Conflict

Bottom Lines

How do you know what you're bottom lines are? And what do you do when someone crosses one? Join Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as she asks Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com these questions. Cathy: Hi everyone, this is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. And we're here with Reid Mihalko from http://RediAboutSex.com. Reid: I was just wondering if it would like my half of the video froze if I just went [pause] the [...]

By | 2016-04-13T07:17:53+00:00 July 4, 2012|Dating, Relationship Skills|

Handling Mean People

It's easy to be rattled when someone is mean to us. Want to learn cool ways to reframe this and "turn the tables"? Join Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as she talks to sex and relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com about creating more intimacy in your life. Cathy:  Hey, everyone. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com, and Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Reid, what do you do if someone's mean to [...]

By | 2016-04-13T07:07:58+00:00 June 23, 2012|Relationship Skills, Trauma|

Jealousy As A Signal That Needs Aren’t Being Met

Most of us avoid the topic of Jealousy, but when we face the feelings and learn new skills, we can transform our relationships and create new intimacy. Being jealous doesn't mean you're bad- it may just mean you have some needs that aren't being met. Join Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as she talks to sex and relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com about creating more intimacy in your life. Cathy:  [...]

By | 2016-01-04T06:07:28+00:00 June 21, 2012|Relationship Skills, Shame|

Fine Tune Your Dating Profile- No Needy People

Wanting to get out there and date more, but feel frustrated that you're not attracting the kind of people you want? Is there a type of person that drives you batty? Update your dating profile to filter better. For example- if you want to attract independent people (vs needy), what can you say? Join Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as she talks to sex and relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com [...]

By | 2016-01-06T12:31:49+00:00 June 19, 2012|Dating|

I’m Growing, My Partner Isn’t

If you're making positive changes and "growing" in your life and your partner isn't, what do you do? Join Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as she talks to sex and relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com about creating more intimacy in your life. Cathy:  Welcome everyone, this is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com, and this is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Reid:  Mmmmm... Cathy:  Hey, Reid. Reid:  Hi, Cathy. Cathy:  So, we work [...]

By | 2016-01-06T12:33:52+00:00 June 17, 2012|Relationship Skills|

My Partner Isn’t Interested In Sex Anymore

When your partner loses interest in sex, it can be frustrating and heart wrenching. Here are some tips to clearing the air and opening up discussions to allow more connection and more physical intimacy. Join Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as she talks to sex and relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com about creating more intimacy in your life. Cathy:  Hi, everyone. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com, and we're here [...]

By | 2016-01-06T09:19:22+00:00 June 15, 2012|Relationship Skills, Shame|

Difficult Conversations

This is a fantastic article by sex and relationship expert Reid Mihalko from www.ReidAboutSex.com. I've used it a number of times and even though it felt a bit awkward and scary at first, it made a huge difference and cleared up some old blocked conversations beautifully. Thank you, Reid, for letting us share this here! ~ Cathy   Say What’s Not Being Said: Reid’s Formula for Difficult Conversations It’s what you’re [...]

By | 2012-06-15T18:40:38+00:00 June 15, 2012|Relationship Skills|

What To Do If Your Lover Seems To Lose Interest…

Does your partner or lover seem less interested? Distracted? Maybe even bored? What do you do? How can you revitalize the relationship and bring back the passion you used to feel? Join Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com as she talks to sex and relationship expert Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com about creating more intimacy in your life.   Cathy:  Hi, everyone. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com, and we’re here with Reid [...]

By | 2016-01-06T12:36:22+00:00 June 13, 2012|Relationship Skills|

Decreasing Drama in Relationships Using an Exit Strategy

We've all seen how unexpected stumbles in a relationship can create distress and drama. It doesn't matter whether you have a business partner, friend, coaching relationship, or intimate partner. Those swings can disrupt your life and drain you emotionally and energetically. Having the bottom drop out of a relationship HURTS. And the experience can leave you on guard in other connections, no matter how well they're going. Creating an exit agreement can clear a [...]

By | 2012-04-09T01:50:00+00:00 March 12, 2012|Relationship Skills|