Cathy Vartuli

Coming Out Kinky… To Your Kids?

How do you come out kinky (or do you...) to your children? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U_Ym9apOxOk Cathy: How do parents come out to their kids if they’re poly, gay or kinky? This is Reid Mihalko from http://reidaboutsex.com/ Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://theintimacydojo.com/ Cathy: And Reid has this great thing called the difficult conversation formula. Reid: At http://reidaboutsex.com/difficult-conversation-formula/ Cathy: And we’ll put the [...]

By | 2017-08-26T19:08:00+00:00 August 21, 2017|Body Image, Dating, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame|

Starting To Like Someone… But Afraid They’re Going To Cut And Run?

Abandonment issues can make it hard to get close. Feeling afraid that your sweetie will leave? What can you do? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SKnGx08qbGk Cathy: Someone wrote in and said they wanting to, no, “How can you stop freaking out that the amazing guy you just met and then have been in a relationship with the past six months isn’t going to [...]

By | 2017-05-08T12:38:30+00:00 August 18, 2017|Dating, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Can I Be Honest And Not Lead Women On?

If you're sure you want to keep things casual, how can you be clear and not lead women (or men) on? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HxYKu1KS7ys Cathy: Someone wrote in and then they said, “How can you be honest so you don’t lead women on? Yes, this is a gentleman writing who is heterosexual when you don’t want to hurt them by misrepresenting [...]

By | 2017-05-08T12:29:44+00:00 August 15, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Creating Safe Space For Yourself and Others

How do you make a safe space for you and for others around you? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GBUt7BouxoE Cathy: Do you create safe space for yourself? Reid: It’s fucked out of me. Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. I swore I’m right in the beginning of the video. Fuck! Alright, how do you create safe space? Cathy: Actually, [...]

By | 2017-05-05T14:26:37+00:00 August 12, 2017|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Do You Handle Being Jealous If You’re A Casual Partner?

Feeling jealous but not sure you have a right to be? Find out more with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KAX61TUE8uI Cathy: So how do you handle being jealous when you’re not part of a couple but you’re a casual partner to someone who is poly. Reid: How do you avoid being jealous? Cathy: Or how do you handle being jealous? Reid: That sounds like envy [...]

By | 2017-05-05T14:04:25+00:00 August 9, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

Are There Protocals For Long Term Relationships That Aren’t Aiming For Marriage?

How do you have a long term relationship that's conscious and loving, but doesn't look like marriage, children, joint checking accounts (necessarily). Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dWnmEWayJNQ Cathy: Someone wrote in and said they love the slut protocols that you put together. Reid: Yeah, http://www.ReidAboutSex.com/slutprotocols. Cathy: But they wanted to know if you have created a set of protocols for longer term [...]

By | 2017-05-05T13:51:12+00:00 August 6, 2017|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

Trying To Fit In With A New Group… And Now You Can’t Deliver On A Promise You Made?

Cleaning up lies or mistakes can be tough enough with close friends. What if your new to a group and really want to fit in? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xdUex3gfsdo Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “I love all your videos about if you tell a lie and I really want to come up front about things but I’m new in this group and [...]

By | 2017-05-05T12:55:13+00:00 August 3, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Saying No To Your Partner In A Loving Way…

Its important to be able to set boundaries with your partner and say no... How do you do that in a way that leaves them cared about? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e88yKbgodJ4 Cathy: We had people writing in. We discussed how you set boundaries when that’s what you need in your relationship. And what if your partner does or doesn’t want to, like, do [...]

By | 2017-05-05T12:39:56+00:00 July 31, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

The Importance of Fact Checking…

The Importance of Fact Checking... Why does it matter if you check facts before sharing information? Find out more with Dr. Liz from http://www.SexPositivePsych.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vWWfBIFBt9Q Cathy: We’d like to talk about the importance of fact checking especially in social media. This is Dr. Liz from https://www.sexpositivepsych.com/   Liz: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.theintimacydojo.com/   Cathy: And this is again a delicate topic. We seem [...]

By | 2017-09-01T16:19:03+00:00 July 30, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Restitution… Is it Important Or Not?

When do you make amends and when is okay to let things go? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xa1AEORxN9s Cathy: Restitution should you do it and is it good? Start, if you don’t like the I way, start. Don’t you laugh? Reid: I just want to say, I love people stay and watching videos. Cathy: They‘re already tolerating you so much. Reid: In this video, [...]

By | 2017-05-04T16:46:24+00:00 July 28, 2017|Dating, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|