's Reid Mihalco from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and he actually has an article on this on [...]

By | 2016-01-07T08:58:44+00:00 June 3, 2016|Dating, Relationship Skills|

What do you do when your libido is low?

Is lack of desire plaguing you? What can you do? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: What do you do if your desire level is really low and you're in a relationship or several?  Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.  Cathy: I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Reid: What do you do?  Cathy: It's usually talk about different conversation formula. I think it's a lot [...]

By | 2016-01-04T09:39:11+00:00 May 31, 2016|Dating, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

What To Know How To Get Sponsors For Your Heart Centered Business?

Learn the 411 of getting sponsors and leaving them feel super happy! Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: It's recording. Have you ever wondered how to get sponsors? Reid: I have. Hi! This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com, the creator of Sex Geek Summer Camp and when I'm wearing the camp shirt, it's business advise with Cathy Vartuli from the Intimacy Dojo. Cathy: I [...]

By | 2016-01-04T09:14:20+00:00 May 28, 2016|Event|

What If You Keep Cutting People Off?

How can you clean it up if you keep interrupting someone? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: We did a video on what to do if someone's always cutting you off, but what if you cut other people off? This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: What were you saying? Reid: Wow. We're going to go right [...]

By | 2016-01-05T06:13:57+00:00 May 25, 2016|Relationship Skills|

Do You Get Silent When You’re Disappointed? Can You Reclaim Your Voice?

Silence doesn't often get us what we want, and can leave people feeling disempowered. How can you share when you're disappointment? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, thanks for doing this video, it's about handling disappointment. Then she said, I usually stay silent when I'm disappointed. I'm finding that only causes pain and helpless feelings. I'm middle aged and trying [...]

By | 2016-01-04T07:51:50+00:00 May 22, 2016|Dating, Relationship Skills|

When Is It Time To Pull Out?

Knowing the sensations just before you come give you greater control and possibility during sex. With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Reid: Focus! What are we working on? This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko for http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.  Reid: We have a question.  Cathy: You actually started this as a joke, but I actually want to know. How do you know [...]

By | 2016-01-04T09:32:40+00:00 May 19, 2016|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|