Communication

Jealousy Explained

Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.ThrivingNow.com (and founder of http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com) discuss the different aspects of jealousy and how understanding the "8-arms" of jealousy can add ease and deepen connection. Cathy: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://ThrivingNow.com. I'm here with Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. We're talking about jealousy. Reid: This is video three. There are two other videos if you have not seen them. Cathy: They stand alone, [...]

By | 2016-09-08T06:37:57+00:00 January 31, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Hot Sex… Until You Moved In Together?

Great sex drying up once you shack up? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Your partner and you were having lots of sex.  Cathy: Hot sex.  Reid: Hot, hot frequent sex and then you moved in together and poof! It evaporated. Not so frequent.  Cathy: Not so hot.  Reid: Not so hot. What do you do? I'm Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.  Cathy: He's a little [...]

By | 2016-09-23T14:38:23+00:00 January 28, 2017|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Does Holding Hands Make You Uncomfortable? Can You Get Close To People Anyway?

Are you scared or uncomfortable holding hands? How can you date or let people close? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: What do you do if you want to get close to people, you want to go dating, but you're scared of holding hands?  Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. If you are not comfortable [...]

By | 2016-09-23T14:36:08+00:00 January 20, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

Certain Sexual Positions Hurt… Is That Normal?

Its fun to be able to mix it up and try new things... But what if some of the sexual positions you try hurt? What can you do? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, "I'm wondering if it's normal to have pain during certain sexual positions. I noticed that when riding my boyfriend or being in the doggy [...]

By | 2016-09-22T16:48:51+00:00 December 24, 2016|Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch, Trauma|

Is The Condom Too Long? Are We Using It Wrong? It Keeps Slipping Off!

What do you do if the condom slips off so there's all this latex at the end? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, "My partner and I often have a problem when the condom will slip off his dick or over stretch the tip so there's this long piece of latex inside me. Is there something in the [...]

By | 2016-09-22T15:36:11+00:00 December 18, 2016|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

I Want Be On Video But I Don’t Look “Right”…

How can I make videos when I'm too (insert your favorite limiter here... big, old, young). Change that with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: We're shooting videos to help you shoot videos. We're talking to people that are making a difference because they learned how to at Reid Mihalko’s Sex Geek Summer Camp. We're having a contest; he's also from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. I am [...]

By | 2016-01-08T09:32:57+00:00 December 17, 2016|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

What Do You Do When You Realize What You’ve Been Teaching Is Wrong?!

Its a horrible feeling. You've been confidently teaching what you thought was great advice... And wham! You find out its wrong. What do you do? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Reid: What do you do when you realize what you're teaching is wrong? I love that. I love being wrong. Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Sex Geek Summer Camp Reid: [...]

By | 2016-09-22T15:33:19+00:00 December 12, 2016|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame|

Can I Shoot Video Even If There’s Background Noise?

Want to make a difference in the world... But have lots of background noise. Find out how with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and the ever goofy Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: We had campers write in and say, "Hey, I really want to shoot videos. I really want to touch people's lives." They're at Sex Geek Summer Camp, they're inspired, they understand how they can make a difference [...]

By | 2016-01-08T09:29:26+00:00 December 11, 2016|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Want To Take My Events On The Road And Nationalize My Brand… What Do I Do?

How can I get nationally known with my sex positive business? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, "How do I nationalize my brand and take the show on the road, so that I can reach more people?" Reid: When I'm wearing the Sex Geek Summer Camp shirt it means these business questions Cathy: Yes. Reid: If you're here [...]

By | 2016-09-22T15:28:03+00:00 December 3, 2016|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Collaboration Tips and Pointers

Collaboration can let us get more done, quicker, and add more value. But how do you find the people you want to collaborate with? Kate McCombs from http://www.SexGeekdom.com, Ashley Manta from http://www.AshleyManta.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com share tips and their experiences. Cathy: We're talking about collaboration and how to identify people that would be really fun to work with, play with, create with. I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com  Kate: [...]

By | 2016-09-22T15:04:35+00:00 October 28, 2016|Collaborators, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|