Dating

When You’re Dating Someone New, Should You Sleep With Them Right Away?

When You're Dating Someone New, Should You Sleep With Them Right Away? Fuck first, or wait awhile? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com, Yoni Alkan from http://www.ElementsofSexuality.com, Liz Powell from http://www.SexPositivePsych.com and Caroline Carrington from http://www.JewelInTheLotusCoaching.com, with special guest, sexy librarian! @DrYoniAlkan @sexpospsych @JewelotusTantra https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v-pvB5fuA_A Liz: So when you’re dating someone new, should you have sex with them first or make them wait awhile? I’m Liz Powell from http://www.SexPositivePsych.com/   Cathy: I’m Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/ [...]

By | 2017-08-28T18:26:16+00:00 April 12, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Do You Find The Confidence and Courage To Own All Of You When You’re Out There Dating?

How Do You Find The Confidence and Courage To Own All Of You When You're Out There Dating? How do you say "I'm disabled," or "I'm a bigger woman," and own the things that sadly some people don't sometimes see as valuable when dating? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Robin Wilson Beattie from http://www.sexAbledwithRobinWB.com How Do You Find The Confidence and Courage To Own All Of You When You're Out [...]

By | 2017-08-28T18:15:49+00:00 April 9, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

Is It All About Looks When You’re Dating?

How much do looks matter when you're out there dating? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: We did a video a few months ago about status, how people have different status something you should consider when you’re dating. Someone replied and said forget status it’s all about looks. This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Handsome is the day’s long, this is Cathy Vartuli from [...]

By | 2017-05-12T15:40:23+00:00 February 5, 2018|Body Image, Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Shame, Touch|

What Is INCEL and Why Do People Use The Term?

What's the meaning of INCEL? Are there undateable people? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8EWmIBhf1Ck Cathy: Do you know what “Incel” means?  And how to use it? Reid: How do you spell it? Cathy:  I-N-C-E-L. Reid:  Google it! Google fuckin’ exist. This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Reid: Before you Google things, If you’re some junior, what’s ‘Incel’? [...]

By | 2017-05-09T16:08:10+00:00 September 8, 2017|Body Image, Dating, Event, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame, Touch, Trauma|

Is It Possible To Be “Undateable”?

When do you label a person as undateable? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cjyf3YQlumM Cathy: Is there anyone undateable? This is Reid Mihalko from http://reidaboutsex.com/ Reid: Cathy Vatuli from the http://theintimacydojo.com/ Cathy: And BBC did a documentary called the Undateables, people that no ones dating and the person wrote in just find that people were just too older, too ugly for anyone to ever want [...]

By | 2017-05-09T15:33:53+00:00 August 30, 2017|Body Image, Dating, Energy, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Trauma|

What’s A Respectful Way To End A Date And Close The Evening?

Wanting to end the connection for the evening in a loving and respectful way? Learn how with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GCYKV21YooU Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, I’d like to see of examples of respectful goodbye rituals from long term partners to unhook from each other and smooth out their own Velcro hooks so they can go well and return keenly. Do you have [...]

By | 2017-05-04T16:04:26+00:00 July 19, 2017|Dating, Event, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

What Happens If Your Love Life Withers… Can You Bring It Back?

If desire goes away, can you revive it? With Elizabeth Wood and Dan Powers from http://www.BeyondTheBedroom.com and Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: What happens when your love life dies and withers? Can you ever bring it back? I'm here with Elizabeth Wood and Dan Powers from http://www.BeyondTheBedroomEvents.com/ and I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com/. Elizabeth: Great question. Do you want to talk personal experience, or do you want to just talk [...]

By | 2017-05-03T14:53:27+00:00 July 4, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills|

If You’re Enthusiastic Does That Mean You Aren’t Cool?

How cool and enthusiastic can you be? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: So this is a little bit of a vulnerable discussion about being a cool kid and how enthusiastic to be. This is Reid Mihalko from http://ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Yeah! Cathy: He’s very enthusiastic. Reid: And very cool. Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://TheIntimacyDojo.com. Playin’ it… Cathy: So, I’ve been moved out to [inaudible 00:00:24]. [...]

By | 2017-05-03T01:13:37+00:00 June 7, 2017|Dating, Energy|

Bored On A Date? What Do You Do?

How would you tell your date that you are bored? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: What do you if your date bores you? Reid: Go on a second date! No! Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: And what would you do if your date bored you? Reid: I would say, “This is been a lovely evening…” Cathy: [...]

By | 2017-05-03T00:43:22+00:00 June 4, 2017|Dating, Flirting|

Feel Sorry For Someone But Just Not Into Dating Them?

How would you break bad news to someone? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo and Reid Mihalko and http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.   Cathy: So we just did a video about how to tell someone your dating that you’re just not into them. Now how do you do that when they might have something either you feel sorry for them about or they’re struggling with or either kind of using that or you’re just [...]

By | 2017-05-03T00:28:40+00:00 June 1, 2017|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills|