Flirting

Taking and Receiving: With Betty Martin

There is give and take in every relationship. Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com interviews Betty Martin from http://www.BettyMartin.org about making taking and receiving consciously. Cathy: Today, we're talking about taking and receiving. I'm here with Betty Martin from http://www.BettyMartin.org. I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Betty, why is it important for people to understand the difference between giving and receiving? Betty: That's a great question, and that's one that's really very often confusing [...]

By |2016-01-19T13:15:33+00:00February 20, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Intimacy and Connection: Allowing, with Betty Martin

There is give and take in every relationship. Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com interviews Betty Martin from http://www.BettyMartin.org about Allowing. Cathy: Hi, everyone. I'm Cathy Vartuli from www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. You're with Betty Martin from www.BettyMartin.org. We're going to be talking about 'allowing' now. Betty, why is that important? Why do we need to talk about this? Betty: Because it is so fun. That's why. Cathy: (Laughing). I love talking about fun things. [...]

By |2016-04-14T11:34:43+00:00February 17, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Playing with Touch and Intimacy: with Betty Martin

There is give and take in every relationship. Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com interviews Betty Martin from http://www.BettyMartin.org about playing with touch and intimacy. Cathy: I'm Cathy Vartuli from www.TheIntimacyDojo.com here with Betty Martin from www.BettyMartin.org. She's going to share the three-minute game with us. Hey, Betty. Betty: Hey! (Laugh). My favorite topic. Cathy: Is it? Betty: Yes. Pretty much. I'm writing a book on it. We've been talking with you [...]

By |2016-01-07T12:36:22+00:00February 14, 2016|Dating, Flirting|

Taking the Confusion Out of Giving Intimacy: With Betty Martin

Cathy: Hi everyone. I'm Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Here with Betty Martin fromhttp://www.BettyMartin.org. We're talking about giving. Now, have you ever been confused about giving and felt a little awkward about it? Betty is going to show us some ways to make it more clear and easy. Thanks, Betty. Betty: Thank you. First I want to define giving, because it can be thought of in a lot of ways. In our [...]

By |2016-01-08T06:07:12+00:00February 11, 2016|Dating, Energy, Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

How Do Seniors Meet Energetic Passionate Partners?

How do people in their 50's on up meet amazing partners? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: “What advice can you give someone to a senior person wanting to meet a partner that enjoy life with?” Reid: Okay. This is Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. Cathy: And Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: Aha! We have been seniors, it was like in high school or college. So [...]

By |2016-01-07T09:18:53+00:00February 5, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills|

Do You Need To Pinch The Tip When You Put On A Condom?

How important is it to pinch the tip of the condom when you put it on? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Reid: This one goes [inaudible 00:00:06] this one goes [inaudible 00:00:07] because it's muffled, because it's got a condom on it. Okay, last condom video, we didn't talk about pinching the tip to roll it out. Pinch the tip, because you don't want air [...]

By |2016-01-07T08:42:18+00:00January 23, 2016|Dating, Event, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

Can Being Too Dry Cause The Condom To Tear?

Will the condom tear if you don't have enough lube? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.   Cathy: There it goes. So someone wrote in and said she is inexperienced having multiple-partner sex. She's ... Reid: She's inexperienced having multiple-partnered sex? Cathy: Yeah. So she had some questions. Reid: Multi partners, meaning more than one person in the bed? Cathy: Mm-hmm (affirmative). Reid: Excellent. Cathy: Yes, [...]

By |2016-01-07T08:43:23+00:00January 20, 2016|Dating, Flirting, Relationship Skills|

Can You Tell When The Condom Breaks During Intercourse?

Can you feel it when the condom breaks or tears during intercourse? What can you pay attention to? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com.   Cathy: Can a man feel if a condom tears while he's having intercourse? One of our readers, or watchers, wrote in and asked us. This is Reid Mihalko for http://ReidAboutSex.com with his coffee. Reid: This is Cathy Vartuli, the coffee-less Cathy [...]

By |2016-01-07T08:44:44+00:00January 14, 2016|Dating, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|

If You Giggle When You’re Nervous, How Do You Let People Know You’re Not Flirting?

Do you giggle and laugh when you feel nervous? Do people think you're flirting? What can you do? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com. and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: We had someone write in and say that … well she’s really shy, she tends to smile and laugh when people flirt with her. Reid: We switched sides. That’s going to screw everybody up. Cathy: Yeah. Reid: What were you saying? [...]

By |2016-06-23T11:57:19+00:00January 11, 2016|Dating, Flirting|

Want To Let Someone Know You’re In An Open Relationship?

Can you graciously and flirtatiously let someone know you're in an open relationship? With Cathy Vartuli from http://www.TheIntimacyDojo.com and Reid Mihalko from http://www.ReidAboutSex.com. Cathy: How do you let someone know graciously and flirtatiously that you might be ... that you are in an open relationship and that you might be interested in them? Reid: I don't know. Cathy: Oh hey! Reid: I'm in an open relationship, how about you? Cathy: [...]

By |2016-01-05T08:08:15+00:00December 27, 2015|Flirting, Relationship Skills, Sex Geeks|
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