Cathy Vartuli

What If You Discover Your Sexual Identity Is Very Different Than You Thought?

If your sexual identity changes, it can effect your relationship. How can you deal with it? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com and Raj. Cathy: So what do you do when you discover your sexuality or your sexual expression with someone isn't what you thought it was, after you thought you had it all figured out? I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Andi: I'm Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com. [...]

By | 2016-09-22T15:06:39+00:00 November 3, 2016|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame|

How Can You Make Changing Your Sexual Identity Easier?

Discovering you like something different than you thought in bed can be exciting, but when it effects your identity, it can be really challenging. How can you support yourself through the process? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: How do you support yourself when you're transforming your sexuality?  Reid: Into what?  Cathy: Into something new, whether you're leaving kink or entering kink or [...]

By | 2016-09-22T15:05:28+00:00 October 31, 2016|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Collaboration Tips and Pointers

Collaboration can let us get more done, quicker, and add more value. But how do you find the people you want to collaborate with? Kate McCombs from http://www.SexGeekdom.com, Ashley Manta from http://www.AshleyManta.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com share tips and their experiences. Cathy: We're talking about collaboration and how to identify people that would be really fun to work with, play with, create with. I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com  Kate: [...]

By | 2016-09-22T15:04:35+00:00 October 28, 2016|Collaborators, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Afraid of Discussing Sex? What If You Have a Sex-Positive Business?

How can you be empowered about discussing sex when you feel frightened and ashamed to talk about sex in public? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, and Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com. Cathy: What if you're ashamed to use the word sex or talk about intimacy? What if you're afraid of it? I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Andi: I'm Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com.  Cathy: Thank you for sharing this. I went through [...]

By | 2016-09-22T15:03:44+00:00 October 25, 2016|Event, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame|

What If You Want To Change The Level of Connection in A Relationship?

Been Hanging out with someone and want to not spend the same amount of time and intimacy with them? What do you do? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com. Andi: That's really interesting, but then what happens if say you have had a connection with someone in the past, but right now you're just totally overbooked? You have so many amazing things happening in your life that [...]

By | 2016-09-22T15:02:51+00:00 October 22, 2016|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Balancing Corporate Job and Sex Positive Business? How Do You Do It?

It can be a challenge to balance time and money when you have a corporate job AND are trying to grow your sex-positive business. How do you do it? Learn how with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Reid: Hello, it's Reid Mihalko, creator of Sex Geek Summer Camp. I'm wearing the Sex Geek Summer Camp t-shirt which means Cathy Vartuli from The Intimacy Dojo [...]

By | 2016-09-22T15:01:51+00:00 October 19, 2016|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Is There A Way To Make Asking For Payment Easier? Do You Negotiate?

Handling money can be challenging! How do you discuss money with clients or prospective clients and still sound confident and professional? How can it be easy? With Cathy Vartuli from the http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, “How do I ask for payments with ease? Should I negotiate? What do I do?” Reid: I just send them that little clip from Jerry Maguire. Show [...]

By | 2016-09-22T15:00:53+00:00 October 16, 2016|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Can I Make My Meetup Group More Inclusive and Diverse?

How can I make my group more inviting to people with different backgrounds, incomes, ages, races, and perspectives? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Someone who runs a polyamory group wrote in and said, "I just started this group but it's mostly Caucasian people with money, how do I attract people..." Reid: That idea is again younger people. Cathy: Younger, yeah. How do I attract [...]

By | 2016-09-22T14:59:48+00:00 October 13, 2016|Collaborators, Event, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Jealousy in Polyamorous Relationships: Examples and Stories

Wanting to handle jealousy better? What are examples of jealousy in poly relationships? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and asked about jealousy in a polyamorous relationship and was asking if we had some stories we could share that would help bring it down to a real level, like a more practical experiential level.  Reid: And Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com has a [...]

By | 2016-09-22T14:57:07+00:00 October 10, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Jealousy and the Law of Attraction

How does understanding jealousy can help you attract more of what you want in your life? Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.ThrivingNow.com (and founder of http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com) discuss how understanding jealousy can help you attract more of what you want in your life. Cathy: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://ThrivingNow.com. I'm here with Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. If you saw the first video, we were talking about how [...]

By | 2016-09-19T14:36:36+00:00 October 7, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|