Cathy Vartuli

Facing Judgement As A Sex Educator and/or Sex Worker?

Shamed for being a sex educator and/or sex worker? What can you do? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Are you going to do the business thing? Reid: Yah I’m going to do the business thing cause when I’m wearing the Sex Geek Summer Camp t-shirt that means were talking about business for sex educators and things like that. Cathy: What’s like wearing purple orchid [...]

By | 2017-05-03T03:12:58+00:00 June 25, 2017|Flirting, Sex Geeks, Shame|

How Can I Be More Present During Sex?

How can you enhance pleasure and connection during sex? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Have you meet more presents during sex? Reid: I’m sorry, what? Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com Cathy: And we we’re just talking about of how to notice your partner energy more. And one of the basic things you need to do for that [...]

By | 2017-05-03T02:50:57+00:00 June 22, 2017|Energy, Flirting, Sex Geeks|

How Do You Tell Someone That You’re Just Not That Into Them?

What would you do when you realize you just want to be friends? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Someone wrote and said, “I recently parted with a female over the New Year’s holidays but now she’s obviously more into me that I am into her. She’s dropping the L word after only a week.” Reid: Latte! I’m Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: I’m Cathy [...]

By | 2017-05-03T02:37:28+00:00 June 19, 2017|Dating, Relationship Skills|

How Do I Know If My Rules Are Reasonable In My Poly Relationship?

What is "reasonable" to ask for in a relationship? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Hi Reid and Cathy. I really need some advice and someone to tell me if the rule I have in my poly relationship is reasonable or not. My primary partner has started dating someone else for the first time in 6 years. I support her 100%. I have [...]

By | 2017-05-03T02:15:08+00:00 June 16, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills|

If You Had To Exit A Business Agreement, How Would You Do It?

How do you create exit strategies for business? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Do you have exit strategies for your business? Reid: How do you escape!? Cathy: Is that what you're trying to do? Reid: Escape! Cathy: It kind of looks like you might be having- Reid: I'm like in a straitjacket. My business is a straitjacket! How do I escape!? Cathy: This is Reid [...]

By | 2017-05-03T02:01:49+00:00 June 13, 2017|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Wound Up After A Sexual Encounter? Can’t Sleep?

Are you finding hard to sleep after a sexual encounter? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: So what do you do… Reid: Tada!! Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com Cathy: Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com Reid: Never spin around. That’s an intro. Cathy: Would you like to spin back right now? Reid: No, I’ll do it at the end. What are we talking about? Cathy: Someone wrote in [...]

By | 2017-05-03T01:40:04+00:00 June 10, 2017|Flirting, Sex Geeks, Touch|

If You’re Enthusiastic Does That Mean You Aren’t Cool?

How cool and enthusiastic can you be? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: So this is a little bit of a vulnerable discussion about being a cool kid and how enthusiastic to be. This is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Yeah! Cathy: He’s very enthusiastic. Reid: And very cool. Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Playin’ it… Cathy: So, I’ve been moved out to [inaudible 00:00:24]. [...]

By | 2017-05-03T01:13:37+00:00 June 7, 2017|Dating, Energy|

Bored On A Date? What Do You Do?

How would you tell your date that you are bored? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: What do you if your date bores you? Reid: Go on a second date! No! Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: And what would you do if your date bored you? Reid: I would say, “This is been a lovely evening…” Cathy: [...]

By | 2017-05-03T00:43:22+00:00 June 4, 2017|Dating, Flirting|

Feel Sorry For Someone But Just Not Into Dating Them?

How would you break bad news to someone? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.   Cathy: So we just did a video about how to tell someone your dating that you’re just not into them. Now how do you do that when they might have something either you feel sorry for them about or they’re struggling with or either kind of using that or you’re just [...]

By | 2017-05-03T00:28:40+00:00 June 1, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills|

SG3: What Kind Of Business Entity Should You Have?

What kind of business do you need? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Hello sex geeks! It’s the sex geek T-shirt. I’m Reid Mihalko from http://reidaboutsex.com/. Founder of http://www.sexgeeksummercamp.com/ Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://theintimacydojo.com/ Reid: Also, employed by a secret corporation that we cannot name. Cathy: Yes Reid: Somewhere in San Jose. Cathy: Not far from here as a matter of fact. Reid: Maybe [...]

By | 2017-05-03T00:14:51+00:00 May 29, 2017|Sex Geeks|