Cathy Vartuli

Tried Something New and Hated It?? Your Partner Wants To Do It Again?!

What do you do if you tried something with your partner, and you didn't enjoy it at all. You also don't have the desire to do it again, and your partner won't let it go.  Something like this might happen in the bedroom or in the relationship in general. Hear what relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com have to say about that. Cathy: What do you do if you tried [...]

By | 2016-01-05T07:50:21+00:00 March 5, 2015|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Want To De-Escalate A Relationship? How Do You Slow Thing Down?

If you're hanging out with someone and you're both using skill sets that create warmth and connection, it's really easy to get deeper than you first planned. In these kind of moments it's better not to just dump the relationship and run if you can help it. It is good to know where the breaks are at all times. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share what to [...]

By | 2016-04-13T08:15:27+00:00 March 2, 2015|Dating, Relationship Skills|

What Do You Do If You Lied And Don’t Know How To Clean It Up?

What do you do if you lied? You blurted out a lie without meaning to and then you're afraid to take it back and you're not really sure there's safe space to do so. What can you do? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share thoughts about how to clean up your lie. Cathy: Another viewer wrote in and said what do you [...]

By | 2016-01-06T09:46:23+00:00 February 27, 2015|Relationship Skills|

When Does Taking Care Of Yourself Become Selfish or Hedonism?

Hedonism has gotten a bad slant, like people use the word to mean something negative. But looking for pleasure or happiness is not necessarily a bad thing. You need to be selfish in life - you actually need to take care of yourself first. Hear relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com talk about when does taking care of yourself drop into selfishness or hedonism. Cathy: Someone wrote in and asked, [...]

By | 2015-12-23T12:33:20+00:00 February 24, 2015|Body Image, Energy, Relationship Skills|

Cuddle Party 10th Anniversary

10 years ago, Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com was Reid Mihalko from http://CuddleParty.com and it was Cuddle Party's 10th Anniversary on February 28th 2014. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share memories. Reid: Hi, I'm Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: 10 years ago, I was Reid Mihalko from http://CuddleParty.com and it was Cuddle Party's 10th Anniversary on February [...]

By | 2015-12-23T10:45:34+00:00 February 21, 2015|Event|

When To Get In The Mood and When To Say No

What do you do when you're not in the mood for sex and your partner is? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as they share ways to get yourself in the mood and when to say no. Cathy: What do you do when you're not in the mood and your partner is? Reid: In the mood for what? Cathy: Sex. Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko from [...]

By | 2016-01-06T09:50:15+00:00 February 18, 2015|Energy, Sex Geeks|

3 Ways To Be Authentically Sexier This Summer

Tired of Cosmo and surface changes that leave you feeling empty? Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Ashley Manta from http://www.AshleyManta.com share how NOT to do it the Cosmo way, but rather how to create true sexiness and confidence this summer. Cathy: Hello everyone.  I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com and I'm here with Ashley Manta from http://AshleyManta.com. We're talking about body image and three ways that you can help yourself feel [...]

By | 2016-01-06T08:54:51+00:00 May 28, 2014|Body Image, Flirting, Relationship Skills|

As A Woman Who Likes Women…What Is Your Favorite Thing About A Vulva?

Allison Moon from http://www.LesbianWerewolves.com joins Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and shares what she most likes about vulvas... learn more here! Cathy: Hey, everyone. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com, and I'm here today with Allison Moon from http://LesbianWerewolves.com. Hey, Allison! Allison: Hi! How it's going? Cathy: Good! I'm so glad you're here with us. Allison: I'm glad I'm here too. Cathy: So as a woman who likes women, can you [...]

By | 2016-01-06T08:57:32+00:00 June 19, 2013|Body Image, Dating, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

What is a Lesbian Werewolf?

Ever wonder what a Lesbian Werewolf is? Allison Moon from http://www.LesbianWerewolves.com joins Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and shares about her latest book and why she decided to write it. Cathy: Hey, everyone. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com here with Allison Moon from http://LesbianWerewolves.com. And we're asking Allison, what is a lesbian werewolf? Allison: Well, when a werewolf loves a werewolf very, very much. So lesbian werewolves, I wrote a [...]

By | 2016-01-07T09:36:28+00:00 June 17, 2013|Sex Geeks|

Premature Ejaculation

Cathy: Hi, everyone. Have you ever wondered... I'm sorry I'm messing this up, I don't know how to start this. Reid: You messed up prematurely? Cathy: I prematurely messed it up. Reid: Guess what this one is about. Premature ejaculation. Cathy: We've had several people email and asking for help with this, how do you deal with it. Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com Reid: [...]

By | 2016-01-04T13:01:20+00:00 June 12, 2013|Body Image, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|