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I Want Be On Video But I Don’t Look “Right”…

How can I make videos when I'm too (insert your favorite limiter here... big, old, young). Change that with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: We're shooting videos to help you shoot videos. We're talking to people that are making a difference because they learned how to at Reid Mihalko’s Sex Geek Summer Camp. We're having a contest; he's also from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. I am [...]

By | 2016-01-08T09:32:57+00:00 December 17, 2016|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

What Do You Do When You’re In A Relationship And One Partner Transitions Gender?

What if your partner realizes their gender identity is different from what they thought... With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com and Raj. Cathy: What do you when you're in a relationship and one partner decides to transition gender and just expressing themselves differently? I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Andi: I'm Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com.  Raj: I'm Raj. I'm just a regular guy who happens to be married [...]

By | 2016-09-22T15:34:09+00:00 December 15, 2016|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Can I Shoot Video If I Have A Small Space With Lots of Stuff?

Cluttered background holding you back from shooting video? Shot that idea in the foot with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp. Cathy: We're talking about recording videos because you can really make a difference and reach a lot of people even while you sleep. We talked a lot about this at Sex Geek Summer Camp with Reid Mihalko, who's also from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and I'm Cathy [...]

By | 2016-01-08T09:33:27+00:00 December 14, 2016|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

What Do You Do When You Realize What You’ve Been Teaching Is Wrong?!

Its a horrible feeling. You've been confidently teaching what you thought was great advice... And wham! You find out its wrong. What do you do? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Reid: What do you do when you realize what you're teaching is wrong? I love that. I love being wrong. Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Sex Geek Summer Camp Reid: [...]

By | 2016-09-22T15:33:19+00:00 December 12, 2016|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame|

Can I Shoot Video Even If There’s Background Noise?

Want to make a difference in the world... But have lots of background noise. Find out how with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and the ever goofy Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: We had campers write in and say, "Hey, I really want to shoot videos. I really want to touch people's lives." They're at Sex Geek Summer Camp, they're inspired, they understand how they can make a difference [...]

By | 2016-01-08T09:29:26+00:00 December 11, 2016|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

I Want To Shoot Videos But I’m Running Into Resistance…

How do you face your fears and do it anyway in front of a video camera? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: All right, so we were talking to people that want to shoot videos because they were inspired at Sex Geek Summer Camp and want to get their message out. Reid Mihalko from Sex Geek Summer Camp and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Cathy Vartuli [...]

By | 2016-01-08T09:35:08+00:00 December 8, 2016|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame|

What Do You Do When Your Friends and Family Are Ashamed Of Your Sex Positive Work?

It can be challenging enough to do this work! What about when people shame you around what you do? What do you do? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: How do you handle it when your family and friends don't support the work you do around sex education? When they think it might be shameful or really just not okay? Reid: And they [...]

By | 2016-09-22T15:30:43+00:00 December 6, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame, Touch|

Releasing Resistance to Shooting Videos

How can you release resistance to shooting videos? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and http://www.ThrivingNow.com. Some of you wrote in and said, “How you’re having resistance to shooting the videos?” I thought I’d offer, if you want it, some tapping to help you get pass the blocks. The hamsters can get really loud and I usually notice that it get loud as when I move in toward in something that [...]

By | 2016-01-08T09:35:31+00:00 December 5, 2016|Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame|

If You’re A Public Figure, What If You Don’t Have Time Or Don’t Want To Connect?

How do you have good boundaries when you're out there in the world? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, and Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com. Andi: Cathy, when you were a public figure and someone wants to connect with you but you are not really interested in connecting with them how do you handle that?  Cathy: Great question. I'm Cathy Vartuli from the http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Andi: I'm Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com.  Cathy: That [...]

By | 2016-09-22T15:21:48+00:00 November 26, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Do You Open Up Your Relationship And Keep It Vital?

Opening up your relationship can be challenging. How can you do that and keep your relationship healthy? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com and Raj. Cathy: How do you open up your relationship and still keep it really vital and alive? I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Andi: I'm Andi Cortland from http://www.LevelUpSex.com.  Raj: I'm Raj, I'm married to Andi.  Cathy: We're really blessed to have you guys [...]

By | 2016-09-22T15:18:35+00:00 November 21, 2016|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|