Cathy Vartuli

Taking the Confusion Out of Giving Intimacy: With Betty Martin

Cathy: Hi everyone. I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Here with Betty Martin fromhttp://www.BettyMartin.org. We're talking about giving. Now, have you ever been confused about giving and felt a little awkward about it? Betty is going to show us some ways to make it more clear and easy. Thanks, Betty. Betty: Thank you. First I want to define giving, because it can be thought of in a lot of ways. In our [...]

By | 2016-01-08T06:07:12+00:00 February 11, 2016|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Want To Become A Sex Educator? Not Sure Where To Start?

Curious about what it takes to be a sex educator? What about the different types of sex educators? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.   Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, "How does a layperson become a sex educator?  Reid: You said lay. Sorry. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from http://www ReidAboutSex.com. How does a model ... have you ever [...]

By | 2016-01-04T08:07:08+00:00 February 8, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills|

How Do Seniors Meet Energetic Passionate Partners?

How do people in their 50's on up meet amazing partners? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: “What advice can you give someone to a senior person wanting to meet a partner that enjoy life with?” Reid: Okay. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: And Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Aha! We have been seniors, it was like in high school or college. So [...]

By | 2016-01-07T09:18:53+00:00 February 5, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills|

How Do You Deal With Change In A Relationship?

Moving across country for a job? Any big change can stress a relationship. What can you do? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com and Raj. Cathy: Dealing with change in a relationship can be really challenging. Moving across country because one person has a job or for other reasons, that can put a lot of turmoil into a relationship. How do you deal with that? I'm Cathy [...]

By | 2016-01-08T07:35:30+00:00 July 21, 2015|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Do You Deal With Someone Who Doesn’t Realize They’re Being Mean?

We all had someone that was mean to us, giving us advice on whatever, and they didn't realize that they're being mean...but they do come across sometimes very judgmental or harsh. Do you know how to deal with mean people, and with someone who doesn't even realize they're being mean? Hear relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com talk about different ways to deal with men people. Cathy: A while ago we did a couple [...]

By | 2016-01-05T06:01:44+00:00 July 11, 2015|Relationship Skills, Shame|

I Have A Hard Time Tuning In And Being More Present

Finding out where your venn diagram overlaps with your partner so you might be able to find your yes in an area that's really juicy for them too. If you have a hard time tuning into that, and always feel rushed and in a hurry, then join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share ways to slow down, and be more present. Cathy: Someone asked when...we [...]

By | 2016-01-05T09:01:57+00:00 July 8, 2015|Energy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Do You Recover From A Critical Partner?

Was your partner very critical over a period of time, and now he's being less critical, but it's really hard for you to go back. Do you feel shut down, and expecting criticism every time you talk? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share ways to talk about delayed ejaculation and increase pleasure. Reid: Surprise topic! Cathy: I think you can't be that loud, because their speakers [...]

By | 2016-04-13T07:38:21+00:00 July 5, 2015|Dating, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Do I Know If My Partner Is Faking It?

How do you know if your partner had orgasm? We all have faked orgasm before, it's true, we do sometimes. What you want to start doing is start talking to each other about the kind of sex that you like. What gets you off, what doesn't get you off, when you're not having the sex. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and find out more about [...]

By | 2016-01-04T12:42:41+00:00 June 26, 2015|Body Image, Dating, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame, Touch|

My Partner Is Horrible At Reframing Fighting… I Want To Give Up!

Is your partner horrible at reframing fighting? Do you get to the point where you just give up because you don’t care? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share ways to learn how to reframe fighting and fight better. Cathy: In our video about reframing fighting, which I really enjoyed doing I think it's really useful information. Someone wrote: "Oh my god. [...]

By | 2016-01-05T06:06:46+00:00 June 23, 2015|Relationship Skills|

How Can I Know When To Stop In Bed?

Do you know when to stop? Some women want to stop when they have an orgasm, and some women are multi-orgasmic, or just want to keep enjoying. Some men, too. Having a discussion with your partner about it can be really powerful. There's ways that you can set up agreements ahead of time. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they talk about when to [...]

By | 2016-01-04T12:47:14+00:00 May 16, 2015|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|