Difficult Conversations

If You Don’t Want To Have Sex With Your Partner… Should You?

Do you tell your partner if you're not in the mood to have sex? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Welcome back. Or if this is the first video that you are watching. Welcome for the first time.  Cathy: We are talking about how you can talk to your partner about not wanting to have sex, and do it in the most loving way [...]

By |2016-01-04T09:33:49+00:00June 24, 2016|Dating, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame|

What If You Tell A HUGE Lie?

How do you clean it up if you tell a big lie, and don't know what to do? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: We have a video about what to do if you tell a lie and get caught in it. Why did you do that?  Reid: I do that when I lie.  Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.  Reid: Cathy Vartuli [...]

By |2016-01-05T08:02:29+00:00June 21, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Trauma|

Do You Get Silent When You’re Disappointed? Can You Reclaim Your Voice?

Silence doesn't often get us what we want, and can leave people feeling disempowered. How can you share when you're disappointment? Find out with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, thanks for doing this video, it's about handling disappointment. Then she said, I usually stay silent when I'm disappointed. I'm finding that only causes pain and helpless feelings. I'm middle aged and trying [...]

By |2016-01-04T07:51:50+00:00May 22, 2016|Dating, Relationship Skills|

When Is It Time To Pull Out?

Knowing the sensations just before you come give you greater control and possibility during sex. With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Reid: Focus! What are we working on? This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com.  Cathy: This is Reid Mihalko for http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.  Reid: We have a question.  Cathy: You actually started this as a joke, but I actually want to know. How do you know [...]

By |2016-01-04T09:32:40+00:00May 19, 2016|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Touch|

Keep Running Into An Ex-Friend And Feel Drawn To Reconnect?

If you're in the same social circle and keep running into an ex-friend... How do you not get pulled in again? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: All right. Someone wrote in and said that they watched our video about talking about conflict.  Reid: We love when you write in!  Cathy: Yes.  Reid: Keep writing in.  Cathy: She said it actually went really [...]

By |2016-01-07T09:00:25+00:00May 16, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks, Shame, Trauma|

How Do You Take Care Of Yourself After You Run Events?

After you put out a lot of energy and make sure everyone has a magical experience at your event, how do you take care of yourself? How can you bounce back and recharge? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com.   Reid: What are your after care needs when you run events? After what? Cathy: Knowing how you like to celebrate and wind down is [...]

By |2016-01-04T08:36:34+00:00May 10, 2016|Event, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Do You Know When To Cancel An Event And When To Push Forward?

Life events or low attendance can make it challenging to go forward with a planned event. How do you know when to pull out? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com.   Reid: How do you know when it's time to pull out? Cathy: Of an event. Reid: Of an event. This is business advice because I'm wearing my "Sex Geek Summer Camp" T-shirt, which [...]

By |2016-01-08T05:53:46+00:00May 7, 2016|Event, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Can You Really Just Watch Your Partner Sleep With Someone Else?

If your partner wants to sleep with someone else, does it work for you to watch? Or does that make you feel bad? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: Someone wrote in and said, "What's wrong with you dude? You just sit there and watch while someone else fucked your girl?" and while the language wasn't very polite I really think there's a [...]

By |2016-01-07T09:04:00+00:00May 1, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Jealousy, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Business Exit Strategies Part II

Even if you're business is going great, having an exit strategy can help strengthen it and help you get your needs met. Learn how with Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Reid: Exit Strategies II, Part 2, which means there's Part 1, so go check out Part 1 so you can jump in on this one. I'm Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and Sex Geek Summer [...]

By |2016-01-04T09:01:27+00:00April 16, 2016|Collaborators, Event, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

If You Had To Exit A Business Agreement, How Would You Do It?

Exit strategies for business are smart and savvy. How do you create them and how do they help? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com and http://SexGeekSummerCamp.com. Cathy: Do you have exit strategies for your business?  Reid: How do you escape!?  Cathy: Is that what you're trying to do?  Reid: Escape!  Cathy: It kind of looks like you might be having-  Reid: I'm like in a straitjacket. [...]

By |2016-01-04T08:33:25+00:00April 13, 2016|Collaborators, Event, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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