How Do You Support Your Child If He or She is Questioning Their Gender?

What do you say or do when your child is questioning their gender? With Cathy Vartuli from and Reid Mihalko from Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, and this was a really loving letter, they said that their child is in college, first year of college, doing great, where they're so proud of their kid, but the person, their child is dealing with trying to figure out what [...]

By | 2016-01-07T09:15:34+00:00 March 5, 2016|Relationship Skills|

What Do You Say When The Condom Breaks During Intercourse?

Did they tell the truth?  What do you do? With Reid Mihalko from  and Cathy Vartuli from Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko from Reid About Sex. Cathy: I'm Cathy Vartuli from The Intimacy Dojo. (Laughs) Reid: Sing it! Cathy: Oh no, they'll just hang up. Reid: All right. All right. I'll let you off this time. Cathy: Oh thanks. Reid: What's the question?  Cathy: So someone wrote in and [...]

By | 2016-01-07T08:41:20+00:00 March 2, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Do You Deal With Change In A Relationship?

Moving across country for a job? Any big change can stress a relationship. What can you do? With Cathy Vartuli from, Andi Cortland from and Raj. Cathy: Dealing with change in a relationship can be really challenging. Moving across country because one person has a job or for other reasons, that can put a lot of turmoil into a relationship. How do you deal with that? I'm Cathy [...]

By | 2016-01-08T07:35:30+00:00 July 21, 2015|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

What If Someone Apologizes, But Keeps Repeating The Action

Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from and Cathy Vartuli from as they discuss what to do if some repeats an out of integrity action over and over. Cathy: In an earlier video, we talked about the Five Languages of Apology, by Gary Chapman which is a great book. It's really powerful. It talks about ways we can apologize to our partners so it really lands. Someone wrote in and [...]

By | 2016-01-06T10:19:15+00:00 June 18, 2014|Dating, Relationship Skills, Shame, Trauma|

Dealing With People Who Cut You Off, Or Won’t Stop Talking

Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from and Cathy Vartuli from as they share what to do, whether your lead workshops or in your personal life, when people cut you off or won't stop talking. Cathy: Are you ever in a situation where all of a sudden someone will ... Reid: Cut you off, and then keeps talking? Cathy: Yes. Reid: Yeah. Happens all the time. Cathy: (Laughs) It can be difficult [...]

By | 2015-12-22T21:50:57+00:00 June 12, 2014|Collaborators, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills|

Resolving Disagreements With Your Partner

What do you do when your partner, friend, co-worker or family member feels strongly about a topic, and disagrees with you? This can cause fights and tension. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from and Cathy Vartuli from as they give you tips and suggestions. Cathy: Hi, this is Cathy Vartuli from Reid: I'm Reid Mihalko from Cathy: We all have friends, partners, lovers, coworkers who we may admire and [...]

By | 2016-04-18T10:41:05+00:00 June 8, 2014|Dating, Relationship Skills|

What To Do When Someone Is Really Clingy

Dealing with clingy people can be overwhelming and unsettling. Learn how to create boundaries, talk to people and upgrade your relationships. Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from and Cathy Vartuli from as they discuss dealing with clingy people in an empowered way. (Please note, we decided not to chop the beginning, and let you see how truly goofy Reid is!) Cathy: Luckily, I can edit these and chop off [...]

By | 2016-04-18T11:32:40+00:00 July 24, 2013|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills|

Fear of Physical Intimacy: Lack of Trust

How do you deal with fear of intimacy, and how do you feel safe and trusting in a connection? Join relationship expert Reid Mihalko from and Cathy Vartuli from as they share simple, practical steps you can take to bring the passion back into your life, and create warmth and love again. Cathy: Hi, everyone. What do you do when you're afraid of physical intimacy? You want to [...]

By | 2016-01-06T09:07:49+00:00 February 21, 2013|Dating, Relationship Skills, Trauma|

Jealousy- Needing To Feel Special With Others

Cathy Vartuli from as she asks Reid Mihalko from how to balance feeling special in a group. Cathy: Hi everyone, this is Cathy Vartuli from, and we're here with Reid Mihalko from Hi Reid. Reid: Hi. Cathy: I have a question for you. People like to feel special and you have a great product on jealousy. If there's just two people it's pretty easy in general [...]

By | 2016-01-04T06:10:41+00:00 July 16, 2012|Dating, Jealousy, Relationship Skills|

Difficult Conversations Video

Join Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex as he discusses Difficult Conversations with Cathy Vartuli from . You can find the Difficult Conversations article here: (not safe for all work places, with lots of other juicy content) or (safe for work, with other articles about intimacy). Cathy: Hi everyone, this is Cathy Vartuli from and we're here with reidabout -- I did it again. We are here with [...]

By | 2016-04-12T23:49:38+00:00 July 7, 2012|Uncategorized|